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Does anyone else get hard when they bottom?
norefusal replied to jmw003's topic in General Discussion
when i was younger id get hard all the time but i was also more choosy about my tops and bottomed most to enhance my own orgasm so it was all very male and selfish. the older i got the more i started living in the moment and enjoying bottoming for the fuck. as i slowly morphed into a no cock refused sub bottom slut my own dick became less and less important and rarely gets hard. i usually wear a jock to help hide it. sometimes after the fuck(s) ill realize that the pouch is full of a load i leaked out while enjoying the fuck. it's in these moments i feel most like a bitch w a cunt. -
to be fair: i read posts here all the time that sound an awful lot like rape but then end with "it was so hot im hard just retelling it" so.... sexual assault is in the eye of the recipient also, no one but himself is shaming him for fucking stormy. his denial of the obvious is shame based. same w e. jean. he's not even bothering saying he thought it was consensual. he's literally saying he never met the woman and trust me, 0 people believe him. the only reason we had to hear details in court is his stupid denial no jury believes. instead we all got to hear a porn star describe how she white knuckled her way thru really bad sex she didn't enjoy. yet more evidence of his decision making skills.
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yes, was this event mismanagement, or just the other participants were jerks?
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you've got 3 possible outcomes here: 1. never try it and spend the rest of your life wondering what's it's like to have a guys hard dick in yo mouth 2. try it. realize it's not for you. move on w your life. 3. try it. realize it's your new favorite thing. trust me, there will never be a shortage of guys wanting their dick sucked for free 😜
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help me with the math here: so big pharma had the technology and knowledge to create a new deadly virus in order to make money off the remedy. but they had no remedy, no product for sale ready to go. so they just went ahead and unleashed a virus on the public and only then began throwing $$$$ at scientists in order to invent a remedy, which took years and years and countless $$$ not to mention the initial investment in order to engineer the virus. and they willing spent a decade herroraging $$ in faith that the eventual remedy would make them profits beyond recouping expense? are they drug addicts? because that doesn't sound like logical business investing to me. it's literally chaos. and just exactly how evil does one have to be to be ok with mass death over time just for potential profit?
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honestly, my entire life is ruled by FOMO for better or worse. i don't know if the apps feed it or not. i do know the door open face down ass up nights i spent at the bathouse were 100% FOMO but the apps just helped it along. one night a guy off grindr came to the baths just to fuck me, which i agreed to because the dozens of men milling about all night didn't seem to be fucking anyone.
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this was never my problem but it is perhaps a generational thing. back in my day, only ugly dudes wasted hours in the gym gettin all ripped. they did this so they'd have a chance at getting laid since most guys like you have this irrational prejudice against those who didn't win the gene lottery. they also tended to be so grateful that a gl guy was giving them a shot, they tended to be generous and attentive lovers. very quickly into my sexual career the Butter Face became my go to type for great sex - got a nice dick you know how to use? who gives a fuck about the face, i ain't takin him to prom! it boggles my mind to see younger guys deciding that the way to gender equality is for men to adopt shallow obsessions with physical appearances, body dimorphism, eating disorders and all.
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not yet. i find that if i get tricked deep and long, it makes me feel like i gotta pee. then when i try, my prostate is so over stimulated im lucky if a small dribble comes out. a few times i made the mistake of taking a fuck break to go pee. now i'm like fuck it, if i piss myself, i piss myself. but it hasn't happened yet.
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i'd love to see the demographics behind these results! we really have become a culture of cum addicts.
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when i went to SA a 12 step program where they called themselves addicts, they really did tell stories of multiple job losses, divorces, arrests, etc it was pretty off the hook and scared me away thinking "gee, maybe i just get laid a lot" my behavior at the time was compulsive as i was single and couldn't stop having nsa anon hook ups even tho it felt like eating junk food for dinner every night. but the real reason i went is that i was non- planned passive bug chasing. the more i hooked up the more i was bb raw and it was just a matter of time before id be poz even if it was anything even close to a stated or even fantasized desire. i guess "raw is law" is more a preference than a compulsion or addiction since there are safe ways to bb, but i wasn't sticking to those. it felt like acting out due to stress triggered from a setback.
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wow. honestly, this sounds like 3 divas making a simple hook up into a fucking tv mini series of drammmmmaaaa! he's needy and an emotional manipulator and check yourself before this guy drives a wedge between you and your partner you're also a bit needy. stop making his need for self care about you feeling rejected. if he needs to pull away and have some alone time, why not just respect that. and altho your partner is right this guy is making a simple hook up into a fucking life altering event, wanting to push him over the simp edge by locking his dick up and relishing the idea of him crawling back for more is cringe. maybe corrupting subs isn't the healthiest new hobby?
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Hot, Then Not
norefusal commented on FelchingPisser's blog entry in From My Side of the Sling--Breeding Zone Edition
yeah, and you seem to have the right attitude but still. cruising areas really do show who was raised right and who wasn't. -
this is one of those things i struggle with. i used to go religiously when younger but once i hit middle age i started slacking off. now it's similar to eating healthy or partying in moderation: im constantly trying to get back into routine but no sooner do i start i relapse and go off on a binge/bender. my last set back was when i moved and had to adjust to a new gym. well, today is my 1 year anniversary of paying for a new gym i've never gone to lol the whole "moving is time consuming" excuse is officially a joke now. i literally need cher to bitch slap me so i can snap otta it 😜
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Gay porn and favourite introductory story
norefusal replied to Philip's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
basic plot from my fav 90s porno: two hot guys cruise in park, fuck, then hot police officers "undercover" in daisydukes and wife beaters jump out and arrest one (the other escapes). hairy muscle cop takes "criminal" back to police station while smooth muscle cop is jonesing to catch more "perverts" so heads to public toilet where he immediately hooks up an asian twink before flashing his badge while the twink struggles to throat his massive uncut cock. twink says " hey, that's entrapment!" and cop says "yeah, but i'm still gonna fuck you" and they're off. after they both finish cop says "now get otta here before i change my mind" back at police station main protagonist refuses to confess his crimes and instead gives an impassioned pro-sex speech about promiscuity being true freedom that totally mind fucks hairy cop. hero is locked up where he immediately fucks cell mate while horny cop on duty watches and jerks. hairy cop is so confused he goes out and has hot sex in his corvette cabrio with some rondo he picks up. in a crisis of consciousness hairy cop releases hero the next day dropping all charges. the two go back to hairy cop's house where the hero fucks the shit out of him and he loves it. the end. 😜 -
hmm not exactly. i've always loved wearing other guys clothes, but it didn't seem overtly sexual. in fact ive probably wore way more str8 guy friend's clothes than any bf or fb i've ever had. i've never made the connection b4 but why did it please me so much to wear my str8 friend's clothes? did i subconsciously want them to fuck me? sexually, i do like if a hook up makes me wear his used jock or really any underware, but the few times it's been ordered or requested, it was a jock.
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Were you born a cocksucker? Or made one?
norefusal replied to blackfeeder's topic in Cocksucking Discussion
this really depends on how one defines "cocksucker" i was born a gay man. but the boy w bbc who lured me into a public bathroom as a teen to be taught how to deepthroat like a faggot made me a cock sucker. i suck off my husband because i was born this way. but i wander the park in search of randoms to pull my hair while they skull fuck me because i was made a proud cocksucker -
for at least a year now i can't cum unless i'm imagining i'm getting pozzed
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Bitch, Fag, Slave, or Object: what are you or what do you like?
norefusal replied to subbytch's topic in General Discussion
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omg i'm in the group with the absolute lowest % lol what a weirdo 😜
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yeah just like there's a difference between eating and having an eating disorder. its a literal necessity for life and yet an ED can kill you. i don't think anyone's going around saying they're a "sex addict" just because they got laid a few times this week. you don't start self labeling until you've reached the point where you feel you've lost rational control. usually the problem behavior is well established long before you start calling it things only to have the grammar police tell you you've mislabel your own neurosis 😜
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give me a frickin break ive binge watched a lot of shows: not a one of them has inspired me to go on a crime spree or become an ad exec or cheat on my spouse etc yet i'd pop a porn tape in and half way thru i'd purposefully stop jackin off and run over to one of the local cruising spot to recreate the random risky scenes of public often bb sex w strangers collecting mid-century ceramics wasn't a gateway to anything yet grindr hookups lead me directly to T last nite i ate two brownies despite being allergic to chocolate. but that didn't seem like a self- sabatage acting out like the previous nite i DMed a guy off sniffies cause he hinted he was toxic and willing to poz. bug chasing is not stamp collecting
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addiction. compulsion. bicycle. waffle. call it whatever the fuck you want. it's still going to be behavior you can't seem to control dispute it having tangible negative impacts on your life. what is the agreed upon label we can use in order to start discussing how "sex compulsion" leads directly to "drug addiction" in so much of the lgbtq population? or are we all experimenting w T or G because it makes watching baseball with our dads so much more fun?
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i can't even imagine what my life would be like if i didn't go w the flow. half my experiences would never have been lived. my biggest issue w sites is the lack of follow thru. i recently chatted w a nice guy who said he was part of a couple looking for a regular 3way fwb, so wanted to meet for a drink first to see if we all vibed. this made perfect sense to me and i wasn't even all "we fucking rn or what?!" because it's possible to do parallel paths. i agreed to meet sometime, while also DMing other guys to come tuck me rn. my only regret is the trail went stale. tbh if they're anything like most couples, he really wanted the 3 way and the hubby didn't thus all the "maybe. we'd have to meet first. no not him. no not tonight." etc
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well that's an interesting form of control and abuse: they decide when u cum and then fuck u at the one moment of the day u least feel like getting fucked. def a power move 😜
