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same my first was also bbc but i think id prefer that regardless what really sticks in my mind about that first time that i seem to always be searching to recreate is that despite being my age he was much more experienced and so took an instant in-charge attitude and even started training me on how to do it properly. i still love dom guys "making" me do faggot things 😜

welcome to the club. keep at it and eventually you'll be gettin throat fucked like the rest of us hos 😈

i tend to keep my profiles purposefully vague and love hooking up w guys who give little to no info up front. if a guy asks a lot of questions, requests a lot of pics etc it's a huge turn off i guess the day i accidentally fuck a cousin or something will be a chance to reevaluate my stance but after several years, the closest i've come is the time i accidentally hooked up w a regular FB we had met on a dif app and after a while exchanged phone #s and periodically hooked up for over a year. we did get to know each other a bit but thruthfully, we mostly followed a routine. he'd randomly hit me up, i'd come right over undress quickly and bend over the edge of the bed. he'd fuck me sometimes for almost an hr before breeding and then i'd dress and go. he moved house and i don't know if that even matters but around this time he seemed to go off me. i hooked up w a guy on another app (neither of us share much info in our profiles) and agreed to host, door open, ass up blindfolded. it wasn't until mid fuck that i recognized it was him. lol not if he recognized me or when but we never spoke of it. when he was done he left wout a word and i never saw him again. tbh i was ok w this because mid fuck the dime actually dropped and i started to put 2+2. the almost endless fucking, the profuse sweating dripping off him onto my back, the initial 3am "sup" dm followed by all night fucking,.the secretive lifestyle. i was regularly gettin plowed by a meth head and didn't even realize it lol long story short, i love being a pig and the ones who need to know it are like minded pigs who are dtf 😜

when i was young the possibility of getting beat up by a trick was real, so this wasn't common and i would not have liked it if it happened. once i came out it seemed important to be openly gay w dignity so i kinda deprived myself of a lot of fun kink. i just wasnt in that mindset. now that im older, more confident, more bored w vanilla sex and society in general seems more open, im into pretty much everything and anything. i hooked up w a hot hairy beast a few years ago and i actually asked him to slap me. i'd been watching a lot of bdsm porn and really wanted to explore the dynamic. he was really good at it and i loved it. not just the whole dom/sub vibe but there is something about a hard open palm bitch slap across the face that somehow just makes you feel so alive. anyways, i've learned the hard way that these things are best when they happen organically. nothing is worse than asking to be hit and the guy is like "ew, i don't do that sort of stuff". call me bitch and faggot and choke me and i'll blow my load. kink shame me and i feel 2" tall. just the worst.

for various reasons i hadn't been fooling around for a couple of months. perhaps i got rusty? 😜 out of town for thanksgiving i decided to do door unlocked waiting. i'd done similar at home or at a hook up's but never in a hotel before. no sooner had the headless anon torso w the big dick dmed "almost there" i suddenly began to panic. alone in a strange town? what was i thinking? it wasnt even a hotel but a small B&B so the other guests were like roommates, able to hear. if he tried to rob or beat me, would i call for their help? i needed a plan just in case my luck was up. best case scenario, he was legit but would the str8 couple from the midwest still look me in the eye at breakfast tomorrow? face down ass up in the dark, i heard the front door open, the footsteps on the creaky old steps, the ridiculous haunted house like squeal of my room's door and then the presence behind me, the sound of belt being unbuckled, pants being unzipped.. this was it, the moment it went in one direction or the other i felt the hand squeeze an ass cheek, then come down w a hard smack. the plop as a hefty schlong landed atop my crack. the deep "just so you know what you gonna be gettin" followed by a few more dick slaps on ass. i could hear lube being applied and then the fat head pressing against my hole. i'd like to say i winced in pain when he entered, but who am i fooling. the whole thing just slipped right in as i savored the raw dick of a complete stranger, no questions asked, bare up my ass. fucking is one of the few tasks i've been able to get close to mindfulness on. just relishing the in n out sensations not letting my mind rush ahead or away. no sounds but the increasingly ragged breath of us both. just as things got heated, he spoke for the 2nd and last time "you want this load? tell me you want this load! get ready! ah ah ah" then the beginning but in rewind: the plop of a fat cock dropping out of a stretched hole, the zipping up, the belt buckled, the squeaky door, the receding steps, the closing of the front door and then just me.. alone, in the dark, ass up, full of an unseen stranger's cum.

random is way 🔥🔥er because of the unknown. you really have no idea what you're gonna get, just that it will be something new. additional perks are that it makes you feel more of a whore, and the risks are greater. blindfolded anon is the best imho 😈

this kink started when i first came out in my 20s. the limited m2m sex id had previously was w hot guys and the sex w women was very showy in a sort of "look how well i can do" way so when i got my first clique of gay friends to go out w, the stakes were high - any public hook up had to be w a hottie but im also a sucker for an aggressive guy. one time this hideous guy m2ed me at a party and it was so 🔥and even 🔥er when i realized none of my friends saw. after that i loved secretly hook up w fugly guys. especially once i started BBing, no troll was too hideous to rawdog me - the uglier the better. back then BB was humiliating enough but to risk it w shrek? especially if he kinda forced it on you! so 🔥knowing the look of disgust on the others' faces if they knew likewise, even if he's not fugly, there's something so humiliating about servicing the dick of a real Dick you just hate but will still be a sub faggot for 🔥🔥

one of the benefits of trying everything and anything with countless men over many years is that eventually you'll hook up w a guy who knows how to do right that which you previously found not good using dildos on myself? zzzz but a few big dicked dom tops have recently shown me the joy of them using dildos to stretch my hole so i can open up quicker and really let them go deep 🔥🔥🔥 one guy DPed me by holding an 8" toy parallel to his own bbc. would like ve to try that again! 😈

nowhere public enough lol once a couple years I sucked a guy's dick on the dance floor at a gay bar and no one even batted an eye but the best was once, back in the 90s, i wet the dick of this guy in the toillet stall of the ladies room of a mixed dance club. he then bent me over the bowl and barracked my ass. i told him to make sure to pull out but he said "no. if i'm gonna cum, i'm gonna cum in this ass" i came all over the toilet seat and started to wipe it up but he said "leave it!" and pulled me out of the stall. ,as we rushed out i was not just full of the thrill and shame of unsafe sex but as we rushed out all the girls in line hurled insults at us for hogging a stall for m2m sex while they had to pee. i think i turned red w shame and i loved it 😜

i like variety if i'm fucking a guy good and he's really starting to open up, i like to take a min or 2 to repeatedly fully pull out and ram back in balls deep before returning to the regular rhythm . if he's sloppy n wet at this point it's all good. but trying to fuck a dry hole clamped shut like a vice is like trying to drill a concrete wall. if he's not turned on forget it, the battering will send your boner into duck n cover mode. likewise, if i'm all turned on, the biggest porn schlong will just slide right in like my ass is a cunt that just had a baby. if even a small dick hurts it's cause the too rushed it too soon.

1. i've had so much sex w so many people over the years, i now need something new, edgier etc vanilla just don't cut it anymore 2. ive probably always been a depraved slut (born this way) but becoming an adult, losing your cherry, coming out ... these were all big deals. i just wasn't emotionally ready to be my true true self yet. baby steps 😜

i like to drop trousers at a random truck stop. something about a unknown hairy dad, no words spoken, just shoving his raw dick up your ass, unloading and walking away, his unwanted kids deep in your guts. youre a guy but he just used u like a cunt. now he's headin home for family dinner w the wife n kids. you're not even his side bitch, just some dumb faggot he made his bitch once, used n forgotten.

facials, especially in a public cruising area where others can see. having your bf jizz all over your face is humiliating enough, but walking out of a crushing area with a random strangers load dripping down your face is the best if you're into humiliation.

i'm gonna opt out just because my ex husband and i traveled a lot and fucking the same guy in multiple countries doesn't count 😜also, the world was a different place when i was younger and not only was it harder to find guys in an unfamiliar place pre- internet, but the anti-gay laws and high chance of getting beaten up were real. too real to risk for most of us.

i think you guys are overthinking this. they both have to not only attract new voters but ensure turn out of base. she seems to be doing more to poach his former voters and he seems to be doing more to rile up his base. getting black men to commit to voting dem is nothing more than shoring up their base and not losing an election due to poor turnout. she needs obama level turnout so getting obama to pep rally his base to vote for her makes sense.

i'm not prissy but i'm practical. some WS guys can get all gas station fight from zoolander about it and no judgement but there nothing sexy about your house smelling like a nursing home. i'm more the drink from the tap and never waste a drop type 😜 anyways, my one time anally was one of those after a long session he breeds deeps and then instead of pulling out, just unloads his bladder inside. it's sorta akin to cleaning his dick off after kinda feeling of thankful subservience

luckily this question pops up less and less as the years pass. my answer was usually some version of "one of the benefits of being gay is we don't have to follow all those weird restrictive rules of gender conduct that stifles you straight people so much. we can make up our own rules."

yup. it's a 2 part problem. even if you want to, it's surprising hard to piss on command. a type of bladder shyness often kicks in. i've experienced it once and it was great just as others have described. but in this case, we were both spun so that not only enable my friend, who was previously weary of such requests, to be relaxed enough to willingly comply, but the chem piss enema also gave me an instant head rush that flew me higher than a kite. but that now makes me more cautious about anon WS in general as i have to assess if the thrill is worth the hell of relapse.

currently, yes. it's my new fav kink 😈 in the past, no interest. who knows what the future will hold but for right now, i get off on it.

apples and oranges ironically, i was more fearful of becoming a dad than getting AIDS lol is your friend on prep? is she on the pill? it wouldn't surprise me if these guys aren't also more worried about pregnancy than STIs especially in this post-dobs world of women bleeding out in parked cars. what a fucking nightmare. but just my own experience i feel str8 guys are more apt to be secret cheaters vs gays in open relationships so even if you have to take pills for 10 days after an oopsie i fell like this is a much less dramatic convo with your husband that your wife/baby momma.

my fav position to get fucked in is doggy but i love to flip over to missionary when he's gettin close, not just for the eye contact, but the whole visual of the body language as he's about to erupt and i love seeing a guy's cum face as he unloads in me

did we ever come to some consensus on how we're doing the math? if i start w the first dick i took up my ass until today, subtract the years i was married and monogamous, that's 15 years. 15 years x 52 weeks = 780. did i get fucked by 1 to 2 different guys a week over all that time? entirely possible. although w my luck, the actual # is probably 999, so no prize rewarded 😜

he was. apparently inside Walter Mitty's fastasy world, there was an election where he won cruising area president by a landslide. he takes his duties seriously, hence he just had to "side-splain" to you how cruising works. don't listen. getting bred by randos in a public spot is some of best sex! there are no rules and if there were, he's not the official gatekeeper. it's actually most of the thrill: breaking "rules", getting barebacked by a stranger in public where other can see. that being said: be aware that he won't be the last cruiser to say "no bufu" when offering up your hole. there are as many reasons as there are different kinds of guys: ones who think BJs aren't "cheating" but fucking is, ones who think BJs aren't "gay" but fucking is, ones who think public BJs are a minor infraction but fucking in public is a high crime, etc one place near my old house was popular with dads seeking oral action, but when i offered one guy my ass he said no and went off on an oral history of the site and how years ago the police used to raid it, make arrests etc. hearing about the olden days where gays used to have to walk 10 miles uphill both ways just to blown is no substitute for dick up the ass but there ya have it in the early days i was weary of cruising the woods alone after dark, but the flip side is a lot more fucking happens after sundown

first few times was ok. but i think i was taking it after sex just before bed. this last time i didn't think to take it till the next am after i woke up. took it on an empty stomach, got nauseous and almost threw up. ate some crackers and it eventually subsided.

and yet the whole system is gamed the opposite. my feed is so clogged w the same nat info i know by heart already and yet frantic last minute searches for info, any info about the locals, who they are and what they think is like searching for a needle in a haystack.