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This happens to me too! Thanks for the tip about the pliers! I had been known to ask the reception to change my hotel room if I couldn't remove the shower head easily. LOL. Pliers solves that.

There are quite a few threads on here that talk about how to best clean out for sex. People talk about eating a diet high in fiber and things like chia seeds, psyllium husk, Metamucil and Pure for Men to bulk up stools. I've even seen talk of hoses, bulbs and other things designed to get water into the rectum and flush out poop. I don't think I've seen anything on here about the angle at which we poop. With that, here's a funny video about the Squatty Potty: (I actually bought one...and I'm sold on it because it allows me to clean out faster for sex). Even if you think this is crazy, at least allow yourself to be entertained by the video. And if you cringed at the end when the kids eat the ice cream, you are not alone. I cringed too.

...to all reading this thread, please bow your heads and pray with me... Dear Lord, I come to you and ask that you wrap your loving arms around me and protect me from seen and unseen harm. Send your angels to watch over this thread, dear Lord, because I fear that my fellow brethren are going to tell some kinky stories here that I won't be able to erase from my mind once I read them... ... Here's my contribution... I have a bud who is fully versatile. He likes to invite a top and a bottom over for sex. As soon as the top breeds him, he pushes some of the cum out, lubes his dick and then breeds the bottom. Sex with him is totally unpredictable. Sometimes we'd strip naked and flip fuck in the woods. Or he would invite another guy over and have him hide in another room, without telling me, and the guy would emerge from the room with a boner and fuck me. He'd take an anal load in front of me and ask me to felch it out. He'd stop at a rest stop and demand we fuck in the toilet. He loves sloppy seconds and shoots multiple loads if your hole is preloaded. During a threesome with him, I experienced what it was like to have a guy shoot in my ass and in my mouth at the same time. Nothing vanilla about this guy AT ALL. He has a boyfriend now, so I'm wondering if he is still a freaky ass hoe.

I really wish doctors would not slut shame people. Most STIs are not a big deal. It's far worse to be out here fucking a ton of guys and never getting tested and treated! Encourage those who come in for treatment to spread the word about getting tested! Don't lecture. OK now I'm lecturing. LOL. Regarding CumUnion, it's worth going once if it's on your bucket list. You just have to be very observant of what's going on around you and insist on a certain level of hygiene. Whenever I saw a top washing up or wiping his dick off, I was not worried about playing with him. Bottoms should be on the lookout for the guys who are rough-fucking and ripping up other bottoms' holes and getting traces of infected blood on their dicks. That's where the Hep C risk skyrockets. I used to go to this one party in a sauna that was pretty much non-stop bare fucking...BUT the organizers had TONS of rolls of paper towels everywhere and people used them. I never caught ANYTHING. I'm sure guys would be willing to pay a few extra bucks for paper towels if it meant they could avoid a trip to the clinic afterwards.

When the very first post from someone is a story like this one, I think the person actually hates what this site is about and decided to post something like this to play on our collective intelligence.

I find that as soon as I go out of town I get messages from guys in my hometown wanting to fuck. I could scream.

I think a couple of factors contribute to younger guys hooking up with older guys. 1) Technology in the form of apps makes it much easier to meet. The young guys don't have to go to public places like bars and saunas where the older men may be, which means that they can fuck them discreetly without their younger friends knowing about it. 2) I also think the young guys aren't looking at the older guy as relationship material so there's no stress or expectations of dating. I could see young straight men doing the same with older women. She can't get pregnant, is happy to get some dick, and for social reasons or fear of what others will say or think, she isn't looking to be seen out in public with the younger guy. She's basically a Bust It Baby for him. LOL.

I also have a PhD plus 3 other degrees and speak several languages, so I guess that means I am smart too. LOL. And I'm a proud poz slut that takes anonymous loads (but not in groups...more on that below). My very unscientific theory is that people who lead high stress, highly buttoned up lives that require them to be "intellectuals" often have sexual fetishes that they almost need to live out in order to keep their brains from exploding and seeping out. Regarding PrEP: I'm generally for getting on it, but I wish there was more research out there on the long-term effects of it on the body. The poz guys have to take the drugs to stay alive, but as a neg guy, it would take a lot for me to take a drug to stay neg. What's next? Preventative chemo to stay cancer free? Some have mentioned above that PrEP won't spare you the other nasties that come with barebacking. That's very true. And while most guys are quick to brag about how many loads they are taking, not enough guys on here talk about the financial cost of having to be regularly treated for STDs as well as the hassle of taking time out of your schedule to see doctors and get treated - or the burden of having to inform your regular sex partners so that you aren't passing infections back and forth to each other. My only other advice that I can impart based on my own experience is to think long and hard before attending group sex parties like CumUnion and Biohazard. That's like 1000 times riskier. Yes my dick like yours gets hard at the thought of a room full of horny guys having bareback sex, but the reality is that most people at these parties are not disease free and often don't care about their health or passing along infections to others. I see the parties as a cesspool of infections. Why? Oftentimes, the tops are going from hole to hole without cleaning up in between, which creates near perfect conditions to transmit disease. When I think of the bottoms lined up on the fuckbench, I wonder how many of them really and truly want the diseases that the bottom NEXT to them has. Probably none of them. I got Hep C at one of these parties several years ago and thanks to a clinical trial was able to get cured last year. Otherwise, the treatment would have cost $90k. Hep C is already nasty if you're neg. If you're poz, it can be a nightmare. So study hard, work hard and play hard. Just be smart about it.

@xxww: It sounds like you've made up your mind, which is good. The only problem I guess is that life doesn't always bend to our rules. There are a lot of people out here who THINK they are in monogamous relationships but they are not. Many people (both sexes) think it's ok if they dip out on the side but their partner should not have that option. I laugh out loud at this. Assume that the man of your dreams came into your life tomorrow and you fell in love with him. He turns to you one day and says I love you and I want to be with you forever, but I need a little ass on the side from time to time. I will respect you. I won't do it in your face. I won't allow it to develop into a relationship. Would you end the relationship? Would you demote him to friends with benefits, thereby freeing him to form an emotional attachment to someone else? I think there are a lot of lonely, single people in this world because they want to control/own someone else. When we enter into relationships, we don't turn over the keys to our lives to someone else. There need to be some boundaries of course. But my sexual organs and what I choose to do with them are my decision. I'm willing to compromise, but no one is controlling me. I was in an open relationship for 3 years and one of the things that kept me sane when it ended was that at least I didn't lose 3 years of sexual freedom and I didn't kick my fuck buddies to the curb.

http://www.forttroff.com/product/74471_FT_SIT_N_STRETCH.html I mount it on the bathroom wall and open up my hole before my john arrives and then lube my hole...big dicked tops sink into my hole and it feels like jelly to them

One guy took a screenshot of my ass and posted a pic of him jerking off to it...for some reason I found this disturbing and I wouldn't meet with him again after that (ok the sex wasn't that great to be honest)... Another guy took a photo of my ass as he was fucking me bare and posted it to his BBRT profile with the caption "enjoying a hot chocolate ass". I found that hot. Go figure.

The only thing I can add here is that my doctor says that if you are on HIV meds, you can use Cialis, but the dosage needed is much lower because the combination of the two drugs makes the Cialis more potent. I have tried this and I believe it to be true. I certainly wouldn't combine Cialis and Viagra without consulting a medical professional. I have done poppers with Cialis, but as the others pointed out, I am very careful when I do.

It's a wonder gay men have any sex at all, especially if the hook-up originates online. First, the pics have to be acceptable. (Show me face with no sunglasses, body, dick, ass, left thigh, right thigh. I once had a guy say we have to do live cam before we meet. That's actually NOT a bad idea.) Second, the guy has to be sexually compatible with you. (I'm always puzzled when I as a versatile bottom get hit up by bottoms. Are the pickings that slim out here??? To me versatile bottom means I fuck only on the third Tuesday of every odd month from 5:02 to 6:13 pm or if I see somebody in person and they push all the right buttons.) Third, the guy must say the right things, or at least not say the wrong things. (I had a guy block me recently because I wouldn't accept to be injected with saline. Bitch, I barely let NURSES stick needles in me.) Fourth, the guy has to be willing to travel to you or you to him. (Who has found the perfect guy before but can't negotiate this?) Fifth, both actually have to be free and horny at the same time. (You'd be surprised at the number of people who will get you worked up only to say, can we meet day after tomorrow? NOPE, this coochie coupon expires in 15 minutes.) If you don't want to do the online mating dance, I guess the other options are: go to a bar with a darkroom, go to a sauna, go to a park/rest stop/cruising area, go to a sex cinema, go to a sex party, find a few regular fuck buds or find an escort. Traveling helps considerably because fresh meat is always welcome. So there you have it. We are spoiled with choice. We play too many games. Our standards are ridiculously high. We want it our way or it's the highway. If you want to get off, you better get offline. I ain't never lied and my invoice is in the mail. Thank you and have a good evening.

Dating is often about presenting the best version of yourself to others and hoping that the other person falls for you. It also involves being vulnerable. You can't be vulnerable or fall in love sitting behind a computer screen ordering up sex like you are ordering a pizza. You will learn some hard lessons. Love will make you crazy, happy, and sad sometimes and it will help you grow. If my last bf had said, I am an alcoholic, HIV+ self-absorbed drag queen who is bad with money and sleeps around, he could have saved both of us a lot of time. But he didn't and at least I know what I don't want going forward. LOL. I don't criticize gays who seek out a monogamous relationship. Not everybody wants a cumdump boyfriend - and it's not so much about trying to mimic heterosexual relationships, sometimes it's about health. Trust me, I've had to take off work and go get a shot because my bf was whoring and caught something. I just think everyone needs to have a think about what they want and need from a relationship and then try to hook up with a like-minded individual.

I think it all depends on where you are looking for a real date. I wouldn't look for one on a chat site unless that chat site is designed just for that. If there are people on there looking for quick hook-ups, you will likely find guys who pretend like they are looking for more (perhaps because their friends use that site) but they really want just casual sex. Also I have found it more interesting to meet guys through my hobbies as opposed to only surfing the internet. And of course it's always helpful if your friends can introduce you to people in their circle. There are a lot of gays at my job, but I'm very uncomfortable with the idea of dating people that I might have to encounter in my daily work. I did fuck one guy a few times but he's since left the company (whew).

And what if he doesn't want to have group sex with you? It's also worth considering if he just wants to be out of the relationship altogether. It sounds like you want it open. But he definitely needs to understand that you're not cool with him out here fucking if you can't. What's holding this relationship together? OK that's not really any of my goddamn business, but at least answer it for yourself.

@RWHID: have you seen this? https://howtocleanyourass.wordpress.com I did the full clean out on Saturday and took Immodium. It's 48 hours later and I haven't shit yet. I am not a big Immodium fan by the way, but sometimes I just break down and take it as an extra insurance policy. I do like the point above about no solid food for 24 hours. That's tough because I love to eat, but eating complicates things, depending on what you actually eat. I don't want to be that light headed bitch that passes out because she trying to keep her runway clear. LOL.

If a man is carrying around gel and condoms, he is fucking or planning to fuck. While he loses points for monogamy, he does get an honorable mention for planning to wrap it up. I think the OP's decision to go and take raw loads behind the boyfriend's back is an even bigger transgression than the bf cheating, since now everybody's health could be at risk. It sounds like the OP wanted to be a ho all along because he didn't even bother to have the "let's open our relationship" discussion first. I was in an open relationship for several years and boy do those need rules too! I was always in favor of: 1) don't ask, don't tell; 2) take care of home - i.e. don't deny your partner sex and 3) don't disrespect your partner by chatting online, texting dudes and setting up fuck dates in front of him; and 4) no threesomes or groups. What people don't understand sometimes is that your partner can have a long-term fuckbuddy who is not a threat to your relationship. But it's these hoes who don't even want your man but want to split you up because they are miserable, lonely bitches themselves who are a threat to your relationship.

I was fine until I read that...unfortunately this is why so many bottoms end up in the clinic/doctor's office - i.e. tops bringing bacteria and Hep C infected blood from one bottom's ass to another...please tops wipe your dick off between fucks. It saves everybody time, money, and aggravation.

It sounds to me like you were in a relationship so long that you don't feel comfortable or complete without being in one. And now that you found something you like and you want to "lock it down". We are close in age and I've had a guy half my age come at me hard and I said I'll be friends because I think the age difference is too big, although I think there are some compatibility issues too. I don't think 24 year olds should be closing off options. Get out there. Live life. Develop. Figure out who you are. This past weekend, I met a guy in his mid thirties - still a good 13-14 years younger but there I see potential. Sexually he ticks all the boxes (big dick, high sex drive, total top, extremely confident). We had real conversations too. We might go away for a week and that's where I'll check for things like goals in life, money management, diet, addictions, phobias, insecurities, what energizes him, what frustrates him, how much he's on his cellphone and who's texting/calling. I've got a laundry list of things I check nowadays. The sex is good, but I need to know what you're like day in and day out before I hitch my wagon to you. But back to you,. Enjoy the sex. Enjoy getting to know him. Let him be who he is and not who you think he should be. Don't force it. Don't lie. Don't put him in a situation where he feels he has to lie. And take your time. Anything worth having is worth waiting for.

i was bred Thursday night by a fuckbud I've had since 2003. We played safe until 2011 and then the rubbers came off. I'm very proud of this "relationship". We play maybe 4-6 times a year. I have two others that joined the roster in 2014 and 2015. If I could find a few more regulars, I would probably stop taking anonymous loads. While I understand that my fuckbud(s) could pick up a bug from another guy, if we're all reasonable and not increasing risk by participating in orgies, being cumdumps, fisting and doing hard drugs, we could keep each other healthy for life.

The Irish lads were good to me...took a couple of raw cocks in the Boilerhouse last weekend...some guys were playing wrapped though...

I've been to sex parties and had guys I was not attracted to show interest in fucking me. I usually accepted 99% of the time. If that same guy had tried to approach me online, he would have been turned down with 100% certainty. Horniness and seeing the hard cock caused my standards to drop LOL. But seeing the satisfaction on their faces afterwards did make me realize how truly vicious we gays sometimes are with guys who don't meet our criteria and how much sex is psychological. A nice shaped dick rubbing your prostate is a nice shaped dick rubbing your prostate. It really shouldn't matter if it belongs to a twink, bear, older guy or heavier guy. I do have a rule that I do live by with public cruising. If I express an interest in a guy and he doesn't reciprocate, that's fine, but he can't decide moments later when he can't find what he's looking for that he'll "settle" for me. That's offensive to me. I don't turn men away hoping for an upgrade so I don't accept this from guys either. You snooze, you lose.

einathens, I'm cracking up. Have you done this before? Those instructions were awfully specific. LOL. I'd probably try taking them some food and striking up a conversation with them. Just before leaving, tell them what you want from them and see their reaction. I'd prefer a bathhouse over a hotel (and would never invite the person to my place). Or maybe we could duck in a sex cinema (the only problem is they can't bathe in a cinema) - although the original poster didn't specify that they needed to bathe. Maybe just bending over in an alley and offering them $20 would get the job done. LOL. True story: I was in San Francisco some years back where there are (unfortunately) many homeless people. This guy asked me for some change, but before I could answer, he said "take me back to your hotel and I will fuck the shit out of you". I clutched my pearls and excused myself. But I won't refuse that offer next time! LOL.

I know it's frustrating. Moving someplace in hopes of a better sex life seems rather extreme though. Traveling works for me. And sometimes paying. I know people resent that, but one way to move to the front of the line is to get your wallet out. LOL. Tops with good dick should never be broke or homeless or hungry. If I were a big dicked bareback top, I'd build of stable of employed bottoms and service those bitches regularly especially if they made a volunteer donation. :-) On a serious note, I think getting too worked up about it just makes it worse. I do believe the energy we put out has a direct impact on who approaches us. And let's face it. Tops have a lot of ass to choose from. It's a buyers market so prospective sellers (bottoms) have to be patient, flexible and do what they can to remain attractive in the marketplace (exercising, grooming, nice photos, being willing to travel to the dick, etc). I know I've been guilty myself of not doing my part to make sure a hook up happens. If a guy has 10 bottoms to choose from, is he going to choose the one with a long list of demands? Probably not.