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  1. There's ten times more bacteria living in the digestive tract than there are cells making up the human body, raising the question of who's the host? "The large intestine contains organisms belonging to over 30 identified genera and as many as 500 separate species or phenotypes." Male UTI from anal sex is not a hugely studied topic, so there is not a lot of evidence about how many and which of those bacteria can cause an inflammatory response in the urethra. The most common UTI from anal is from E. coli bacteria, which is beneficial in the gut (a decidedly nonsterile environment) but not in the urinary tract (a sterile environment). But other gut bacteria can cause UTI. Uncircumcised are more vulnerable. Here are ways to help protect yourself. i give cranberry extract to my patients with urinary catheters twice a day. "The current hypothesis is that cranberries work principally by preventing the adhesion of type 1 and p-fimbriae strains (particularly from E. coli) to the urothelium (17-20). Without adhesion, the bacteria cannot infect the mucosal surface" [think before following links] https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3370320/ Another consideration is the type lube being used. Some lubes contain sorbitol or glycerin, which is food for bacteria. Using those types of lubes promote bacterial infection. The old rule of peeing after fucking helps cleanse the urethra of bacteria that may have made their way in. Carry alcohol wipes and cleanse the tip of your cock around the urethra after fucking, it helps both kill and mechanically remove bacteria. Or simply wash your cock after fucking.
  2. This is my favorite flavor.
  3. Broke sexual distancing Friday with a FB who'd been contacting me since isolation started. i figured it's time to ease back into safer whordom. Neither of us had fucked since around the first week of March, so while i'm sure He didn't have a couple of months of cum in Him, we both had a couple of months of need and desire. i'm pretty open from lots of use, and He loves sloppy, so i put in lot of lube and thought i was pretty open, but i let out a cry when He just shoved in, i guess i wasn't as open as i thought. We both made quite a bit of noise, i had my window open and wonder if the neighbors could hear? When He came, He came hard, shoving in deep next to my heart and i raised up and pushed back into Him just as hard, squeezing and milking His sweet cock with my inner muscles. He never texts me after, just disappears till next time. But this time He texted me "Came so hard my legs are like jello."
  4. i am sorry that you were abused for being gay, that's awful, and i am sorry you suffered through that. Please do not misunderstand me, i'm not saying one should hide being gay, but i was a kid who did it, so i know it can be done. i had bullies in my life till i was 13 and learned how to hide those things that identified me, the proverbial closet. For me it was a survival mechanism. my point was to contrast how white gay people are not immediately visually obvious as "gay." i have to come out continually at work, and i wonder that people cannot tell by looking at me because i think i am obvious. Just this week a woman at work asked me out on a date (left a note in my mail box). i said to a different employee next to me as i read the note: "hmm, she must not realize im gay." The woman next to me looked at me in surprise and said "you're gay?" my point is to say (and maybe i could have said it better) not all gay people are obviously gay just by looking at them as are black people. Gay people do not get pulled over driving their cars like black people because of profiling. Race is different from being gay. A black person cannot visually hide their race, a gay person is not automatically visually obviously gay, thus the term "can hide." i still think "race play" is destructive. i don't see myself changing on that. The reason i don't think it should be part of the gay community is because i think most of us should know better, for many of the reasons you state. I.e., i've suffered plenty for being gay, and i know many gays who have. Just for being gay. i do not think we should be "playing' about something that has caused so much harm and destruction.
  5. i know that your advice makes sense, but i probably won't do it that way... instead i'll just learn the other way. For me it's not the piss but the act, and pissing in the glass takes something away for me. idk, i may change, i've taken cum from used condomes and shoved it in my hole... i honestly see piss similarly, though not exactly the same. But the thing that i connect with is the Top who has something in Him that wants to piss on and in a bottom, it's like it opens a door in me: "yeah i want you to do that too." Putting it in a glass takes something away from the act in my mind? i think i'd be more inclined to ask the Top to be patient with me, that i want to learn to take it from Him and HIs cock, giving Him the control.
  6. i have been wanting a Man to piss in my mouth a long time, especially by surprise or not asking, just doing it while i suck Him. But i have been afraid never having drunk pee or piss before, wasn't sure how i would react to the taste. i've been piss fucke plenty, but want to be a full service bottom... no, really lol, i love a Tops pleasure and want to be able to drink His piss too. i especially love the psychology of it. To me it's not mean, its a matter of fact sort of natural thing for Him to be able to put a part of Himself in me as a bottom. So today i was so horny, have been keeping myself from cumming and reading some hot stories (not about piss though) and i had to pee. On the spur of the moment, i emptied my water glass and peed into it and then drank it. i didn't get off on drinking my pee, to me it's just my pee and has no potency (though i did have a Dom who spoke to me of always taking His piss and He told me He wanted me to put my pee in a container for Him to drink so He could drink His recycled piss distilled by my body for Him, which i thought was sooo fucking hot. i love mind fuck). i did it to see how i would respond and it was fine, which really makes me happy because i know now i'd respond with lust and need and drink my Tops piss if He pissed in my mouth. Still would take practice to take His piss from His cock i'm sure, but i feel like i am over a hurdle.
  7. i'm not going to try and engage this poster, looks like a troll to me, and i don't have confidence in his reading comprehension. i do want to point out what people like him do. They infer and fill in their own words, and they're off and running. You'll notice i didn't use the word "Christian" in my post. Not all "Christians" are alike, not all Muslims are alike, not all atheists are alike.... i do have an argument with the fundamentalist approach. Those who take the absolutist notion that they know what "God" wants and who think they somehow do "God's" bidding. i think that is scary and would not vote for such a person. "In 2006, as head of the Republican Study Committee, a group of the 100 most-conservative House members, Pence rose in support of a constitutional amendment that would have defined marriage as between a man and a woman. Citing a Harvard researcher, Pence said in his speech, “societal collapse was always brought about following an advent of the deterioration of marriage and family.” Pence also called being gay a choice and said keeping gays from marrying was not discrimination, but an enforcement of “God’s idea.” [think before following links] https://time.com/4406337/mike-pence-gay-rights-lgbt-religious-freedom/
  8. my loose hole>pussy>cunt makes me feel hot and bothered because it is the mark of Tops who have used it... it's a permanent piece of Them that has become a part of me, it's like They have molded it. And i can remember how Some have affected and molded it more than others. i fucking love having Their affect, touch on me... i wish i could describe the feeling better, it's Their signature on and in me, it is so fucking awesome.
  9. To clarify... i see your cock and i want it and i'd take it where ever you want to put it, so as find91 suggests, you may wanna cover your cock if you don't want it to have attention because, well, it's a magnet
  10. Well, you do identify your self (on here at least) as "versatile." As someone who went from using a "versatile bottom" label to "total bottom," i believe some bottoms cannot see the word "versatile" when horny, that it always gets changed to "Top" in their brain. Which makes it pretty challenging if you're versatile. In my mind, any time the word "versatile" is used, you are going to attract whatever the other person is looking for at the time, not necessarily what you want. And, the majority of guys looking are usually going to be bottoms or guys looking for cock. And frankly, i have "total bottom" in all my profiles and then write explanations like "total bottom means i don't want you to touch my penis in any way," with all pictures being of my ass and i will still get guys asking to "suck my cock" or asking me to "fuck" them. Pretty sure horniness makes a lot of guys blind and stupid lol
  11. 7 to 7.5 (7.5 if i am damned excited) but a little better than average girth. i'm one of those bottoms who gets off on it being minimized though. For me, most of the 'cock' is internal. i've been bred by 3" cocks that were 10" because of who and how they were. For me a 3 inch cock on a TotalTop is bigger than a 7 inch cock on a total bottom.
  12. i find the micro more comfortable than larger cages that hold your shaft, it pretty much internalizes your penis and the "cage" just holds it in.
  13. and in keeping with the situation
  14. This Pitt is my favorite
  15. i watched "The Hot Chick" last night, turns out Rob Schneider has a hot ass.
  16. lol, i guess i have come full circle. i used to put everything up my ass. Seriously, i always had an eye open and wondered if it would fit? These days, i have a drawer full of sophisticated, made for ass toys, but have little to no interest in them unless they are attached to a guy. It no longer works for me to be the one putting them in me, the real turn on for me is the guy wanting to put something inside of me. It's His desire connected to opening and penetrating me that spreads my legs and bends me over.
  17. Do you think there are people who do not understand what a profile or ad is? The only thing i can figure is they are just responding to pictures... but then, if they ask for pictures when they already exist, it seems like they don't even know what a profile or ad is, that their request is the only information out there and it is first contact. maybe they're aliens......... oooeeeeoooo
  18. That's gross!?! ...no bbq sauce!?
  19. Thank you for weighing in. i have extensive sexual experience, but only with one woman, so i question my sexual knowledge of women. Being the gay friend of a woman gets me information by conversation, but not experience. i wish that we had more understanding of what attracts us to each other. There's a sub group on this site, from both sides-Top and bottom, about a bottom "just being a hole to breed." i wonder if those Tops espousing that notion would just as readily fuck a woman? And i am not talking about guys who are wired and identify as bi. To me, it's apparently not 'just about the (physical) sex' for any of us. i think there is a whole psychological side to sex that few seem interested in, and fewer still seem to acknowledge, yet we are all subject to and moved by. my biggest draw for a ltr is meeting someone who is as interested in the psychological side of sex as i am, someone to explore with in depth rather than the occasional glimpse one might get with a hook up, but that requires a desire and effort on both parts and i find many men seem to want someone to pull that out of them rather than pull it out of their self and offer it.
  20. It strikes me as a possible weird evolution of technology, maybe an outgrowth of texting as a means of connecting? i hate texting for anything more than a quick message, it's an awful method for communicating, yet it seems to have won the hearts of millions. i mourn the number of guys who seem to think you can have a conversation with just one to three word sentences and wonder if socially we are progressively (regressively) becoming illiterate? Have they not developed past picture books and are only responding to pictures? The guys who do not read ads or profiles are likely the same ones who do not write them. It seems there is a growing number of guys who unconsciously believe that others just know what they have on their minds or what they want. i think that many guys are afraid to reveal what they feel and think, or lack the skill set to do so. I.e., there is a lack of self awareness and a lack of ability to express what is felt and thought. Not having that themselves, they don't acknowledge it in others? It's a foreign place to them? When i read a profile or ad that says: "looking for fun," or something similar, it makes me crazy. That says absolutely nothing, yet it seems so common? Is it fear of saying what they really want? Is it that they think you'll just know? And, good luck if you ask for clarification on what constitutes "fun." The guys doing this will probably never read these kinds of threads or comments though because they obviously do not read, so not sure how they will ever get a clue?
  21. i have a drawer full of jocks and other underthings collected over time from Tops who wanted me to wear them, so i associate the jock with the Top. Here's the latest:
  22. Race 'play' makes me feel ashamed that anyone in the gay culture could countenance it, let alone participate in it. It is, at best, ignorant. It is destructive, hating behavior, no matter the facade one puts on it. For those who rationalize and point to black men who participate in race 'play;' they are no different than gays who are homophobic because of internalized hate and cultural conditioning. It isn't "play," it is perpetuation and reinforcement of racist stereotype. It's not "race play," it's just plain racist. Sexual race 'play' is no better than "playing" about separate drinking fountains or separate schools, or lynching. It's 'playing' at wearing the yellow star or pink triangle. It's making a game of REAL racists, many of whom would sooner have you and me dead than a part of their white, hetero society. Read a book! Get to really know and listen to a black person who hasn't internalized hate. History is replete with examples of minority groups being the first to be targeted when there is social upheaval. Gays are as much a minority as black people. A big difference is, unlike a black person, we can hide in plain sight so we can be less aware the haters in society.
  23. Jim Morrison in his day
  24. i'm pretty much opposite. If i guy says "i could fall for you so easily," He just impregnated me (psychologically to go along with His physical seed). i don't perceive that as "needy" at all. i see vulnerability and openness as courageous. i've had to bite my mattress on occasion to keep from blurting "i love You" to a Top who has touched me in a way that's hard to describe, but we have connected and He has me. i'd see it as "needy" if the Top or bottom said that routinely, to just anyone... but that has not been my experience on either side.
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