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  1. tallbtm
    Playing with a couple is hot as fuck. As the new meat, you're usually the center of attention (though I make a point of giving my equal attention to each partner too). KindaBasic, you're a lucky guy to know and play with that couple. Sounds like a really fun time!
  2. tallbtm
    Fiber. Fiber. Fiber. No matter what your diet, you probably don't consume enough. Go to a drug store and look for fiber supplements (Metamucil is one brand). Pills, capsules or powders that you mix in water, doesn't matter which. You'll find fiber supplements in the drug store aisle with laxatives, motion-sickess pills, constipation and "gas" remedies. Another option is adding chia seeds to your diet. Search around on here for lots of threads on the benefits of chia seeds -- which in addition to having lots of fiber are packed with healthy antioxidants. You can get them in the health-food aisle of most grocery stores. If you increase the amount of fiber in your diet, digested food will move through you more efficiently, cleanly and thoroughly, so you can be sure you really are "empty" after a good bowel movement (and maybe a quick douche of the lower rectum). While I avoid a big meal in the hours before a fuck (or several fucks), I certainly don't starve myself. A boy's gotta keep his strength up, after all :-) About your second question... relax. You can't be always ready. There are threads here about that too. While spontaneous is fun, you sound like someone who really likes to be ready and prepared, so plan your fucks around when you're ready and prepared, or plan your preparations around your scheduled fucks. Either works, and tops who don't understand that bottoms aren't always ready on a moment's notice aren't worth the trouble. Hope this helps.
  3. tallbtm
    Hi RenoGuy, PrEP doesn't have to be unaffordable for you! Gilead (the manufacturer of Truvada) has a co-pay assistance program that will cover up to $3000/year of your insurance co-pay costs. And there's no income-eligibility requirement. Signing up is easy. Check it out at gileadcopay.com They also have programs for people who don't have insurance: www.truvada.com/truvada-patient-assistance
  4. tallbtm

    Prep

    tallbtm replied to londoner13's topic in PrEP Discussion

    If you intend to discontinue PrEP, the recommendation is to continue taking Truvada for 30 days after your last possible exposure. See prepfacts.org (the questions section) for more.
  5. tallbtm
    Ditto tallslenderguy - that was my experience in Providence too.
  6. tallbtm
    In the U.S., daily dosing is the recommended protocol and that's what I do. Sex isn't always "planned" and you might not have the two pills with you to take in advance. If you (with help from your health plan or insurance) can afford it, I agree with you that daily dosing makes more sense. The studies I'm aware of show Truvada-as-PrEP very effective through daily dosing. I'm not aware that it has yet been proven to work just as well in "on-demand" use. I hope it will be (for people who can't afford daily use or for people who have infreqent sexual encounters) but would want to wait for that to be definitely shown and approved. While you're deciding, consider how much sex you anticipate having in future and how planned that sex will be. And don't rely on how much you have been having since you said you've put off sex while waiting for PrEP to be available in France. That may help guide your decision. One last thought: About Truvada being a "heavy drug." It's not. The reason it was chosen to test for use as PrEP in the first place is because it is so well tolerated by those taking it. Very few people have any side effects and of those, most are mild and go away in the first few days or weeks. (Yes, a very few people have bad reactions and can't tolerate it but they are a tiny percentage (<1%). You are HIV negative and want to stay negative. I applaud your decision to protect yourself.
  7. tallbtm
    It's always disappointing when the build-up is WAY hotter than the actual experience. I enjoy sharing our mutual likes/dislikes, fantasies, etc. ahead of time, but too much "planning" what we're going to do often fails in reality. Now I try to keep my expectations in check and just go with the flow to avoid disappointment. Been there too many times. Sucks you took time off, spent time prepping, dressing as he wanted and then the encounter was probably shorter than it took you to get there. Hate that.
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    I get tested for all STIs every 3 months both to stay healthy and protect my partners. Since I'm on PrEP, I'm more concerned about getting chlamydia, gonorrhea or syphilis than I am of contracting HIV. I don't want any STI and I sure don't want to pass one on to a fuck buddy (many of whom have become friends). It sucks to have to tell guys you've fucked with recently that you've found out you have something and they need to get tested or treated.
  9. tallbtm
    What are you using to douche? If it's some kind of squeeze bottle or hot-water bag, invert it and give it a few moments for the air bubbles to rise and dissipate. It's it something like a shower-shot, I haven't had that problem. I agree, pumping air into your hole can cause cramping (and farts) so I avoid getting air in me when cleaning out.
  10. tallbtm
    Tallsenderguy, I'm glad you found the courage to get tested and now, properly treated. I am sorry you didn't get the information and encouragement to investigate PrEP in time. Your posts about your past and your evolution to where you are now show that you are indeed a strong man, able to handle this challenge that life now brings. Please know that you'll continue to move forward. And don't worry, you'll soon be back to fucking your brains out. I'm certain of that! Best wishes, and be well friend.
  11. tallbtm
    Lube -- tons of lube, way more than you think you need -- will help. Don't hesitate to pause for a couple seconds to reapply if it starts to dry out. And maybe put off your own orgasm until you sense the end of the session. A lot of bottoms seem to find it hard to continue getting fucked after they cum. I'd avoid drugs like meth (for a host of reasons), but a drink with your FB before you start might help.
  12. tallbtm
    I love it when that happens. It's almost like getting a bonus, unexpected fuck when you're not expecting one.
  13. tallbtm
    Sse4me, have you considered going on PrEP? With PrEP you can continue getting fucked bareback all you want and avoid the emotional, physical, financial and societal problem that sometimes accompany becoming positive. Check out ispreprightforme.com and prepfacts.org. There's also a whole subforum here about PrEP.
  14. tallbtm
    I'm tall so most guys who fuck me are shorter. If I don't spread my knees wide when we're doggy-style on the bed, my ass is usually too high for most tops. So I guess I spread my legs principally for practical reasons. (But you're right Tiger, it is more stable.) When I'm flat on my belly, some tops want my legs together; some want to get in between my legs, spread them and plow me deep that way. I'm happy to assume whatever position (those two or any other) the top wants me in. It helps that I'm very flexible.
  15. tallbtm
    You might consider the CumUnion party in Providence, RI Sat. Feb.27 at Club Body Center bathhouse. CBC is just a block or two from the gay bars in Providence and only an hour by car from Boston. Providence actually has two bathhouses, the other is called Megaplex if you want to check it out too. Your BBRT profile says you like gear, so you might like the Providence Eagle bar, or the twice-monthly gear/fetish/kink parties in Boston called Fascination Fetish held in the basement at Jacques Cabaret. Other BZ members may have other suggestions.
  16. tallbtm
    Looks like the Rough Stock Roundups in Vermont are now being modeled after a popular Czech porn video that's been discussed on this thread. The upcoming dates are here: http://www.rough-stock.com/faq5.html. Not a lot of pics on the Rough Stock website yet, but looks very similar to the porn video below.
  17. tallbtm
    Current recommendations are this: If you're on PrEP and want to stop (say during a period when you're not expecting to have sex), you should continue taking your PrEP pills for 28 days after your last high-risk (condomless) sexual encounter. This is the same length of dosing as what's recommended for effective post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) which is taking HIV medications to prevent infection after an exposure event. See this January 2015 article: http://betablog.org/prep-open-house-know-youre-interested-prep/
  18. tallbtm
    This is one of KESS949's videos -- he has more like it on Xtube and links there to his blog.
  19. tallbtm
    Your questions seem addressed to top guys, but I'll offer my bottom opinion: Sometimes I'm hard, sometimes I'm so focused on my ass my dick goes limp. Some tops want to see me cum, some don't care or don't want me to. I follow their lead. If I start off wearing a jockstrap, I wait for the top to reach for my dick before I haul it out. And when I'm taking loads in a group thing, I usually put off cumming so I stay super horny until the tops are all sated. I've been fucked in a chastity cage. It can be hot if you're into it (your brain is you biggest sex organ!). Some tops enjoy that kind of power dynamic but it has turned others off. I'd talk with your prospective top before you spring the cage on him.
  20. tallbtm
    When I type in the Search box at the top, the text is invisible. Search works, but the text seems to be in the same color as the box you type in. I've tried with Safari and Chrome on a Mac. Ditto on an iPad. Is it just me?
  21. tallbtm
    I'd suggest kegel exercises too to strengthen the muscles in your pelvic floor including your sphincter. A bonus is that by identifying and strengthening these muscles you'll learn how to use your ass to "milk" a guy's cock -- something some tops really like.
  22. tallbtm
    I tell my partner where I'm going and write down the guy's details. If he's not around, I leave a note in the kitchen with the same info including when I left and when I expect to be back. I generally talk to a guy a bit online beforehand so I get some feel for him and when something in my gut tells me he or the scene is sketchy, I try to think with the head on top my shoulders (instead of the other one) and just don't agree to meet. I've had some weird hookups that made me decide to (politely) leave, but nothing has gotten dangerous.
  23. tallbtm
    In addition to starting PrEP, you should get vaccinated for both Hep A and Hep B. Be sure you go back for both the 2nd and 3rd injections at 1-month and 6-months after the initial injection(s). It's easy and highly recommended.
  24. tallbtm
    Can you post a picture or a link to a photo where you bought it?
  25. tallbtm
    LOL -- Yeah stuff like this has happened to all of us! Muscle cramp, sneezing fit, a horrible unexpected belch, whatever. I must confess, I too though were going to say your guts suddenly let loose in a messy torrent. Thank goodness that didn't happen! Your experience made me laugh -- but not at you, rather in sympathy with you, because I've been there too. Usually you can recover the mood and keep going once the problem passes. And it's always worth a laugh later. Don't be afraid to laugh during sex; it's supposed to fun.

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