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My piercer started me at 8 gauge. I wouldn't recommend anything smaller than 10 gauge for your starter jewelry. Take care of it, follow the after-care directions and give you body time to heal. Don't rush the stretching process. Stretching to a 0 gauge in a year is perhaps too ambitious (and the size of the jewelry isn't really going to change much how hot your dick will look pierced or how it will feel). While a PA piercing stretches easily (and gradually) on its own as you have it, rushing the process can create scar tissue you really don't want in/on your dick. It's your cody, your body, as your husband says. Do what you want, but do take your time. Have fun and enjoy it.
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Several guys have reached for their phone (or better yet, mine) to snap some pics or shoot short videos. As long as my face isn't in it, I'm totally okay with it. And some of those pics and vids are the hottest ones I have! Yeah, it's a turn on.
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And This Is Why I Don't Fuck Bottoms Who Party
tallbtm replied to VersatileBreeder's topic in General Discussion
You're absolutely right Ranger Rick. In my experience, PnP actually stands for All Party, No Play. -
And This Is Why I Don't Fuck Bottoms Who Party
tallbtm replied to VersatileBreeder's topic in General Discussion
Poptronic, It's exactly the same problems with partied up tops. Even if they can get hard, they can't fuck worth shit because they're so easily distracted. They'll fuck for a minute or two, then stop to hit the pipe, check their phone, or rush to the next room to grab something. Or worse, they prattle on about nothing in particular (and I'm not talking sexy, verbal talk). I don't play with guys who are partying. I've had too many utterly disappointing experiences. It's just not worth the waste of time. If I show up and find out it's part of their agenda, I excuse myself and leave -- no matter how fucking horny I am. I'm sure they're having an awesome time. But it ain't gonna be with me. -
Love nip play here. I'll check these out when I'm at Home Depot later today. Thanks for the tip, AlwaysOpen.
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Getting your nipples pierced does hurt but you've experienced worse in your life. Nipple tissue is denser than skin elsewhere and it takes a bit more effort to push the piercing needle through. My piercer (a very experienced man at Palm Springs Piercing Company -- highly recommended!) had me take a deep breath and blow it out. By the time I had finished exhaling, it was over with. Then repeat on the other side. In the days after, I'd describe them feeling more tender than achy. No bleeding after the first couple minutes. I avoided sleeping on my stomach for the rest of the week and you'll want to be careful about knocking into them for a few weeks while they heal. Basically treat it just like any other minor cut or injury. If you're uncomfortable, have an ibuprofen tablet. It's not bad, really. Salt water soaks helped speed healing and felt great. (Fill a coffee mug with very warm tap water and dissolve a pinch of sea salt. Bend forward, put the mug over your nipple, then sit back up and hold it there for about 5 minutes per side. Ahhhh....!) Follow your piercer's after-care instructions for cleaning, etc., and you'll have no problems. Like Ddawg, getting my nips pierced made them more prominent. BTW, I love nipple play and it's only gotten better since having mine pierced. Good luck.
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Same here. I dress for the situation and who I'm playing with. Some guys prefer me totally naked, other get into gear, leather, etc. I take my cue from the top I'm going to get fucked by.
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Never had a problem with mineral buildup on mine, Bearbandit, but I have soft water too. I do take mine out for a thorough cleaning every now and again. Ditto my nipple rings. Never had a urethral infection caused by the PA.
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Like cam1972 and NLbear, I too am a fan. Love the bigger package in bathing suit or freeballing in jeans. Love the slight "chubby" just wearing it gives me. I've worn them so often during sex I now feel kinda naked without one. I can't begin to guess how much I've spent on various cockrings over the years. Metal ones are my current favorite. Snug enough to stay on securely but not so tight to get painful when I'm erect.
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Your dom guy really pushes my buttons too. I love to give up control like that.
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Both pics are fucking hot, tallslenderguy! I have a couple of cages similar to yours myself. Don't wear them much anymore but...
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I'm still interested
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I feel exactly the same way about breeding.zone! I've learned a lot and have been exposed to new ideas and other men's experiences that spur my own thought. I also appreciate that this forum is equally smutty and intelligent. And almost always very civil and not judgmental no matter what someone asks or comments.
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I've fucked with a local doc a couple of times. He blows big load in my ass. Nice guy too.
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Start Having Side Effects After Taking Truvada For A Few Months?
tallbtm replied to a topic in PrEP Discussion
Doesn't seem likely. The small number of guys who have any PrEP side effects have them in the first couple weeks. Go see your doctor. There's lots of other things that could be causing your symptoms. Get it checked out. Better to know than just worry. -
Boston here. Welcome to the area!
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I'm considering a trip to Quebec City next month and thinking about places to stay and places to play. Anyone been to Sauna Hoppocampe? Stayed at the attached Hotel Hippocampe? What were your experiences -- good or bad. I want to fuck but I also want to be a tourist so I'll need a regular hotel to actually sleep in. Thanks for your travel advice.
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Like you Tiger I tend to be polite so bailing out is sometimes difficult if they guy doesn't get that the hookup is just not working. It's definitely easier if you're at someone else's place: You say, "Sorry, this just isn't working," get your things and get out as quick as you can. At your own place, it's a bit more difficult so I try not to invite someone over until we've talked enough that I know he's "normal." Getting him off and out was probably the best and safest choice. But I feel for you... that situation sucked. Put it behind you and move on.
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So true Tiger! It is easier with bigger dicks. But I'll never turn down the opportunity. Some guys can actually get the angles right and slip-n-side up and down each other's cocks while staying in me.
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Love poppers but too much of them fucks with my erection. And sometimes they make me want to shoot, sometimes they make it near impossible to cum. But I do love getting poppered up and fucked!
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Oh fuck yes! I like that in real life and I like to see it in porn. I love the fuck, be it slow/fast, long or short, but I want the reward at the end for making my top feel so good he breeds me.
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Barebacking As An Hiv+ Undetectable Guy
tallbtm replied to calidude's topic in HIV Risk & Risk Reduction
Well, for HIV, you don't have much to worry about. In North America, HIV-A is, by far, the most common strain. (HIV-B is the principal strain only in some parts of Africa). You don't mention which meds you're on and I'll let others here who know a good deal more about HIV treatments address how well your meds might fight other strains of HIV. If you're undetectable,you can't really pass HIV along to anyone else. Hep-C is transmitted though blood-to-blood contact. There's debate on whether it can even be contracted through ordinary sexual contact. (And you are already vaccinated against Hep-A and Hep-B, right?) For the rest of the bugs, I'd worry most about chlamydia, gonorrhea and syphilis. Those are all treatable with antibiotics. For your health and to settle your mind, you should plan to get tested for all STIs a few weeks afterwards even if you don't notice any symptoms. Go, have fun. Let us know how it goes. -
I like the skimpy tight ones too, with room enough in front to show my bulge. (Yeah, yet another big-dick bottom here.) I've been wearing a lot of Andrew Christian swimwear lately when I have to put on a swimsuit. Naked is better though, whenever I can. Your pics are great NLbear!
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Fuckrogerbb, I can't speak to the cost of drugs used to treat HIV infection, but Truvada for HIV prevention (PrEP)'s retail cost can be up to $1100/month (according to http://men.Prepfacts.org). But all insurance companies cover it. I get my insurance through work and my particular plan has a $30 monthly co-pay for Truvada as PrEP. My actual monthly cost is $0, because I enrolled in Gilead's co-pay assistance program. (Gilead in the manufacturer of Truvada. Their co-pay assistance program has no income-eligibility requirement.) Check your particular Medicare plan and whether it makes sense to enroll in a different plan that might have better prescription coverage (if available in your state). I'm afraid I don't really know much about how Medicare Part D plans work. Unfortunately, Gilead's co-pay assistance program isn't open to those on Medicare or Medicaid.
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Hot, sexy, real verbal is such a turn on and is far too rare. I love that Treasure Island often includes captions when someone says something hot but inaudible or unintelligible in the recording.