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hungry_hole

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  1. What do you mean you were straight? Nobody's straight, nobody's gay, nobody's anything in the so-called "sexual orientation". I mean, this is my opinion because the notion of sexual orientation is as nonsense as the notion of a benevolent god. Here is a quote from Kinsey (the guy from the famous Kinsey scale): "For nearly a century the term homosexual in connection with human behavior has been applied to sexual relationships, either overt or psychic, between individuals of the same sex... It would encourage clearer thinking on these matters if persons were not characterized as heterosexual or homosexual, but as individuals who have had certain amounts of heterosexual experience and certain amounts of homosexual experience. Instead of using these terms as substantives which stand for persons, or even as adjectives to describe persons, they may better be used to describe the nature of overt sexual relations, or of the stimuli to which an individual erotically responds." (Kinsey, et al., 1948, p.656) _Sexual Behavior in the Human Male_ Clearer thinking....
  2. I wouldn't spend a minute in a relationship that requires any kind of work. I don't "work in relationships" because in my opinion relationships have to work almost spontaneously.
  3. Next Thursday I will pay a visit to a clinic where they do all the tests at once and I will then inquire more about PrEP. As I said before, the last time I brought up the issue of PrEP I wasn't very clear. I never asked about the possibility of going on PrEP. I may ask this time.
  4. If you have someone that will be in charge then I would recommend a sauna, like the GI-Joe on a Saturday night, 10pm on. There are a few rooms with sling and I would recommend the one in the 3rd floor. They also have public slings. A young guy like you is sure to find many guys willing to fuck you and breed your hole.
  5. I don't get a good reaction when I mention it during my routine STI tests. I don't insist because I'm not that keen myself about going on PrEP. I definitely do not want HIV in my body because I'm fully aware that being HIV+ would complicate my life. I've never heard of HIV making a guy's life easier. I say this so young guys reading this think more than twice before being the bottom in an anon gangbang. I know many guys glorify their HIV infection and feel proud about being poz. I would too but I would be one of those poz guys who makes it clear tha HIV is not a good thing. I have now slowed down with my sexual activity and I do have regular fuck buddies too. Five years ago I would have been a good candidate because then I was having lots of anon sex. I don't know how I haven't converted. Been really lucky
  6. I understand the benefits of PrEP but I see it as such an extreme measure. Sort of like me taking antibiotics so I won't catch Syphilis. As I said before my opinion would be different if I were young . Anonymous sex is for me the best kind of sex, the type of sex I never get tired of. Always a new situation, a new intereaction.
  7. It's important to understand that it will be a different "normal" and with time you will adjust to this new normal, but it will take time. It will never be the old normal which is what everybody going through profound life changes has to grieve. Let's face it, nobody can convince me that being HIV+ is better than being HIV-, no matter how hot the idea of stealthing, anon sex, and hiding HIV status may be. At the end of the day HIV is something to be taken serious that will inevitably complicate a person's life. I don't want to have to tell my dentist that I'm HIV+ or have to inform my doctor. But I know that if I were poz I would adjust and learn to deal with these issues. jtonic, you will eventually learn to be HIV+. Beware of the feelings of shame because those will destroy you.
  8. I was talking to the nurse who did my HIV test about PrEP and I don't think that it will be available in Canada any time soon. And in a way I agree because I don't know if I would put myself through PrEP, side effects etc. If I were younger, like so many of the newly poz young guys here, I may have considered PrEP. More sexual activity, more years ahead of me, etc. I'm still having anon sex and I know all you need is one contact, but never the amount of sex I had earlier.
  9. Today I went for an HIV test and the result was negative. I was nervous because a few weeks ago I spent a weekend in saunas in Montreal and the action had been hot. On my way to the test I was thinking of what would I feel if I tested poz? I would probably want to spend some time in the saunas and this time I wouldn't worry a bit. So, I tested negative and now what? Stay HIV negative by avoiding anon sex and bareback or go back to saunas and darkrooms? Not much point in testing then?
  10. I was wondering myself if this guy was for real or just spamming this site. I made contact with him because he's from Montreal, but it was the same hysteria offline and unable to take any advice.
  11. I like the videos from betterthanthis. He's a top in great shape and fucks and breeds really hot bottoms. Here is an example: http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=kITgO-G690-#.U5cBpk1zZ8R
  12. Responding to my comment that power0459 has to blame himself: True, but power0459 cannot blame no one else but himself for the anxiety he felt about the possibility of being poz.
  13. power0459, somewhere you say: But before that you said: Maybe he was wasted after a bad breakup too, and he was horny and felt like seeding a hole. Why being wasted can justify your behavior but not his? You are to blame. Something like "Are you clean?" is not the right question. Anybody who expects complete honesty and knowledge about their sexual health situation is simply naive. As it's been said so many times here, guys lie or they don't know they are HIV+. If you wanna share responsibility in terms of HIV you first have to get to know the guy you want to bareback with and not let somebody semi-anonymous breed your hole. I do blame a guy who lies to his long-term partner. But in "quickies" the responsibility is ALL yours. You're 26, still very young and attractive, so there will be many guys who will want to breed you and you have to decide whether you put your anon sex desires in the back burner or just live your fantasies and let yourself go, let guys breed you in saunas and gangbangs. The choice is yours but if you poz you shouldn't blame anyone but yourself.
  14. I felt the same way and the title Chaser didn't fit with what I saw in the movie. The idea that all bareback bottoms who take anon loads are bug-chasers is common to the point that even Tim Dean, author of Unlimited Intimacy, claims that in his book.
  15. It doesn't make sense to me to expect that one person will satisfy ALL my sexual needs. If you have a good relationship going concentrate on all the other aspects of the relationship and leave aside the sex. Unfortunately right now there's no way to have "Safe anon sex". So you have to find ways of satisfying your needs in "safer" ways or sometimes you may take some risks.
  16. I'm sure that you have your own preferences in terms of men. My first question to you would be "Do you like older men in their 60's or do you prefer younger men?" The cliché thing is that age is just a number but when it comes to the "erotic and sexual body" age plays a crucial role in how a sexual relationship develops. I've read in profiles "I'm a slutty bottom for older and a power top for younger" which refutes the notion that age is just a number. Even outside the realm of sex, when I read a story in this site about a slutty bottom who spent hours on a sling at the sauna on Saturday night, I need to know the age of the bottom to put it ion context in my mind. If the bottom in the story is an obese man in his 60's or 70's, not a turn on at all. But if the bottom telling the story is a 21 yo then the story becomes appealing. There was a discussion last week in some thread about a video called "Chased". I have to agree that it is a beautiful movie but I already pointed out that everyone in the movie is under 35 with chiselled bodies. Definitely no one over 60 like MackyJay. As a bottom I cannot get pissed of because a top likes younger. I do too! No matter how much everyone tries to mitigate the effects of age in cruising and sex with men, age is the most important attribute.
  17. I loved the film but it again reminds me of how important youth is in the portrayal of male homosexuality and of the power of male homoeroticism. There was nobody in the film older than maybe 35 and that is one of the reasons why it's such a beautiful film.
  18. "Can Relationships Work?" is an interesting question. For me the key to a successful male-male relationship is making sure that the relationship is strong independent of the sex. I would never stay or leave a relationship just because of the sex. That's what fuck buddies are for. If I'm going to be in a relationship it's because we both enjoy each other's company and we can live in peace and harmony. Sex is not important for me when it comes to relationships.
  19. I doubt guys who prefer to fuck and breed younger guys would even want to try fucking older bottoms. It has nothing to do with skill and more with the image of a young slutty bottom. Plus these days you can find plenty of young slutty bottoms or young bottoms want to train to be slutty.
  20. I love the last part of the video when you flood the bottom's hole with your cum while you moan. Hot!
  21. It's a big turn-on for me to get fucked and bred by another bottom I guess because most bottoms who occasionally top do it to relieve themselves just before going home so the action is quick where the bottom who's fucking is focused on shooting his load. But I was reading about a bottom who doesn't like getting fucked by a guy unless he is a "total top", no exceptions. So different from my experience because I would never refuse a fuck just because the top tells me that he also likes getting fucked.
  22. I've heard of many tops being infected by a bottom who is HIV+. But how about tops getting infected by fucking a sloppy hole, already lubed with poz cum? In saunas I often see a bottom being bred and as soon as the top pulls out another hard cock is ready to take over.
  23. I hope you write about the things you did on the IML weekend. Maybe a Blog entry?
  24. Your fantasy is so common in men that it says more about men in general that anything about you specifically. We men have many sexual fantasies that are best realized in anonymous/dark situations. What is great about anonymous situations is that we know nothing about the sexual partners which allows us to build any fantasy we want around that anonymous encounter. In anonymous sex encounters I'm having sex with myself, like when I masturbate, but with the added enhancement of other bodies, cocks, asses to play with. When the sex is anonymous there's freedom to identify with any of the participants. For instance, when getting fucked bottoms get really turned on when the top is giving then a good pounding and then breeds their holes. This turn-on is not necessarily from the fucking itself but from identifying with the top. When the top says "I'm going to shoot my load!" the bottom knows how great shooting your load feels and can't help but to almost feel the top's orgasm. The identification is sometimes so strong that when the top starts moaning the bottom starts shooting his load, many times before the top.
  25. I like bottoms who like sharing their load with other bottoms. It's so hot.
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