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Key point I think in this question I think is that you refer to this guy as a “sub” not a “bottom” it also depends on where and when you are hooking up I too like to know the sub/bottom I am playing with is “enjoying” himself- but also understand that we are enjoying things in totally different ways - and it is different if the guy is a sub or a bottom - but I like it when the guy I am playing with gets hard If the guy is just a “bottom” then I think you you might owe him some return attention - especially if it is at your house- (if however you are at the baths and it is early he may not want to cum yet as he wants to stay horny so he can stay in the mood to look for more cock - if however it is late and the place is clearing out than it might be nice of you) But if he is a “sub” than you most likely do not need to pay attention to his cock - in fact as some guys have mentioned they don’t want that kind of interaction (unless you are into cbt) As I mentioned I too like it (especially if we are having a rougher more aggressive scene than just a BJ) if the sub gets hard - it is an easier way of knowing I haven’t gotten too g to rough yet (having to keep verbally asking if it is too rough kind of kills the whole Dom/sub thing) Then - depending on the sub - not letting him get off (at least not frequently) is part of him being a sub - if he is going to be spending the night- I may not let him get off until the last fuck in the morning but if you like him and want him to keep coming back…. And maybe want more than a BJ - it is good to talk and get some ground rules set
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Glad I found this thread as there has been a question puzzling me for awhile If you like a post is there / what is the difference between an “upvote” and the heart, “like” dose one or the other boost someone’s reputation score more than the other? thankd
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I think it is so hot to see a naked guy drinking straight from the tap bonus points if he is hard while drinking it
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I am “ok” with people following their prejudices if they as an “individual” are hiring someone to work in their home ( house cleaner, maid, butler, gardener, babysitter, or chief bottle washer) but as soon as you become a corporation (even an LLC and only have one employee) then the company looses all rights to follow the owners prejudices and need to be required to follow the law - “corporations” cannot have “religious beliefs” the owner of the company may have deeply and sincerely held religious beliefs that women supposed to be subservient to men, or that black people are sub human, or that gays are disgusting abominations and are going straight to hell - but the “corporation” can not base any HR policies based on those beliefs just like a restaurant or hotel is not allowed to turn a customer away just because they are black, a woman, or gay, no corporation should be allowed to turn away customers or deny benefits to employees based on the owners personal beliefs
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First THANK YOU!!!! To all the poll watchers and election workers on this site for doing your part - I know this is going to be a big long and fraught election- I hope that none of you have to deal with any dangerous situation I will be sending you all lots of positive energy on Election Day JimInWisc - I grew up in Wisconsin so will be watching the results with great trepidation- fingers crossed
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And even flogging needs a certain amount of skill if you are going to use any force (that is the great thing about a leather flog is that it can be erotic just being grazed against the skin- and then - if the top knows what they are doing- all the way up to full force) but yes - a single whip can cause real damage with an unskilled top i would look in the leather community- and maybe the big annual gathering in Chicago- you should find some skilled tops there- maybe even on doing classes and looking for some subs to be used for demonstrations
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I agree that gay men are lucky that we get to set our own rules and whatever type of relationship you are in it is important that you both have the same expectations and good communication congrats to garsento!! And here is to a long and happy relationship
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Daniel Radcliffe (smooth shaven, scruffy, or with beard) short, tight, compact build ( and nice furry chest- makes me wonder about the rest of him) that I just find sexy as hell - and he seems to be smart and nice and funny (which means he might be nice yo hang out with after sex) and if you have ever watched the movie Kill Your Darlings - where he played a young Allen Ginsberg…. And there is the scene when Allen G gets fucked for the first time …. Woof
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Saturday morning cartoons were not this fun when I was growing up….
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I think it could be an intimacy thing (fucking is for hookups kissing is for relationships) or YOU sucked his cock and then he fucked you - so you took his fluids- but he didn’t take any of your fluids (so in that way he was being “safer”) or maybe maybe safer in that getting sucked by and then fucking some faggot is just because you are horny and he will service you - where as kissing a GUY means he is a faggot too - and THAT is dangerous for a closeted guy I used to be able to just fuck a guy at the baths and cum - but now I have found I can’t cum (as a top) unless I can kiss the guy I am fucking (but then I have been out for … 45 years)
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why won't he let me see his cock?
onlyraw replied to Eduardo's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
agree with all of the above also, maybe he has a small cock he is embarrassed about (which is why it goes in you so easily?) And I get that some guys are not into getting sucked they just want to fucK, but what ever reason- I think any bottom is with in his rights to say “hey - I want to see the cock that is going into me bareback” -
I haven’t heard anything about that - but you should confirm with your dr - or if you go to a good pharmacist- they should know
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So what kind of cbt do you love best?
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“It felt violent and raw. I had no rights here, just a hole.” a perfect summation of how a true bottom should feel a great story- looking forward to seeing how, and by whom he is used next
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The other thing- you are thinking of getting a piercing not a tattoo so if you don’t like it you can always take it out good on you - go for it
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Hi guys - I am glad this story resurfaced- I did have the next few chapters planned out - life just got busy and I lost track of it - I will see if I can find the rough drafts and finish them and get them posted
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Another One Gone - Horse Cave, KY ABS Closed
onlyraw replied to ErosWired's topic in General Discussion
Well Boston has not had a bath house in maybe 20 years? and only one (maybe 2 - I haven’t checked since before Covid) ABS with booths- and the one I knew about was not actually in Boston but just north of town for a bathhouse you need to go to Providence- about a 45 min to an hour south -
And with the right guy it is a lot of fun to find that line and how to stay “just” on the pleasure side
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New Boss Becomes My Slut
onlyraw replied to dirtycumlover's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
Fuck - Great story- I hope you find the time to get to the next chapter -
Yes hntnhole is right- when I say we all need to vote in these next elections I don’t mean just for congress or senate or president we need to pay attention all the way down the ballot the republicans were smart all those years ago when they started paying attention to state legislatures- as they control the districting- and thanks to their being better at gerrymandering than the democrats- the republicans will be able to elect more legislators than their percentage of the actual vote would otherwise get them and remember school boards and library boards can ban books - and city councils can make our lives miserable if they want to So pay attention alllll the way down the ballot
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I just saw a story in HuffPost that a judge in Texas ruled that requiring employers who provide insurance to include coverage for PrEP violates the religious freedom of employers.!!!! Oh and the judge also ruled that they don’t need to provide the HPV vaccine either because of course by providing these essential health care miracles- they (the employer) would be complicit in encouraging sexual activity outside of the marriage of one man and one woman this is why we need to all vote this November- if the Republicans gain back control of the senate in November Mitch will make sure that Biden is not allowed to get even one more judge approved - creating more vacancies for the next republican president to fill - and these are the types of judges they will be looking to nominate
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Turned on by having a slutty reputation
onlyraw replied to BritishCumdump's topic in General Discussion
I love this - this is the way it used to be …. (And I wish it still was…. I miss the bars) (and sounds like that was. Great local bar - you were lucky to have it) -
Okay, Explain: Why does “On My Way” also mean the opposite?
onlyraw replied to ErosWired's topic in General Discussion
Nor should you (we) have to….. but alas I think it is the world we are living in now one of the advantages of “the good old days” when you hooked up with the actual guy at the bar. You both knew what you were actually getting (none of this “I wonder how old the pictures are?”) and you could see if the other guy was so out of it he wouldn’t make it to your house… or you could tell if while he was playing with you he was also scanning the room looking for “something better “ -
Who's that hot guy in the (vid, ad, etc) discussion
onlyraw replied to viking8x6's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
If I was looking At the same clip - that was hot - and loved how the Top was grabbing and squeezing the bottoms cock and balls…
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