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PozBearWI

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  1. Different hookup sites seem to work differently - influenced I suppose by local customs.
  2. I certainly see your points @onlyraw. Honestly why are we even fretting safe sex anymore?
  3. Indeed I am thinking maybe it's time to give Recon another shot.
  4. I ran into nearly exactly the same thing here in WI on Grindr early last week.
  5. The basis of u=u were the partner studies, done 15 to 20 years ago when we could only measure down to 200 copies. At that level of viral load there were no partner to partner infections for serodiscordant partners that weren't show to be from the positive partner. As long as you're below 200; even if you are above 20 please don't fret it. Viral blips while common still fall within the <200 metric. When they don't that indicates that the individual is in treatment failure and alternative ARV's will be tried.
  6. Suf might be waiting to see if he hears from you.
  7. @MascTop no need for you to freak out.
  8. Indeed, there is no requirement that even though we try new things, we aren't required to stick with that.
  9. I don't think so. Some celebrate being poz, and some are intentionally trying to get there. But while there are some here who seem to get off mostly on stealthing, I think that is a minority opinion.
  10. It is of course, those words "in the legal sense".... And while legally I have no disagreement, we become aware of ourselves as humans at least a decade before we are legally an adult. If that teen has the ability to say yes or no to start or stop the activity, then legal be damned, they consented. Your own experience has to show you that...
  11. First, sucks you were raped. No one deserves that. Rape though while it involves sex parts typically, isn't what I was suggesting. Rape is by definition non consensual. If coach had talked with me and we agreed we were both interested, I don't think that would have been traumatic even if, for example, I was in my earlier teens. If I had been raped? Man I don't know. I am grateful I wasn't. How are you @blackrobe?
  12. Indeed, for a long time I've struggled to understand how sex with an adult would have damaged me. One of the coaches in high school was a stud I craved, even when I didn't really understand why. I find it hard to believe that if he had made a first move; or if I had (obviously I wasn't ready, brave enough, or such); that would have somehow damaged me. Sex at its core is something we discover. It seems to me by design to be a trial and error, trial and succeed sort of human experience. No one taught me how to masturbate. I figured it out unaided; and while once I started and would read "Ann Landers" teen advice; the antijack movement then didn't deter me. And somehow I had a productive career, and solid relationship and a comfortable enough retirement. Have I made plenty of missteps (eg: mistakes)? Oh hell yes. And learned from them.
  13. Welcome to BreedingZone @VirginEuroLatin.
  14. I doubt this will be the last time the three of them play
  15. The question is silly. The safest fuck you'll get is by poz guys who are on meds and undetectable. Everyone else presents a higher risk. There is no HIV test for "neg" because of the window period.
  16. I tend to interpret "side" as "not necessarily top or bottom". How one sets those parameters in a profile does not, for me, replace a conversation. They are a rough guide to discuss what we might do.
  17. I certainly do. Maybe with a bit of felching mixed in.
  18. Thanks for introducing yourself @Str8BottomFaggot. Actually even "faggots" are real men. I don't know where this delusional stuff comes from that a man being fucked makes him less of a man. I would argue it makes him more of a man - if it is relevant to manhood at all. Obviously you are in fact attracted to men physically or you wouldn't still be thinking about your college experiences and wishing that were your life now. To your point of "no going back", if you've achieved a point where life is pleasurable, what on earth are you wanting to go back to???
  19. My goodness what a beautiful dick!!!!!
  20. Whenever I read a story like this, I wonder what happens after. So time passes, the twink gets used a few more times; is finally poz and faced with man after man begging for his charged load.... How does that play out???
  21. The risk is less than most seem to know. I rawfucked for decades, caught a few other STI's but by fucking, HIV eluded me.
  22. I kind of struggle with the idea of influence... Best I can come up with is that my dick has been my most influential dick. Following the "little head" into pleasure. Too many dicks experienced to confine myself to one. I know there are many dozens I've forgotten. Perhaps if the question were "memorable dicks". But even then many would be "favorites".
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