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PozBearWI commented on KinkyTallBottom's gallery image in User Galleries
Michigan is just across the puddle... And woof I would love some naked time with you. -
These days if there is something we want to find we pretty much have to create it.
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Man @J-raw I can't speak for Atlanta, but poz fuck groups, or TBH just bareback only groups are rare. I am intending to start bareback only stuff here in Wisconsin.
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YES! I could feel this story. While ultimately and after lots of poz loads I chose a bit of a variation on cause of my infection; bottom line once I chose that it was quite like signing this contract. Infection wasn't just the 2% chance from raw sex with poz loads, but quite certain. But it did take me experiencing dozens of poz loads before I concluded that as much as I enjoyed them, they weren't making me a poz guy as well. But it's interesting, I made an informed decision, I am delighted to be experiencing HIV infection. I am not recommending this though. I truly do not think HIV makes us horny. But our horniness that was part of our willingness to risk raw loads; now casts us as the "desired one" once we seroconvert. It is weird and delightful to have the ability to be a gifter; and definitely something that took me awhile to get my brain converted.
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I don't know for certain the motivation. But I know that were I on meds I present less a risk than purportedly "neg" guys who often just don't know. So why not put 'neg' on PrEP and get hit up more?
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Indeed nearly all the guys I fuck with are cheating on their wives.
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So you like cheating sex or sex in public place
PozBearWI replied to Ronitsingh's topic in General Discussion
It is impossible for me to have "cheating sex" as my quarter century relationship has always been sexually open. I don't make the moral choices for my sex partners. If they want to lie to their mate - it tells me a lot about who they are. Happy to have sex with them; but unlikely they will become trusted associates. And of course, that really isn't the point of our tryst anyway right? -
There really isn't a single good one. I used to like Scruff but they booted me. I never found out why; but it wasn't too long after I seroconverted. I guess I was to keep that a secret??? Grindr hit or miss. BBRT sadly almost always a miss. NKP almost always a miss. BZ isn't a hookup site so I never approach it that way. But there isn't anyone I chat with here who I wouldn't gladly enjoy a naked romp with... I see some of my fellow poz guys are just outright putting neg. And honestly I don't see that changes the risk significantly if at all. PrEP is clearly an option for those who want to avoid HIV, so why is this even a question. HPV, HSV were never even mentioned. They were just widely accepted, at least in my circles.
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Wisconsin Poz Guy Play Group
PozBearWI replied to PozBearWI's topic in United States: Other: Central
Yes we put out condoms, but only some used them. My thinking going forward though is that if a guy wants condoms he'll need to bring his own. I want my events to be thought of as bareback events, even if that means fewer guys show up. -
Thanks @rawTOP and safe travels to you.
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CD4 and RNA numbers fluctuation
PozBearWI replied to Malesack's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
Yes our VL and CD4 vary over time. I'm approaching the two year point and there have been pretty wide swings although my number overall have been pretty tame compared to most fellow poz guys I know. -
Wisconsin Poz Guy Play Group
PozBearWI replied to PozBearWI's topic in United States: Other: Central
Thanks my friend. Let's see how this post works.... Then I'll go from there... -
I used to belong to a club, now defunct, called Wisconsin Bares. They've been gone for years. But started in 89 as a BB Nude play group. It evolved to be tame and social, and eventually disbanded. Being poz and coming to understand that I am just a ton more comfortable with fellow poz guys (or guys who truly don't fret it). I would be the host in the greater Milwaukee metropolitan area. I have always been a barebacker, and I don't really want to host sex parties where we all enjoy bareback fun with each other, taking responsibility for our own sexual health as we see fit. As I would be the host, guys coming would have to be comfortable with me being poz not undetectable as I plan to be an active participant. Which isn't to confuse my purpose as a host, which is man to man sexual pleasure open to all the others there. Not sure how/where I'll make it known. I suppose in these weird times maybe I should just suggest guys contact me about my events via email? I'm looking for some feedback. Am I probably barking up a tree that won't go anywhere?
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Brian would have me nervous... He is already misrepresenting himself. If he isn't to text while at work, at least limit to 1 saying something like "I'll message you after work". It should be crazy easy to be honest about our texting boundaries. Not an accusation of dishonesty; quite possible he isn't in touch with himself yet. My next conversation with him would be about that. Suf perhaps needs more in person time with you.
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We still live in a world where some at least continue to utter "it's worth any amount of money if only....". I think we have a responsibility to each other in a civilized society to make reasonable attempts to protect each other from harm. But it is up to each of us to decide what we, ourselves, define as harmful to ourselves. Keeping developing humans out of harms way until they can make an informed decision makes good sense. But if said developing human is smart enough to work out how to get around blocks or over fences - something youngsters have been doing for centuries - we've done our part. A lot of the current strife we're experiencing globally is how to define our boundaries. We seem to get caught up in trying to define everyone else's boundary even though those are more restrictive than those, we ourselves, define for ourselves. Why?
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A good point Philip about profiles and fellows we meet online. Hardly anyone who chats me, or who I chat, reads my profile. Honestly that confuses me. The sites all have a means for us to describe ourselves, give the relevant high points. I still complete mine. But maybe it is time to drop the whole profile pretense. Maybe just a face pic with minimal if any description makes more sense. Like we were the guy across the room strangers saw. (or visa versa; we're the stranger across the room and they notice us). Maybe it is much more natural to drop the descriptions which are often used to arbitrarily edit out "guys we don't want"; when things like occupation, interests are best answered in the moment we meet.
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So far I've managed to keep up
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Shoot if a guy I'm sucking starts pissing I just swallow.
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Reconnecting with my gay uncle
PozBearWI replied to Jaygusher's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
He has in Part 7 -
It is at once a delight and strange when I read how it is winter on other parts of this one planet we share; when where I live is in the midst of a toasty hot and humid summer.
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I've been a raw only guy since the 1970s. Do we take a bath wearing a wet suit? 🙂
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Let's not forget about TasP guys. Twenty years ago, before PrEP and during the many partner studies it became clear that Treatment as Prevention was highly effective. Look for your sex mates amongst poz guys on meds.
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Effective truly depends on what half the recommended dosage is accomplished? One of two pills daily or two pills every other day? And of course factor in potential exposures. Many will follow an On Demand PrEP; which BTW, at least in the US, is not recommended by the CDC. But if one is only exposed on Saturday, seven days of either Truvada or Discovy is more than is needed and in particular with Truvada, that might be the healthier option. The point I think is to discuss and understand dosing and discuss with your HIV doc. (Few GP's that I've met have much understanding on HIV at all, which I find confounding but all too common.). There are options which can be equally safe and effective. That said, if you don't want to be involved in those details; you don't wanna think about it; better to comply with dosing as the downside of improper use is worse than the infection you're trying to prevent.
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Time will tell Philip...
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Experience of prostate reduction surgery
PozBearWI replied to Wildpig's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
When you get cataract surgery, they will have to do some workarounds as a result of having taken flowmax. I found alfuzosin much more effective.
