norefusal
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of course. same. but what is "gross" about cut is not the actual cock, but the fact that a developed nation would promote institutionalized genital mutilation. unless it's medically necessitated or cosmetically wanted, why are babies being altered against their will?
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this is a win win for me because I know i'm not suppose to say the quite part out loud, but i get extra turned on by black and latino dick, especially if uncut, and those just happen to be the same types that like a fat ass to unload in so...
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i love this story because it a bit different dealing with older adults, a married couple and a sort of kinky triangle that ensues. not the more popular "twink is so f-ing dumb that adults pozing him on his 18th bday is like stealing candy from a baby" stories that i find a bit 😴
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i lived in nyc for 24 years and no hook up ever stole so much as a penny off the floor from me. i must be blessed 😜 and of course we all got our own way around the big apple. my driving comment was in reference to my current 100% car dependent city. some guys will uber or even walk to me if i host. i'm judging 40something yo men who ask me to come pick them up take them to mine then drop them back home after like im morgan freeman or something. even then it was at least miss daisey's car! 😜
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most of the nudist campgrounds (discussed in others threads) have communal rooms like this, so they do exist. private ones? i'm sure they do but as discussed by others here, getting into one is like getting into the hottest new trendy club. you'd have an easier time getting tickets to the latest broadway blockbuster than being invited into one. i started one of my own thinking "build it and they will come" but quickly learned the folly of that idea. most guys are surprisingly uninterested in getting in a sling which tbh i bought and installed just because i wanted to try it at least once. some guys will play around w the toys and gear as part of foreplay, but it's all pretty quickly abandoned. but this is an issue in general i find for those of us who are "kink curious". it makes sense that these things will go better once trust and familiarity is established, but experienced kinksters are super cliquey and trying to get your foot in the door is like something out of a bad high school movie.
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lol that's literally all of us! i hate not being able to host. the lack of choice infuriates me. what's the point of bringing an adult if you can't do whatever you want whenever you want. i go thru moods, sometimes i host, sometimes i prefer not to. but at least i have a choice. i've literally never had a bad experience hosting ever in all these years. i've hosted homeless drug addicts and they still didn't steal from me. im this way about grown men who don't drive. wtf. but i'm gonna be honest, i host a lot for anon str8 guys on the dl and you can judge their life choices all you want, but ive enjoyed some prime grade D this way so...
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Twisted Fetish: Tricking bottoms into topping
norefusal replied to hungry_hole's topic in General Discussion
first off, the OP must have a natural born talent for manipulation. perhaps a career in sales. i'd probably end up w a bunch of pupHawaii types storming out in a huff 🤣 the closest i've ever come to this is once while young and naive i stopped mid fuck, flipped over, threw my legs up and said "now you do me!" thinking "who doesnt love a good flip fuck?". answer: guys a whole lot less vers than I, that's who.😜 i don't know if youve ever been half-heatedly fucked by someone going thru the motions but it's anything but a good dicking down. i let the poor guy out of his misery after a few bleak minutes and we finished each other off 69ing. i have a had ton of offers from other bottoms lately but i figure thats because nowadays it's like 9 bottoms for every top, so desperate times call for desperate measures. 😜tbh i often enjoy finger banging them until they jizz from the prostate stimulation. -
it's the closest to me so that's part of the attraction. Twin Ponds in ME has been recommended too but i've yet to go so i can't compare the dif sites yet. big pic im sure they're sim. JH is very social/ party centric (altho not parTy centric. it's low key anti-420 which is downright homophobic imo but sneaking weed behind the dumpsters like in HS is fun too😜) and the sex is aplenty. my friend told me to just show up to TP and basically crash at whatever place my last hook up was but he sees me a cumdump fool so... tbh i had less sex at JH than i could have because it's a fuck ton of socializing for an introvert and sometimes i was too spent to fuck and had to retreat to my tent to repair. i don't know about the other sites but at JH if you wanna go off site and do non- gay/nudist things, there's not a ton of stuff to do.
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🤣 well, you won't be going to school at all once the fuck flu hits you. 😜 but if any of this gets out - well Mr Jaxx is out of a job and depending on the situation: everything about the story sounds more HS than college, so Mr Jaxx may be enjoying prison sex for a long long time 😜 and after all the publicity, you're probably either getting your ged or transferring again
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omg has it always been this expensive?!? i went to joes hideaway last year and ive no idea how it compares in terms of quality, but the cost was a fraction of hillside! this is like hotel prices to sleep in a tent! lol
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aw, we chase the world when the answer to our dreams was right at home in own backyard the entire time 😜
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all goes well for Asher for 2 years until his lil bro starts freshman year at asher's old school. he tries to reconnect w asher, missing his big bro who's barely spoken to his family since following his new path. Daddy immediately starts [banned word] on lil bro's "fresh meat" and what does this awaken in asher himself? incestuous feelings of lust? protective big bro vibes? or at 20 is asher starting yo have buyers remorse? being encouraged not to think for yourself may be comforting at 18 but at 20, is the bit starting to chafe?
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i think Nick = roommate who's yet to come home. Dan and Kevin are either typos or perhaps hallucinations, since right after their sudden unexplained appearance Paul reenters the room and starts bitching that Keith overdosed him w the G. which for me is the most realistic point of the story. anyone who ever 3wayed w a couple knows there's always an unwanted couple's tension/argument spoiling your buz 🤣
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🤣well it's a first person narrative and the main character is so high he doesn't know wtf is going on. but yeah, in addition to friend Steve and engaged couple Keith and Paul, there apparently a Keven, a Dan, a Nick and then a roommate who may or may not be one of the name mentioned guys. let's just say this guys gonna be sent home not knowing how many guys used his ass 😜
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what are we talking about here? most places have a local leather enthusiasts group that hosts events and pageants usually at the local leather bar. in my experience, local gay nudist groups also have a high %of guys into gear. if we're talking bdsm, most nudist gay campgrounds also have a public dungeon on site it seems. i find people are more open about their kinks on bbrt or recon but i also find that kink groups are tight knit cliques and very hard to break into as a newbie. but if you're just looking for quick hookups w other guys into gear, ive done ok on scruff.
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i don't understand where all of this is going. of course poz guys are going to say they have no regrets because it's the only healthy and productive way to move forward accepting facts. regrets over things you can't change is counterproductive imho. it's "normal" to feel pride about who you are. we all waste time thinking about what we'd do differently if we had the chance to do it all again and the truth is we all did what we did because that's what made the most sense for us at that time. do overs would make us different people in both good and bad ways. not better, just different. but at the end of the day, chasing is a 100% personal choice. no one can tell you to chase or not to chase. we each do what works for us.
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the OP poster imho described an encounter that sounded 100% str8 to me. he barely said hello b4 taking charge and being the agressor b4 quickly shoving his dick in w little to no foreplay. what, was he suppose to ask you how your day was? what are you gay? 😜 to answer your question: the guy was on sniffies! all he meant imho is that he lives the public life of a 100%str8 guy. he's not going to gay bars or pride parades or taylor swift concerts unless his girl drags him along. he fucked a slit nsa. that's all we know. what else makes him "gay"? is he now sending the OP love letters? do str8 guys hate anal? is it "gay" to shove your tongue down someone's throat to show dominance and get the party started? i let str8 guys fuck me all the time. i get what i want and have no desire to be courted by them. nor am i going to be blowing up their phone or screaming "heeeeyyy bitch!" at them from across a crowded restaurant if i see them in public. at the end of the day this guy is just saying "don't blow my cover. it's just sex. that's all. to me, the gay part comes in w the feels. i loved my ex husband dearly. i was so fucking gay for him 😜
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i've learned to sharpen my spidey senses a bit as there are a lot of closeted T users. many have a habit of never mentioning it once but surprise, guess what comes out halfway thru the hook up. some actually keep in under wraps and only spring it on you on the 2nd or 3rd hook up. i've manager to stay sober while they use on a number of occasions but worse than the temptation is the knowledge how crap the sex can be on T if you're not also spun to paper over the cracks. but yes Virginia, sober kinky sex does exist so don't give up the hunt
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From Groom to be to Dad's fuckboy
norefusal replied to Wincheslav's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
🤣you guys crack me up. sure, it's pure fantasy JO material where they all live happily ever after as poz sluts cool w incest 😮but let's discuss the ambiguous morals of a minor character and just ignore that his dad manipulated his vulnerability in order to dom fuck and gift him.... 🤔 -
i wish! i'm sure it differs depending on your age, location, habits etc back in the day WS was rare but that's because it was considered unsafe. but in a way i miss the "it's fun to try if it's offered but it's not a requirement" aspect i used to have. a couple of years ago a fb taught me how to drink from the tap and i got hooked. sometimes i hate when sex triggers my addictive side because now im on the other side of the hump: because i crave it it seems like almost no one is into WS and nothing is worse that asking for kinks that are refused. sure, i've been lucky to have met several guys who are into it, but it's still rare and other than that first guy, it's never their request. i always have to ask for it. it makes me feel like a piss junkie. in my experience its way more likely to happen at the start- guys often show up having to piss from the trip. especially if it's a cruising spot, guys often zip up and run off after they cum. a lot of them still seem to get a wave of shame after their secret desires are sated i think. it's often nice at the start too because if they're into it they get excited to learn youre a pig open to kinks and things are more relaxed after. also, if it's chem piss that's a nice bonus if your into that.
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Safe sex flyers lead to Poz.
norefusal replied to MattQueen1's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
lol despite getting confused at times about who was doing what to whom, i never lost my boner 😜 i lived a tamer version IRL -
What does it feel like after you have your nipples pierced?
norefusal replied to Falls727's topic in General Discussion
do you notice any difference in attention: does it make guys more or less likely to play w your tits? -
🔥ok, i now have a new bucket list item to tick off 🤞😜
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Preferred terms and derogatory names during sex talk
norefusal replied to BritishCumdump's topic in General Discussion
i'm a lil surprised when micro dicked guys invite me to humiliate them, laugh at them and make fun of their tiny appendages. i've not encountered it in RL but i've seen porn where the tops calls the bottom the r word. that's a bit 😮 -
yup. since i do most of my multiple partner whoring on the WE i tend to just take one dose Sun night to cover the whole WE. going from guy to guy to guy during a group event seems like textbook sti spreading opportunity. i find it best to take it before bed as taken in the am makes me nauseous and sometimes sick. depending on the dude i might skip it after the odd 1on1. the instruction all but say "use your own judgement". what else would "when you suspect you've been exposed" mean?
