norefusal
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this kink started when i first came out in my 20s. the limited m2m sex id had previously was w hot guys and the sex w women was very showy in a sort of "look how well i can do" way so when i got my first clique of gay friends to go out w, the stakes were high - any public hook up had to be w a hottie but im also a sucker for an aggressive guy. one time this hideous guy m2ed me at a party and it was so 🔥and even 🔥er when i realized none of my friends saw. after that i loved secretly hook up w fugly guys. especially once i started BBing, no troll was too hideous to rawdog me - the uglier the better. back then BB was humiliating enough but to risk it w shrek? especially if he kinda forced it on you! so 🔥knowing the look of disgust on the others' faces if they knew likewise, even if he's not fugly, there's something so humiliating about servicing the dick of a real Dick you just hate but will still be a sub faggot for 🔥🔥
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Anything sex acts your don’t particularly enjoy?
norefusal replied to Tiboer's topic in General Discussion
one of the benefits of trying everything and anything with countless men over many years is that eventually you'll hook up w a guy who knows how to do right that which you previously found not good using dildos on myself? zzzz but a few big dicked dom tops have recently shown me the joy of them using dildos to stretch my hole so i can open up quicker and really let them go deep 🔥🔥🔥 one guy DPed me by holding an 8" toy parallel to his own bbc. would like ve to try that again! 😈 -
Most public blowjob ever given or received
norefusal replied to mattg's topic in Cocksucking Discussion
nowhere public enough lol once a couple years I sucked a guy's dick on the dance floor at a gay bar and no one even batted an eye but the best was once, back in the 90s, i wet the dick of this guy in the toillet stall of the ladies room of a mixed dance club. he then bent me over the bowl and barracked my ass. i told him to make sure to pull out but he said "no. if i'm gonna cum, i'm gonna cum in this ass" i came all over the toilet seat and started to wipe it up but he said "leave it!" and pulled me out of the stall. ,as we rushed out i was not just full of the thrill and shame of unsafe sex but as we rushed out all the girls in line hurled insults at us for hogging a stall for m2m sex while they had to pee. i think i turned red w shame and i loved it 😜 -
i like variety if i'm fucking a guy good and he's really starting to open up, i like to take a min or 2 to repeatedly fully pull out and ram back in balls deep before returning to the regular rhythm . if he's sloppy n wet at this point it's all good. but trying to fuck a dry hole clamped shut like a vice is like trying to drill a concrete wall. if he's not turned on forget it, the battering will send your boner into duck n cover mode. likewise, if i'm all turned on, the biggest porn schlong will just slide right in like my ass is a cunt that just had a baby. if even a small dick hurts it's cause the too rushed it too soon.
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1. i've had so much sex w so many people over the years, i now need something new, edgier etc vanilla just don't cut it anymore 2. ive probably always been a depraved slut (born this way) but becoming an adult, losing your cherry, coming out ... these were all big deals. i just wasn't emotionally ready to be my true true self yet. baby steps 😜
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i like to drop trousers at a random truck stop. something about a unknown hairy dad, no words spoken, just shoving his raw dick up your ass, unloading and walking away, his unwanted kids deep in your guts. youre a guy but he just used u like a cunt. now he's headin home for family dinner w the wife n kids. you're not even his side bitch, just some dumb faggot he made his bitch once, used n forgotten.
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facials, especially in a public cruising area where others can see. having your bf jizz all over your face is humiliating enough, but walking out of a crushing area with a random strangers load dripping down your face is the best if you're into humiliation.
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i'm gonna opt out just because my ex husband and i traveled a lot and fucking the same guy in multiple countries doesn't count 😜also, the world was a different place when i was younger and not only was it harder to find guys in an unfamiliar place pre- internet, but the anti-gay laws and high chance of getting beaten up were real. too real to risk for most of us.
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i think you guys are overthinking this. they both have to not only attract new voters but ensure turn out of base. she seems to be doing more to poach his former voters and he seems to be doing more to rile up his base. getting black men to commit to voting dem is nothing more than shoring up their base and not losing an election due to poor turnout. she needs obama level turnout so getting obama to pep rally his base to vote for her makes sense.
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i'm not prissy but i'm practical. some WS guys can get all gas station fight from zoolander about it and no judgement but there nothing sexy about your house smelling like a nursing home. i'm more the drink from the tap and never waste a drop type 😜 anyways, my one time anally was one of those after a long session he breeds deeps and then instead of pulling out, just unloads his bladder inside. it's sorta akin to cleaning his dick off after kinda feeling of thankful subservience
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for gay couples: what do you answer about roles?
norefusal replied to PozTalkAuthor's topic in General Discussion
luckily this question pops up less and less as the years pass. my answer was usually some version of "one of the benefits of being gay is we don't have to follow all those weird restrictive rules of gender conduct that stifles you straight people so much. we can make up our own rules." -
yup. it's a 2 part problem. even if you want to, it's surprising hard to piss on command. a type of bladder shyness often kicks in. i've experienced it once and it was great just as others have described. but in this case, we were both spun so that not only enable my friend, who was previously weary of such requests, to be relaxed enough to willingly comply, but the chem piss enema also gave me an instant head rush that flew me higher than a kite. but that now makes me more cautious about anon WS in general as i have to assess if the thrill is worth the hell of relapse.
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currently, yes. it's my new fav kink 😈 in the past, no interest. who knows what the future will hold but for right now, i get off on it.
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apples and oranges ironically, i was more fearful of becoming a dad than getting AIDS lol is your friend on prep? is she on the pill? it wouldn't surprise me if these guys aren't also more worried about pregnancy than STIs especially in this post-dobs world of women bleeding out in parked cars. what a fucking nightmare. but just my own experience i feel str8 guys are more apt to be secret cheaters vs gays in open relationships so even if you have to take pills for 10 days after an oopsie i fell like this is a much less dramatic convo with your husband that your wife/baby momma.
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my fav position to get fucked in is doggy but i love to flip over to missionary when he's gettin close, not just for the eye contact, but the whole visual of the body language as he's about to erupt and i love seeing a guy's cum face as he unloads in me
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did we ever come to some consensus on how we're doing the math? if i start w the first dick i took up my ass until today, subtract the years i was married and monogamous, that's 15 years. 15 years x 52 weeks = 780. did i get fucked by 1 to 2 different guys a week over all that time? entirely possible. although w my luck, the actual # is probably 999, so no prize rewarded 😜
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he was. apparently inside Walter Mitty's fastasy world, there was an election where he won cruising area president by a landslide. he takes his duties seriously, hence he just had to "side-splain" to you how cruising works. don't listen. getting bred by randos in a public spot is some of best sex! there are no rules and if there were, he's not the official gatekeeper. it's actually most of the thrill: breaking "rules", getting barebacked by a stranger in public where other can see. that being said: be aware that he won't be the last cruiser to say "no bufu" when offering up your hole. there are as many reasons as there are different kinds of guys: ones who think BJs aren't "cheating" but fucking is, ones who think BJs aren't "gay" but fucking is, ones who think public BJs are a minor infraction but fucking in public is a high crime, etc one place near my old house was popular with dads seeking oral action, but when i offered one guy my ass he said no and went off on an oral history of the site and how years ago the police used to raid it, make arrests etc. hearing about the olden days where gays used to have to walk 10 miles uphill both ways just to blown is no substitute for dick up the ass but there ya have it in the early days i was weary of cruising the woods alone after dark, but the flip side is a lot more fucking happens after sundown
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first few times was ok. but i think i was taking it after sex just before bed. this last time i didn't think to take it till the next am after i woke up. took it on an empty stomach, got nauseous and almost threw up. ate some crackers and it eventually subsided.
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and yet the whole system is gamed the opposite. my feed is so clogged w the same nat info i know by heart already and yet frantic last minute searches for info, any info about the locals, who they are and what they think is like searching for a needle in a haystack.
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so.. i read here people attempting a serious discussion of 3rd party voting. then i read an article about our current 3rd party choice admitting he picked up a dead bear cub "road kill" then, because of "too much falconry and steak dinner" dumped the dead bear in central park a decade ago. 🤣
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sorry but i take the horrible person prize here 😜 trick #1 avoid all talk of exclusivity at all costs. it's not cheating if you didn't promise not to. if forced to discuss it, tell him you want to be exclusive. then tell yourself the operative word here is "want". we're only human and opps happen, sometimes you just trip in a public toilet and your open mouth happens to fall on a stranger's hard on. trick#2 go around fucking other people's husbands as often as you want. claim it's between them and has nothing to do with you. trick#3 cheat on every person you ever dated yet go around boasting that you've never cheated once. as george costanza said "it's not a lie if you believe it yourself" trick#4 if caught red handed, rely on time tested lame excuses ie the infamous "we were on a break" trick #5 you're no jimmy carter. jerk off to cheater porn. try to cheat but fail. it doesn't count. etc trick#6 catch your man cheating at the same time you yourself cheated on him. make a big big deal about how devastated you are that he did this to you. never even hint that you did the same. you're the victim here.
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and being over sensitive can be part of the problem. if, like so many of us, you come from a place where being gay is unacceptable. once you come out and seek out other gays you foolishly believe will automatically accept you, the rejection is palpable. anything as silly as not getting into a trendy club because you're not hot enough or wear the wrong clothes happens to everyone, gay or straight. but to someone freshly plucking up the courage to show up to a gay club for the first time? ouch
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haha like fox and cnn etc msnbc delivers a consistent and rehearsed message: all night long from nicole to lawrence it's the same. the fact that you chose to single out the black woman as the one who shouldn't be trusted really doesn't help present you as non prejudicial given the context of this discussion. but whatevs
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well, i suppose all minorities are unique but while i 100% agree with those saying it has nothing to do w credibility or qualifications, i also realize the topic is triggering to me due to my own past. the "gay community" is a mess when it comes to inclusion and in particular its lack of acceptance of bisexuality and the toxic attitude of " there are no bisexual men, only gays in denial". it also goes back to my early childhood when we moved to the #2 state with the largest % of italian americans. we were literally the very first family on the block that was not 100% italian american and our new neighbors openly spoke of it often, telling us to our faces that we weren't real italian americans. you don't get over these kinds of blatant rejections easily. that's just my perspective.
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no it's not and your last post proves it. when i was younger i made the silly assumption that a gay man would naturally not vote against his own interests and be a republican. boy was i wrong! knowing someone's minority group gives you zero useful information about their abilities or their political leanings.
