tallslenderguy

ditto to most of these posts, but probably the top compliment for me (like many others) is when the guy becomes a regular FB and keeps cuming back for more.

for me it depends on the guy. my best experiences getting fucked all involve tops who know what they're doing, whether with their mouth/tongue, fingers/hand or cock. i can sense when a top is ignorant of the effect he is having. the biggest turn on for me as a bottom is a top who knows how to read me or just simply knows by experience how to do any of those things. attitude is such a big part of sex and i can tell when a top has an attitude of wanting to push my buttons in a way that makes me crave him more. I was married most of my life, so have tons of experience as a top with the opposite gender. My turn on as a top came from making the bottom so hot and bothered they were practically shoving me in them... but I still had control and didn't allow even that sometimes. As a total bottom with guys i run the same way as I treated my wife, i.e., i like to have my desire ramped up and controlled and how a tops attitude is when he does it is just as important, if not more so, than what he uses to do that.

i never do, I'm totally focused on my cunt and getting bred. i edge when no one is around because it gets me further into heat and makes my hole hungrier, but i usually only like to cum after I've been loaded a lot... i feel unfulfilled if i come without a lot of cum in my pussy.

Depends on how virgin your virgin ass is? I didn't have my first cock until i was 27, but i'd put all sorts of things in my ass since I was a kid, so I wasn't new to having something up my ass. Frequency is also a factor, if you do engage in anal play butt it's been a long while, everything starts to tighten up. Like MackyJay noted:" best bet is to go slow and easy and use a lot of lube," that'll help you open up.

I've had 10+ on several occasions. How it feels depends on the guy connected to it. Some guys are into making a bottom feel good and some are not. The guys who have a big cock and want to make a bottom feel good and are practiced at it are an amazing fuck... not unusual for me to have an orgasm from those guys (which means it felt pretty incredible) :-)

Seems pretty clear to me this guy wants it raw but he's conflicted about it (e.g., he didn't stop you the first time). It's a tricky question because I think most of us are more inclined to do things when horny that we might not do when not ramped up. He may be into being seduced. I'd say the bottom line is respect whatever his answer is at the time you're fucking vs before or after discussion.

just got loaded by my favorite fb... guy makes me crazy and i have to bite my tongue to keep from saying "i love you" lol... he also worked my hole with his hand... was fucking hot

for me anal (and most of cock stimulation) is more foreplay than a means to an end I bring about. cock and anal play are a part of intensifying me being heat for being bred, butt Im not interested in cuming from self anal masturbation... unless i am totally desperate. for me it is so much about being bred that i'd rather forego cuming until I've been bred enough.

fuck yeah, one of my favorite fantasies is a top trying to breed me while i sleep. I'm not into pain though (well, spanking really intrigues me). for me a big part of the turn on is a top wanting to slide into my hole while I'm asleep... id want to pretend to sleep through the whole thing to maintain the fantasy for both of us that he was breeding me while i slept

i may not qualify for this one as i am pretty much total cunt. i don't really like to suck cock for extended periods of time. though i know how to be good at sucking, i think it's a waste of cock to put it anywhere but in my pussy.

Happened to me from a hook up from CL with a married guy. I was bb but didn't put it in the ad because to me it can be fun if it seems a little taboo to the top. This guy responded and told me he was married and needed to be safe and discrete and asked me if I was safe and that he always used condoms. I was horny and he was the first fuck of the day, so I told him what he wanted to hear and to use a condom. My ad's are always for anonymous walk in with my door open and me laying face down, ass ready in a darkened room. The ad attracts a lot of married guys on the dL. When he got to my house i could hear him as he undressed while stroking my inner thighs and ass with his hand. He spread my ass and tongued it for awhile, then I could hear as he removed a rubber and put it on. I could hear the sound of that little pocket on the condom as he slid in and started to fuck. He liked to pull out and gape, so I am guessing he pulled the condom off during one of the times he pulled out. I know he came at least 2 times because i could feel the twitch of his cock and the change in breathing when he did. after he was done, he made some sounds with the rubber, like he was removing it and then he left it on my ass, dressed and left. after he left, i checked the rubber and it had a little precum in it, maybe enough fluid to pass as a small load, but not much. but I was pretty sure he loaded me, so i used my fingers and then a dildo to release it from the second ring area, and found a huge load in me. was so fucking hot.

as long as i can, which is usually about 12 hours. I've had a couple of guys who loaded me and followed it with a piss chaser, longest I've held a guys piss was 8 hours, love it when a guy breeds me then pisses, especially without telling me he's going to do it. our bodies absorb most of the fluid from what we eat in the colon, so when a guy pisses in me and I hold it, my piss takes on his scent because I absorb it. really hot

LMAO

i bought some chia seeds at Trader Joe's about a month ago because I'm kinda a health nut, but hadn't started using them until yesterday after I read these posts. I ate about 6 heaping teaspoons full (2 each time, spaced out over the day). I just put them in the teaspoon and in my mouth and swallowed them with about 8oz of water. I practice Bikram yoga (aka "hot yoga") so always carry a liter and a half bottle of water around and drink about 2 of those a day to stay hydrated. After only one day I am already impressed by the results. Definitely a cleaner hole. I'm a critical care nurse and love that my tribe here is talking about and doing this. My life is about helping people get health and the happiness that flows from that, so this is awesome to me. :-)

Neither? I like creative fucking. I turn into a kinky slut when I'm in heat. I like a top who is good at reading me and fucks accordingly. I've been talking to a dom top online for a few weeks, we're learning each others kinks, and we both have each other really turned on. He says things like wanting to be lying behind me and pulling my hair so he can shove his tongue down my throat as he probes my hole with his cock to penetrate it. He wants to get me "a little drunk so he can control" me. He wants me to fall asleep with his cock in me and then piss in me while I'm asleep. He's told me not to cut my hair because he likes to get it matted with his cum. All of those things may qualify as "rough", but I associate rough with pain, and these things are all pleasurable to me... which he knows and he gets off on giving that kind of getting and giving that kind of pleasure.

Ive not been fucked by a top wearing a PA (yet), but am really turned on by the idea.

For me it depends on what the top is like, how he is, not how he looks. I pretty much never see the guy fucking me (unless he flips me, which is rare, and even then I'm not really focused on his face). So it's not like I'm turned on by his looks. Some guys fuck with their cocks, others it becomes an extension of them. There's a certain type of fuck who is so obviously into fucking that I really enjoy the process. But for me the process is about the moment of breeding, when his cum shoots into my hole. I almost rather not get fucked by a guy if I he doesn't cum. I don't see much difference between that and him wearing a condom. So, if a guy is just fucking to get off, then I like him to cum fast. And that energy is totally hot to me. If a top is really into the process of fucking, I sense that and enjoy a longer fuck. Ultimately though, it's all about hearing and feeling his orgasm and receiving his seed. '

Like so many of the bottoms here, I spend a long time with a shower douche cleaning... to me it's like brushing my teeth if I expect to kiss (it's just the other end of the same system). I don't even start cruising until I'm prepared. But that doesn't account for guys that become FB's. Not unusual at all for guys I've met cruising to become FB's and contact me spur of the moment when they want some. There are tops who seem to have little to no idea what a bottom does to prepare. For instance, I don't eat after cleaning out because I know that eating sets the system in motion. Also, it's not unusual for a top to contact me and want it now. It's rare for a top to ask me if I need some time. I've been direct before and said I need to prepare only to have a top flake on me because it took to long. Hormones are not always patient lol.

Have been talking to a guy for awhile, definitely dom and kinky. He wants to do several things, including "get me a little drunk." Ive never been drunk in my life, but the idea of someone stealthing me with a little alcohol up my ass is really hot. he only wants me a little drunk so he has more control, which i find really hot. anyone have any experience?

apparently "destroying a hole" can mean more than one thing. I'm not really into pain, so I guess I have always naturally leaned towards it meaning gaping or rosebudding. I think it's really hot when a guy does this to me, especially if he's subtle about what he's doing, that makes me really want him again. I had a guy who rosebudded me and I wasn't really aware that that was what he was going for (he took a pic and sent it to me after he left, which i found very hot). He started out eating my ass, but was really sucking on it to start the process. He bred me, then used his fingers and cock, pulling out a lot, which I thought was gaping me, but turned out he was rosebudding me. bottom line is I found it really hot that that's what he wanted to do and how he accomplished it.

to answer your question, at tops hole doesn't really matter to me since I'm a bottom, though I on rare occasion will fuck an irresistible ass. Though I don't typically fuck, I still think a mans ass is incredibly hot!. I did have something hot happen recently. I have a regular FB who likes anonymous walk in breed and go. He always likes to eat my ass then breed it, and he's really a sweet fuck, gotta bite my tongue to keep from declaring my love for him when he's breeding me lol. A few weeks ago he contacted me late at night and wanted to fuck... turns our he'd been drinking and after fucking me for about 15 minutes he asked me to suck him. Of course I did, and this is the closest I have come to actually seeing him, though my face was buried in his crotch. He liked it and he has a sweet ass, so I ventured down to his balls, then his taint and then to his hole, which he offered up and i took with my tongue. while i was rimming him, i heard this sound and looked up to see him sucking himself. Just about blew my load seeing that. Was very hot.

my favorite part is a combination of receiving the tops lust and cum that both culminate in orgasm... and love it when the top stretches the orgasm out and stays deep and pisses

I have the "can opener" from Fort Troff. it's rigid, so it doesnt collapse and holds your hole open.... takes a little work getting it in, but stays completely open once its in.

This is a very cool community. Thank you rawtop for creating a place where we can meet others like us. :-) With exceptions that are too few to innumerate, I am a total bottom (i.e., every once in awhile, I enjoy sticking my cock in a warm ass, butt am not obsessed with it like I am receiving). For me being a bottom refers to my ass, hole, cunt, pussy, not my mouth.... I can use my mouth, and even like to, but not for long. My main desire is a top who's main desire is a guys ass, hole, cunt, pussy ( or whatever he may call it). One of my fantasy desires is to meet someone who is a groomer. To me a "groomer" is someone obsessed in the opposite way that I am (i.e., they are obsessed about man hole), but has taken it to another level when it comes to getting what they want. They have turned it into an art form. We all know that getting a bottom is easy, so "art form" is far from necessary, but it is a way of making sex more exciting for both parties. Here is an example of what I am talking about: Before moving I had a FB who I would describe as a "groomer." I met him on CL. His ad said that he liked to give massage and thats what I responded to. It took me quite awhile before I figured out this guy is a groomer, though looking back I can see how he controlled things right from the beginning even though I thought I was the one getting (a massage). He always wanted me to host and he always had certain ground rules (of control it turned out). He always wanted me to leave my door unlocked and be waiting in a darkened room lying face down naked and blind folded. We got together dozens of times, but I never saw him once. The first time he came over, he gave me a long, sensuous massage (all face down, which should have been a clue for me). He was so good at what he did that when he left I felt both totally relaxed and totally wired. He managed to get me totally sexually aroused and hungry, but didn't sate my arousal, just provoked it. He was already "grooming" me for the future. He only teased my hole. I found out later he did that for 2 reasons: one, to gauge me (i.e., find out if I was a bottom), and two: to make me hungry for more. He left my ass twitching I was so horny for more. After the first time, his "massages" became more and more focused on my ass. He always took the time to massage the rest of my body, but that became a short (but never felt hurried or rushed) procedure. That was a huge part of how hot this was, he never felt like he was in a rush or hurry, which spoke to me of perfect control, because no matter how turned on I was, he was always in control. What I learned, over time, was he was into opening my hole. That was his real desire all along. He got totally turned on by controlling and opening a guys cunt. He never fucked me, which at first both frustrated me and left me wanting more. He would use his mouth, hands and toys. Part of what made this very sensual was being blind folded all the time. I could tell that he brought toys and lubes because he would lay them out on my bed so they were touching my body. I couldn't see the toys, but I could feel them against me. Like a blind person, I could only imagine what was coming. He was so slow and purposeful about how he did things, I often couldn't figure out what he was doing. He wouldn't let me talk, but was very verbal, but not in a loud or forceful way. He would be working a toy into my hole and would encourage with words like "that's it, open your cunt for me...," which totally made me compliant. He liked to rim me after opening me with toys... or I thought he was rimming me. I found out after awhile that his rimming was really sucking on the edges of my cunt, helping it to rosebud (he took a picture of my cunt and sent it to me after one session and he had thoroughly rosebudded it and I didn't even realize it when it was happening). I moved away, but he told me after I moved that he had planned many things for me that we never got to. One was to tie me up spread eagle on my bed and pimp my hole out. While he didn't want to fuck me himself, he liked owning my hole and doing with it as he pleased. What made it so hot was how he did it. He was almost stealthy about getting what he wanted.

I too have had this fantasy for years. I love the idea of being fucked while asleep, but like many of you, I do not want to miss the experience. For me the real turn on is not that I want to be asleep but I want the top wanting me to be and believing that I am asleep. The turn on is the tops attitude of wanting to cum load my cunt without me knowing it. I've tried to set this up a few times on CL, and several guys were turned on by the fantasy, but haven't had any real takers. For me, part of the turn on is the top being really careful and purposeful in how he gets his cock in, totally turned on by the stealthy aspect of it.