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depends on what's on it. I am pretty scrupulous about staying clean, cock and hole and mouth. Not into disease or strong smells and being unclean can promote both. On the other hand, if the cock is coated with cum, that's another matter. since I keep my hole clean, if a top fucks my cum filled hole, it's not unusual for me to clean him off after he's added his own load (no cum unwasted). I usually have a little hesitation in my mind because I know the bacteria in the colon can make you sick upper GI, but I know how thorough I am cleaning my hole, so.... The smell and taste of cum covered cock, yes. Otherwise, no, do not like stinky smelly cock, ass or crotch. (didn't like it on a woman either when I was fucking or eating pussy).

funny typo. some would argue that just being a slut achieves this.

I can imagine it with that description... but I agree it's not a likely scenario for a study. lmao

Ditto to that. It seems I cannot get a bj without getting chlamydia or gonorrhea, I went for years... decades really, without getting a bj for that reason. almost never top either... butt that's mostly because I am bottom wired.

The first time I ever had sex with a guy was me giving him a bj. He came in my mouth and I swallowed it, it did not occur to me to do otherwise. I still suck cock and swallow cum, but it is always my preference to have cum in my ass. If I don't have a choice and all he wants is a bj, my favorite way to have a guy cum in my mouth is if I know he is going to shoot, or he starts to, i take his cock deep throat. For me, feeling him shoot in my throat is the best a bj can be.

Wow, sorry to hear that. It sounds like your healthcare provider treated you presumptively by giving you antibiotics, even though you tested negative for an infection. Prostatitis can also be caused by a virus, in which case antibiotics would not help. The other symptoms you mention (i.e., "itching") usually go along with an infection because the pathogen not only infects the prostate, it infects the urethra. Do you still have the itching, or did some of the symptoms resolve and others not? If you had itching and/or urethral burning, it sounds like you may have had an infection. Infections can cause chronic prostatitis. Flomax is often given for benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH), which is a common occurrence in men, usually as they age. It's possible that you have BPH and because you are sexually active you may have associated the two (i.e., prostate pain and std)? I don't know, just speculating, but you never were actually diagnosed with an std? But BPH wouldn't cause urethral itching. An intervention for enlarged prostate that has been around for a long time is prostate massage. Though it has no evidence as a cure, it is at least fun if you have any bottom tendencies. Seriously, though, it might not "cure" you but it could provide temporary relief for you so that you can function better sexually. Kind of like massaging or stretching a muscle before workout. This link has some other ideas. Good luck. https://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/000524.htm

bearbandit, Thanks for the input, it's always appreciated. I took my first dose after lunch and went outside and gardened, no nausea or initial side effects. I'll take it a month then get the round of tests for kidney function, etc. Fingers crossed. I have never been one to have to take meds, but when I do I usually tolerate them well. I do know the colleague is bound by a code of ethics, and HIPPA as well in the U.S. I'm not really worried about people knowing. I do not invite adversity, but have dealt with it enough that I know how. Most of the people I work with are amazing and wonderful people, I would not expect a bad response... but Ive been wrong before. Either way, I'm not going to worry about it. It was really kind of funny the way it happened.

Hi guys, For those of you following my story. I went back to the doctor this last Monday (3/21/16) and he indicated that my tests demonstrated the strain of HIV that I have has no resistance to any of the meds. so today I will start on Truvada and Tivicay (dolutegravir). I'm on my bed typing this with the containers sitting next to me. Despite their reputation for low side effects, I have a little trepidation about taking the first dose. I shouldn't drive a school bus until I know how they are going to affect me. I was provided with copay cards that are good for a year, between them and my insurance I had zero cost. Wow. Kind of a funny story. I am critical care nurse in a hospital and am fairly well known, so I asked the doctor to phone the prescription in to a town where I live, 10 miles away. There was one pharmacy tech in particular that I work with often who I was trying to keep my diagnosis from for some privacy. She greeted me by name as I walked in to get my prescription today and ended up waiting on me. LOL, wtf, I had no idea she worked at both hospitals.

My name on squirt is "tallfarmerguy", (i get a lot of inquiries about sex with animals lol). I get it too, have owned several country places and farmed organic veggies for farmers market. When I got divorced, my former wife got the farm and I ended up moving from Virginia to Louisville KY. Went to school there and got a BSN, now I'm a nurse with a big garden in my backyard. Country life is a mixed bag for me, love the lifestyle, but it's harder to get sex and a guys gotta have cum in his ass after working out in the fields all day (or even while he's working out in the fields).

I agree about the cumunion parties. I've been to one and will not go to another. Plenty of fucking and no unloading. The one I went to there was a guy who fucked me three times, with a condom on!. When he came back for a fourth round I said "sorry, the condom is irritating me." (what I meant was: "it's pissing me off"). I've gone to this same BH on a Monday or Wednesday and always cum away with at least a half dozen loads in my ass. I got fucked plenty at the comunion party, but only got one load. In defense of the top, I get that once a lot of tops cum, they're done, so I can see how they may want to stretch things out (so to speak), before cumming. I also agree about the ABS, especially at lunch or quitting time, seems the intent is more focused. I typically get more action with results at an ABS than I do at a place that's strictly 'gay' venue.

Great point. People cannot tell just by looking at us that we are gay, and vice versa. With men and women, you have visual cues. I'm in a similar boat, people do not know I'm gay unless I tell them, especially since I was married most of my life. There was a time when being effeminate got you identified as "gay," but now we have metrosexual, so that doesn't work. Really effeminacy has never been a true indicator, but it's been used. In an ideal world, anyone could invite anyone out on a date without fear.

Hi gaynevets, Cool question, thanks for putting yourself out there and asking it. I don't think there is one simple answer to this question. I think part of the challenge is we tend to get our ideas of relationship from what's around us, i.e., a heteronormative culture. I see a different chemistry between two guys than there is between a man and woman, or two women for that matter. It makes sense to me that the combination would result in a different type of relationship than what we are (maybe mostly unconsciously?) familiar with and have been raised to expect. Guys from our generation have witnessed some evolution where being gay has gone from being an illness (considered such by society) to a 'normal' state of being. Most of society seems to have accepted that. Though there are sub cultures that are stuck in the dark ages still, we're definitely freer to openly express who we are now. I think that is part of the challenge though. After hiding in closets, backstreet bars and restrooms, from a society that didn't allow for us, we're now freer to be. But being accepted, and the openness that can accompany that, is still in its infancy. I think gay culture lacks a lot of the components for initiating, establishing and maintaining relationship because the opportunity for open relationship is newly available to us. I had an experience when I finally got to the place where I had processed through my homophobic upbringing and accepted who I am. I was at a Barnes & Nobel books store, buying and obviously gay book. Just the fact that I felt free to openly do so was a big change for me. When I was checking out, I was chatting with the guy ringing me up and mentioned that I had no idea if the book was any good. I flipped the book over and showed him a picture of the author saying: " I selected it because I thought the author is cute." So many things were happening for me in that simple exchange. I didn't give a fuck what a perfect stranger thought of me and was being open about who I am (a big change from having hidden most of my life). I was further sort of flirting with a stranger, who I had no idea might or might not be gay, but it didn't matter. I was treating who I am and the fact that I thought another guy was cute as perfectly normal openly. The guy behind the counter was obviously a little surprised but smiled and agreed. It was such a simple thing, but it really felt good to just be. This is probably a way different response than you were looking for or expecting [laughing], but you managed to push a button with your question. If you are still reading, lol, beyond just exercising your freedom to be who you are and asking a guy who looks good to you (relationship wise) out on a date, there is the 21st century approach of dating sites. When it comes to dating for possible relationship vs just hooking for sex, I've had the most success with OK Cupid. For me, the profile is important, but there are also lots of questions that one can answer that the site uses to rate compatibility. When you find someone who interests you, you can compare your answers and determine chemistry on your own. Some of the questions are silly, some worthwhile, but they at least give you a start. I think a profile is also important if you are using a dating site. I believe one has to give to get. I have a long, serious and detailed profile and have also answered many questions. I think a big part of the part of the challenge in finding and establishing relationship is that a lot of guys do not know how to articulate who they are or what they want beyond the basics. My response is almost violent when I read: "I like eating out, walks on the beach and going to the movies...." If that is the extent of a persons self awareness, they are still going to be alone even if they find someone to co-habitate with. My take is GIGO (i.e., "garbage in, garbage out"). I skip those profiles. I also skip the profiles where the person is to lazy to write much, or anything at all, and says something like: "if you want to know, just ask...." What I see when I read that is: "I am lazy and/or haven't got a clue of who I am or what I want, but I know I want, so I am looking for someone else to do all the work for me." The other kind of profile I've learned to avoid is the one where the person believes they are self aware, but seem like they have been looking in a warped mirror. They often have a long list telling all the things that they are: "I am smart, intelligent, funny, good looking, kind, considerate...." At first, this seems pretty good, but really all they are giving is their own biased opinion of themselves, which may or may not be accurate. The profiles that attract me are the ones where the person knows how to be who they are in writing. They share a slice of their life with you, their thoughts and feelings (their whys and wherefores) about a movie, or a food or a beach or a song or a person or event, or anything really. They know how to let you in and give you a glimpse of the person inside. They offer places to connect to, provide stepping stones for the journey of relationship.

lol, 193

For me it's not just the feel, though that's a part of it. I offer my ass for breeding and am disappointed if I get fucked and not bred. For me getting bred is like I get to keep part of the top and his pleasure once he's done. I refer to myself as being "in heat" and that's pretty accurate, I'm driven to be bred. If a top ever uses a condom, I empty it into my ass after.

I used to be more descriminating as a bottom, butt have evolved into such a cum slut, I'll pretty much take any cock that can penetrate me, as long as we're only talking fucking. I'm very picky about who I kiss, a little picky about who I suck, but will bend over for pretty much any bare cock. Used to have a FB who was very obese and had a very small cock, I was always face down when he fucked me. I was always curious how he was able to navigate his way in, given his girth, but he always did and always left a huge load. I loved him. P.s. Construction, you're fucking hot, can't imagine a bottom saying no to you. You had me at the thighs

Hey guys, my kinky side seems to have no end. I ordered a cock and hole vacuum the other day and can't wait for it to show up lol. I've never done either before, don't usually pay much attention to my cock and have had a few tops who played with my hole and used their mouths to suck it into a rosebud, butt beyond that have never played with vac toys or had them used on me. would be interested in reading your opinions and experience about them.

I copied and pasted this from the CDC website on current standards and treatments: "The epidemiology of antimicrobial resistance guides decisions about gonococcal treatment recommendations and has evolved because of shifts in antimicrobial resistance patterns. In 2007, emergence of fluoroquinolone-resistant N. gonorrhoeaein the United States prompted CDC to cease recommending fluoroquinolones for treatment of gonorrhea, leaving cephalosporins as the only remaining class of antimicrobials available for treatment of gonorrhea in the United States (539). Reflecting concern about emerging gonococcal resistance, CDC’s 2010 STD treatment guidelines recommended dual therapy for gonorrhea with a cephalosporin plus either azithromycin or doxycycline, even if NAAT for C. trachomatis was negative at the time of treatment (1). However, during 2006–2011, the minimum concentrations of cefixime needed to inhibit in vitro growth of the N. gonorrhoeae strains circulating in the United States and many other countries increased, suggesting that the effectiveness of cefixime might be waning (118,540). In addition, treatment failures with cefixime or other oral cephalosporins have been reported in Asia (541-544), Europe (545-549), South Africa (550), and Canada (551,552). Ceftriaxone treatment failures for pharyngeal infections have been reported in Australia (553,554), Japan (555), and Europe (556,557).CDC no longer recommends the routine use of cefixime as a first-line regimen for treatment of gonorrhea in the United States (540). In addition, U.S. gonococcal strains with elevated MICs to cefixime also are likely to be resistant to tetracyclines but susceptible to azithromycin (540). Consequently, only one regimen, dual treatment with ceftriaxone and azithromycin, is recommended for treatment of gonorrhea in the United States. CDC (http://www.cdc.gov/std/gisp) and state health departments can provide the most current information on gonococcal susceptibility."

wow, i think that is hot too. I've sucked a lot of cocks, but no one has ever tried that while i was sucking them.

sightly gaped and cumsloppy (preferably mine)

I've never been stoned or drunk, just not something I've ever done. Can you catch a buzz from someone pissing in you? Is it even possible to pass alcohol that way? I've heard of "butt chugging" (where someone pushes booze up your ass), but hear it's kind of dangerous because the alcohol gets absorbed directly into your blood stream that way, so it's really easy to over do (watered down beer can get you drunk). So, am wondering if the same applies to a guys piss, especially if he's had several beers to make him piss a lot?

The idea of being stealth pissed is hot to me. I've actually had it happen a couple of times, once in a restroom the other at an ABS. The one at the restroom was an understall fuck. This guy came in and wanted to fuck, so he slid under and I mounted his cock. after he was done, he wrote me a note before leaving saying "thanks, I've needed to go all morning." The other was through a gh at an ABS. the guy was doing a slow fuck and kept pausing, but i didn't think anything of it. I have a lot of practice holding in loads, so I hold whatever a guy deposits in me without really thinking about it. After driving home though I really had the urge to go and a lot of piss came gushing out. I was kind of surprised that I couldn't feel it when he was pissing, but it was a total turn on for me to realize what he'd done. I even took a load after him before leaving, so I wonder what the other guy encountered? My second sphincter is pretty strong though, so when I clean out I always use a long dildo to make sure there's no water trapped, so it;s feasible to me that a top could stealth piss me if he was deep. The other idea that is just a fantasy is someone stealth pissing when I'm sucking him off. I have my doubts as to whether this is even possible, but I've recently had a top tell me he's done it several times. I have no desire to drink piss, but this guy swears he will convert me into a piss drinker lol. I'm not really that oral, but will do it as foreplay. On the occasions when I can relax enough and get into a rhythm, I can get a cock into my throat. I was doing it with a guy once who was semi flaccid and was able to hold it in several times. I had the weirdest sensation that something was going in, just figured it was pre cum, but it seem like a lot to be pre cum. It didn't occur to me till later that he may have pissed, but it seems almost impossible that he could match his pissing to my rhythm and only do it when his cock was in my throat. I didn't taste anything, so it didn't really occur to me. But thinking about it later was a real turn on. Any top ever do this? is it even possible?

It's a hot idea, making a guy piss, but not sure how possible it is? I've heard of guys making their bottom piss while fisting them, but not sure how you'd get a guy to piss by manipulating his cock?

Fascinating topic. fetish: "a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body" Not sure who gets to qualify what "abnormal degree" is, but my fetish is definitely my ass hole. I discovered it as a pretty young kid, probably around the age of 9 or 10. There was a kid on the street where I lived who I kind of had a crush on. One day when we were at his house he showed me an enema nozzle and told me his mom would put it up his ass. I don't think any abuse was happening to him, but I do think he sexualized it, I think he was sexualizing it with me. The idea was planted though and I started putting things in my ass after that and discovered I liked it. As a kid, I didn't do much ass play that I recall, but once I hit puberty and discovered masturbation, it definitely was a big part of it. My early experimentation was more focused on depositing something inside myself, so I experimented with enema and even used a bicycle pump to pump air into myself lol. As an older teen and young adult, i got more into the actual penetration, so larger things found their way in there because I was fantasizing about getting fucked (I was really repressed and didn't have sex with a guy till i was 27). I was working as a maintenance person and one of the tools in my tool shed had a large, smooth metal handle with a ball on the end, that found it's way in several times. As an adult, i've evolved into being more into other guys interest in my hole. I have toys, but don't get much out of pleasuring myself. I get really turned on by guys who have a fetish of other guys holes (mine lol). And the "fetish" (obsession) that another guy has for asshole is a big part of it for me, almost as much as the actual act of penetration. Nowadays I get really turned on by a guy who is creatively obsessed with how he can play in my hole. And I wonder if that goes full circle to how as a kid I learned about my hole from another kid who may have had a asshole fetish?

poppers (amyl nitrite) is a vasodilator. It stimulates the release of nitric oxide in your body which relaxes smooth muscle (the muscle that surrounds your blood vessels) causing them to open up. It lowers your blood pressure, which causes your heart to speed up to compensate. If you're taking blood pressure meds or Viagra (also a vasodilator), your blood pressure can get dangerously low which is why some people get light headed and feel like they're going to pass out. The blue lips some experience is because the body will try and compensate if the blood pressure gets to low by shunting blood away from less vital organs to the more vital ones (which is kind of funny when you think about some guys not being able to get erect as a side effect). It also relaxes the anal and vaginal sphincter muscles, which is one of the reasons some of us love it. We give nitrites to people who are having heart attacks, a common side effect is headache. About 10% of people get migraines. I'm guessing that using poppers may have similar effects. All in all, it's a pretty potent (though short acting) drug. Prolonged and repeated use can do some pretty serious damage.

not for me. I was married 31 years, from the age of barely 21 (long story, religious background). I had my first experience having sex with a guy at age 27. For me, cheating, and then lying to cover it up, was the most tortuous and painful thing I've ever done. It's not that I think an open relationship is wrong, that's a whole other arrangement that includes the decisions of all parties involved. For me, there is nothing exciting or fun about cheating and lying, it filled me with guilt and shame. Eventually, my wife found out and was devastated by it. good times. I don't recommend it.