tallslenderguy

lol, yeah, I know... and the truth is I'd be sucking the other guys cock. just saying where I really want it. Some guys derive a lot of pleasure from oral, i get some butt my ass is just much hungrier. Even on the rare occasion when I use my cock, I'd much rather fuck than get sucked.

It may be a bb euphemism for some, but it can mean a whole lot more. I think snaketat makes s good point, that it can be a guy fishing

yesterday between 3 and 5:30 by the afterwork guys at the ABS. There always seems to be several guys who love to get sucked hard through a gh then have me back my ass up to breed. After getting 2 guys like this, a third guy who Ive been with before slid his cock through the gh... this guy has a beautiful cock and I only sucked it a few before backing my hole up and swallowing it with my cunt. From experience I suspected he was only going to fuck me for a bit and not cum. The last time I'd been with him, he invited me into his booth (hell yeah), but turned out to have a foot fetish. He licked and sucked my feet, which was ok, butt I have a hungry hole. He took his socks off and I returned the favor for a bit, but wasn't really into it, so I left. Apparently he was cool and into more than feet because this time he fucked me a little while, then reached through the gh and fingered my hole... and quickly worked on getting his hand in. I've never taken a hand, so I had to kinda pull away a few times because he was going for it. At one point he removed his hand and backed his ass up to the gh. This guy has a sweet ass, so I started fingering and working my hand, and he was pretty tight, but wanted it. I've never had my hole hand in a guys hole before, butt it almost happened with this guy, and it was fucking hot. he asked me to cum over to his booth and worked me some more, then sat on the chair legs up and I worked his hole some more and he came. was really hot, i want more.

I think it's a true statement that almost all guys have a substantial instinctual drive to have sex. It doesn't kick in at birth though, but around puberty (in most), when the messenger/hormone testosterone increases and awakens the sex drive in us. What's fascinating to me is different responses/expressions people have/give to that drive (i.e., "bottoms, tops, gay, straight, bi, trans" and everywhere in between). I think the ingredients are similar (and inborn) in all of us. I also think that life is like a chef that puts those ingredients together in each of us creating all the different dishes. I dunno though, it's been a question long asked (nature vs nurture). Most seem to agree that both are involved, but where to draw the lines between the two is the curiosity.

Barebandit, thanks for your thoughtful (and thought provoking) reply. I don't think there is one simple or standardized answer to this question, but I do think we can understand... if not 100%, at least have some understanding. I think you offer some great insight. My thoughts go towards what you alluded to re bad boys and rebelling against cultural norms. There's always been an element of culture that lives on the edge of evolutionary change, bucking the status quo. I see chasers as a kind of a 'Band of Brothers,' putting themselves in harms way, but in the process, establishing a camaraderie of fraternal brothers where members are connected by the same bond. I think there is a drive to belong in all of us, and I see this desire (need?) expressed by chasers often. In this case, getting "pozed" is the rite of initiation one must go through to be accepted as a member.

Thank you for your answer bethmygibbons. I'm sorry you have felt ostracized by the gay community, it can be very hard to not feel a part of a group of people you identify with. I hope things are better for you now.

hey tallbtm, yes, I have considered prep, I cannot afford the steep price tag though, still looking into it to try a figure a way. Not all insurance companies cover it. The idea of it makes a ton of sense to me. Do you have any side effects with it?

p.s. when it comes to piss, not so much into the smell of it, but I love it when a top pisses in me (or even on my ass, though I really want it inside me). One scent that is a real turn on from me is when a guy pisses in me, I hold it for hours and end up absorbing a lot of it. I've noticed when I do that that my piss takes on the tops scent and I think that is FUCKING HOT.

Ditto this. It is complicated. I'm not into pain, but find myself drawn to getting spanked when I watch some of the porn. Not sure I'd enjoy the reality as much as I enjoy the porn though lol, and I suspect that is true about at least some who chase? The other side of the coin is "gifters." I was cruised by a guy once who wanted me to come to his house and get bred. As we were working out the details, he told me he had a new toy he wanted to use on me first. When I asked him what it was, he didn't want to tel me saying I wouldn't want to do it if I knew. Finally he told me it was a tooth brush. I ended up not going over because I thought he might be wanting to poz me and that's why he wanted to use the toothbrush first... he claimed to be neg though. I know the risks I take being a bottom cum slut, but I still ask about status in a tiny attempt to protect myself. I don't consider myself safe, but I'm not purposely trying to catch anything. I get bummed even when I get chlamydia. I went years without ever getting sucked because it seemed every time I got a bj id end up with chlamydia... but I never skipped getting fucked, so I don't consider myself even safer because I don't want a disease, I just don't want one and don't understand those who do.

It is "difficult to get into somebody's head and see why..." that's why I am asking :-). The point of this post/question is not to judge, it's an attempt to understand. As far as "caus[ing] very serious self harm," what is your definition of "serious self harm?" Does trying to catch a potentially deadly disease qualify as "serious self harm?" I took care of a patient with hep C this week, I had to give him 2 units of blood because he was bleeding from his esophagus, a side disease caused by cirrhosis of the liver that results from hep C. That seems serious to me.

Hey guys, I am mystified and would like to understand the reasons why guys want to be poz'ed or want to catch other diseases. I'm a critical care nurse and often take care of people who have the diseases that some on here "chase" and/or want to catch and I want to understand the reasons why. I personally hate it when I get sick in any way, even just a cold, and would like to understand. Thanks for sharing.

Hey Chubtop, thanks for your post. Here's my perspective. I'm a tall slender guy, visually I like slender, so I work at staying that way. Having said that, as a total bottom slut, I don't care what my top looks like or how much he weighs. I generally get fucked the way you describe a lot of your experience (i.e., anonymous walk in breed and go), so I don't see the guy fucking me anyway. Removing the visual an enhance the other senses for me, but thats all another topic. Before I moved, I had a regular FB who I'm guessing (by feel) weighed about what you did/do. I always enjoyed hooking with him and he'd breed my hole about once a week, sometimes twice. He was really large and had a particularly short cock, but the cock girth was good. That to say that he had the added challenge of a small cock on top of having a big body. I was always a little surprised that he could fuck, given both challenges. But he had it down really well. He liked to straddle my slender legs and ass vs have me spread them and he would always be in a sitting position. He usually managed to get it in that way, cream me, then leave. A couple of times he had performance anxiety and was unable to get it up, I'd tell him no worries, it happens. And that's how I honestly felt. I really enjoyed getting bred by him and wanted him to know it. And I guess that's what I'm trying to convey, there are bottoms out there who want you no matter what and I think if you realize that, you'll want it too and the issue will cease to exist. Sure, there are bottoms who will have an issue with it, but thats just some... there are plenty who want your cock and load and your worries are unfounded.

'damn it Jim, I'm a nurse..." (points if you're a nerd and get the reference)

nope... not really into the heavy smells. love the smell of cum, but a dirty hole or really smelly groin or pits is a turn off for me. I love all those parts, but love them clean with just the subtle scent of the guy.

it is stereotyping, butt gotta confess that some of my fondest tops have been black. Almost every black guy who has fucked me has been an artist (when it cums to fucking). Not sure how to put it, but my experience with black guys is I usually feel like they are as much into the affect they are having on me as they are into pleasing their self. The black guys Ive been with seem to enjoy bringing out the lust in me vs just using me.

LMAO, you're such a buzz kill

not sure I'd go as far as "hate", those are some pretty hot pics lol... but as a bottom, I prefer jocks over thongs. The idea of wearing material that blocks my hole is kinda counter productive. Unless it's got a use, like holding a butt plug in place, I don't want something blocking access. Don't think I mind it on a hot top though, since I don't really want access to their hole :-)

I'm getting quite a collection of toys... I end up buying them when I'm in heat lol. I've too have bought several things from FT, but really think they are overpriced. As a side note, I'm currently building a 3d printer and hope to be able to make some of my own toys :-). While I seem to be getting quite a collection, I'm more a fan of others having toys and wanting to use them on me than I am of using them on myself. The sexual sub in me doesn't feel that satisfied by fucking myself. With that said, I have a couple of dildos, one is a nice fat lifelike one with balls, definitely a stretcher and I use it with cum lube and take pics, most guys think it's a real cock. I also have a long, fairly hard cock dildo, recently using that for depth and getting past the second sphincter, but it's a little hard for my taste. I use that after using some anal beads, which are kinda cool for opening the second sphincter, but also a little small (only about an inch). Good for depth, not so much for opening. Last night I got turned on while using the anal beads and longer dildo and ended up ordering 2 colon snakes from FT. I used to have one of theirs, but it was too big for me (then anyway), so I gave it away. The ones I ordered last night: one is long but smaller diameter, more for depth... the second has balls every few inches on a colon snake... that looks pretty hot, we'll see. Also own a "rawdawg", hollow butt plug and 3 speculums, some electro stimulators and a prostate stimulator (battery is way to small). The above list is really toys I own, but wish a top FB would own and want to play with my hole with. I get really turned on by tops into hole play and ass opening. It's not that I'm so into opening my ass, otherwise I'd probably play solo more, it's the attitude and lust of the guy who is into doing it that really turns me on. Before I moved I had a FB totally into it and he is responsible for turning me into a bottom slut who enjoys ass opening. He groomed me and slowly developed that part of me, a process that was/is totally fucking hot. Since I moved, have recently found a FB who is into making a hole sloppy... he's kind of new at it, but pretty naturally inclined that way, if not developed. He's good, but uses my toys... which kind of detracts from the experience for me because it's not about the toys, it's about the user.

I'm curious too. As noted initially, I'm more intrigued by the idea of hypnosis than I am convinced of its uses. I go back and forth between seeing it as a valid science and agreeing with not_sure_bb (i.e. "it's all bs" lol). The edgy stuff on sites like "warpmymind" are a turn on, mostly because of the idea of it. I don't but much weight on it, but still think it would be a turn on if a guy tried using something like that with me... kind of pushes the sub button in me.

took 4 at the local ABS, guys watching then taking a turn. almost passed out after the third, being bent over too long and maybe dehydrated. i laid down on the cum splattered floor after number 3 and kind of recovered and heard a guy in the next booth and rallied, he was number 4. came home still horny and ran a CL ad advertising my cum sloppy hole and got an immediate taker, so number 5 just left. he left a sweet load very deep. damn, i want more please. oh, forgot to say, load number two was a guy wearing a ribbed condom, i had sucked him then presented my ass, at which point he put a condom on, after awhile of fucking he started to go soft, so i took the condom off and sucked him hard again... then bit a hole in the tip and mounted his cock (through a GH). after while I noticed the condom had slid down on the base of his cock... and so did he, he just kept fucking then announced he was cuming. sweet

I top maybe once a year when the planets are aligned and I see a particularly fine ass that (I love a mans ass even though I'm a bottom). That it's "virgin" means inexperienced and possibly not clean to me, not particularly turned on by either... I like a bottom who's eager, and a virgin is usually anxious. As an aside, I often laugh when I see profiles on the various hook up sites where a bottom has been advertising he's a "virgin" for several months or years... I get the impression that some bottoms think that is a selling point, so they keep using it, even if their hole is used ;-)

I wasn't sure how to title this, but a couple of things struck me as funny recently and I thought I'd start a thread of funny things that happen when your life isn't quite mainstream. I had a friend visit a couple of weeks ago, she knows I'm gay, but I still did a once over of the house and made sure I hadn't left any dildos laying around or my douche set up in the shower. And I told her to make herself at home and help herself to anything in the freezer... what about that cum sickle? I got a review request from Amazon today: "how do you like your 'Men's Breathable Lace Sexy Underwear Thong Briefs'?"

I was 27 my first time. I grew up in a very religious culture. When I was 19 I got up in front of my church and "confessed" my attraction to guys. Gay was not an option for me. I married a woman, who happened to be a member of the church where I had "confessed" and was present when I did. They all circled around me and prayed for me, nothing was ever said after that. I was very tied up by my ideas about god and that's why I was 27 before I had my first gay experience. In keeping with the situation... I was living in L.A. at the time. A religious organization I supported had just bought a large ship and was docking it at San Pedro. The ship was being converted into a hospital ship and I would help on Saturday, spend the night on board and leave on Sunday. The first time I worked, they bunked me in a room with "Skip." He was a cute guy, about my age. After work, he took me on tour of the ship. He had a great ass and wore short shorts, was nice going up the ladders behind him. That night, I turned in before him. I have no idea where he was, he lived onboard and was somewhere on the ship with friends. When he returned to go to bed, it was late and the small berth where we were bunked was very dark, you could only see shadows. I stared hard in the dark, pretending to be asleep, as he undressed down to his underwear and got under the covers on his bunk. Over the next few hours we played a game of cat and mouse, each of us moving provocatively, slowly removing our covers and stripping off our underwear while we were each on our own bunks. It's like we were giving each other a slow, erotic strip show, but it was so dark you could hardly see anything, and it was impossible to be sure of what was really happening... there were supporting sounds, but.... After a few hours of this I got so horny that I crawled over to his bunk. It was hard to make anything out in the dark, but without a word, he turned toward me and guided my mouth to his cock. It didn't take long at all, and my first cock exploded in my mouth and down my throat and I hungrily swallowed. After he came, he turned over without a word and I crept back to my bunk and fell asleep. In the morning when I woke he was gone and I never saw him again.

I had an older brother who was gay (he died from AID's during the 80's). A nephew who is gay. Also, my brother in law... well, maybe bi? He identifies as straight, but we were hot for each other before I divorced. We used to help each other with construction projects around at each others houses. If we were doing something that required 4 hands, ladders, etc., I'd always subtly lean or rub up against him. If I was on a ladder, I'd make sure my shorts were loose enough to see up and have no underwear on. He did his share of seduction as well. We never actually did anything... well, he kissed me. He was very religious and couldn't come to terms with who he is. He seemed pretty gay to me though.