tallslenderguy

quiet here. i moan at times while getting fucked, involuntarily, but i'm pretty quiet. if the top starts asking me questions like if like his cock in me, and it's obvious he wants verbal feedback, i do say stuff, but try to keep it real. as for the top, not so much into loud verbal... some of the guys i have been with who try the verbal stuff end up making me laugh (not a good thing, never want to laugh at a guy) if it seems contrived, especially if they have a feminine voice... it just hits me that way. on the other hand having a guy whisper a few times while fucking me can be really hot. especially when a guy is ready to unleash his seed and he whispers something to announce it. I do like to know when a guy cums, that's part of the fuck. the other way that's hot is to hear his climaxing in his breathing with that ending shudder and sigh at climax. i find that crazy hot.

depending on your perspective, probably most of the sex i get involves doing something dangerous as a bb bottom. the way i usually get fucked is anonymous fuck and go. cruise the usual sites offer my ass, usually involves a guy coming over and in my unlocked door finding me naked and ass up on my bed. never had a problem with that... and I do have a second degree black belt, so am pretty confident I could take care of myself if it came to that, but have never had a problem. used to do a lot of public sex, parks and restroom stuff. always found it hot to get fucked through a glory hole or under a stall. did get arrested that way once, it wasn't fun but not exactly "dangerous."

Cool topic. Thanks for starting it straycowboy. Ideally, I'd be content with a guy who loves to fuck me and who shot huge loads and who maybe occaisionally would get fucked by me (but i can take or leave that part). I wonder if "ideally" is or can be static? Monogamy makes sense from a strictly physical health standpoint, but I'm not sure I would be physically or emotionally content with that. I don't know, I have never had a ltr with a guy where we had that illusive "in love" thing. I have had it with a woman, most of my life, but that didn't work out because I'm mostly gay. I like to think that I could have that with a guy, but haven't so far. I'm not worried or the least bit unhappy about that though. I have friends, a great life where I get the emotional and intellectual connection I want/need. Sex seems to get separated from that. Seems like it would be nice to have that all in one package (sex, emotional and intellectual connection), but it seems the odds are more in favor of getting that through multiple associations vs. just one. I don't rule anything out.

a good reason to move to Longview.

Yes. Most medicine is non-specific, always with side effects. We kill ants with elephant guns, even doing the best we can. Our bodies best defense against disease (not suggesting "only") is still our own natural defense systems. The more we can do to keep them healthy, the better they work. Anything we put in our body that it does not recognize as food (especially McDonalds lol) is going to have to be removed by the body as a toxin. We all make choices, I'm for informed choices. The truth is, we only know some of the effects of Poppers, but even if we do not all the specific toxic effects, we know they are there. They're there in ice cream too. As much as I like poppers, I can live without them... put I still like double chocolate coconut almond ice cream and won't stop eating that, but not as much as I like cum. guess i'll have a salad for dinner lol.

[laughing], yep, a lot of guys lie about their age and weight and cock size. no one likes rejection, so I guess they are trying to appeal to the masses... or at least appeal to what they think the masses want. I tell my age and my pics are accurate because I do indeed hook up and know the feeling of being lied to. i am pretty comfortable with who i am and usually get enough sex

not into pain or being damaged here either. what turns me on is a top who knows what he wants and is not afraid to say what he wants. if a guy tells me he wants to shoot his load deep inside my ass, fill me up, piss in me, i am his to command and use. i do want a top to use me for his pleasure, just not into his pleasure being my pain.

the first time a guy pissed in my ass was similar (no prior agreement). it was an annonymous fuck and go and after loading my ass the guy stayed there. he was really still and then i felt his cock twitching and started to feel all warm and full inside and realized he was pissing. at first it startled, but then got really turned on by the feeling and the idea of it. he pissed deep inside me for quite awhile, then pulled out without spilling a drop. ended up leaving about a liter and a half. something else hot that happens is when a guy pisses in you his scent comes out in your piss from absorbing it. i've heard that guys who piss in ass say it feels like a long orgasm. i love gettting it.

mine happened, just wish it was with more guys. was at a ABS and was in a theater watching porn. this guy came in and sat next to me and after playing some cat and mouse (he put his leg against mine, i returned the pressure, etc..) he reached over and unbuttoned my pants, then unzipped them and pulled them down around my knees (i wasn't wearing underwear). he cupped my balls with his hand, being careful not to touch my cock, then slid his finger along my crack touching my asshole, letting me know where his real interest was. i pushed against his finger and moaned a little and he withdrew his hand and pulled my pants off all the way, then just sat next to me without touching me and me naked and exposed. another guy walked into the theater and saw us and started watching the movie, and also stealing glances at us. at this point the guy took out a bottle of lube and made a show of putting it on his fingers so the other guy could see and then he reached over and started lubing and fingering my ass while watching the other guy. the other guy got turned on and pulled out his cock and started stroking it and the guy fingering my ass signaled for him to come over. he then proceeded to raise my legs and offer my ass to the guy and the guy happily slid his cock in my offered ass. it didnt take him much time to cum, he was pretty turned on and he gave a sigh and shoved in balls deep and with several spasms delivered a huge load. he seemed almost embarraseed and quickly dressed and left. the guy who had started it all, stood up and told me to turn over on the chair and raise my ass in the air. i did and he proceeded to spank me, making quite a bit of noise with each slap of his hand on my ass. he would wait just enough time between slaps for the sting to start to subside and then would slap it again. the sound was getting some attention and soon there were four other guys in the room watching. he proceeded to offer them my ass to fuck and one by one each fucked me and left their load in my ass. by then my ass was wet and sloppy with all the cum and he unzipped and added his own load to the mix. when he was done, he left without a word. i stayed there ass in the air for awhile longer, hoping someone else would come along and add thier load, but it didn't happen. still, was really hot being pimped out like that.

I like the idea of regular fuck buds, I like the idea of having a bunch of buds who let me know when they want to load me or guys I can offer my ass to. I've only had a few of those though. One guy wants me often, but I stopped hooking with him because he only uses rubbers... a shame, cause he's hot and a good fuck, but without the cum, well it's only half a fuck. another regular had troubles getting hard the last couple of times and got really embarrassed, he went to the doc and learned he has hormone issues. a shame, he was a regular with a huge load. others hang for awhile, but then lose interest, so it's usually the top in my experience who wants variety. me, i want cock and a huge load up my ass, not to picky about the guy as long as he can get it in my ass and shoots a load.

snufkin, You repeat a few times that your family calls you a "compulsive liar." That's a pretty big and lousy label to put on someone. My guess (and obviously I don't know you, you alone know the whole story) is that much of your lying has to do with the gay thing? People generally lie because of fear and your family has demonstrated that they do not love or accept that part of you. I don't advocate for lying, but I understand when someone hides behind a lie to try and protect their self. Sadly, your family has marginalized you, their love and acceptance of you is based on your conforming to how they think you should be, not who you are... which isn't love. It's good that you are seeing a licensed professional to help work all this out, in time you will see your way clear if you keep looking to understand. As to the promiscuity... that's a big question. Just the term "promiscuity" has a negative connotation and it brings up the topic of morality. I think it is good to look at morals and understand where they come from, i.e., who decides what "moral" is and why. When it comes to the conflict with your family, it sounds like it's the gay thing they have a problem with. Even if you were living monogamously with one guy, they'd still have a problem with your being gay? I'm sorry you have to deal with that, I know it can be hard. I come from a religious background and had to process through a lot of garbage too. The good news is, it can be processed through and there is peace on the other side.

when i cum it is pretty thick and creamy, usually a lot because as a bottom I edge and want several loads in me before I cum. When I do cum, I'm typically a shooter, usually shoots on my face and hair and over my head. as far as other guys cum, i like it thick and creamy and in my ass. I can't really tell if they are oozing or not, since it's in my ass. i have one regular fb who i get fucked by and it's all about the cum for me (well, mostly, i do want it delivered by a cock). ive been fucked by this guy several times and i have still never seen him. when it comes to looks, i like hwp guys, not into big guys at all. but i get the sense that this guy has a really big body, even though I have never seen him. he also has a very short, but fairly big circumference, cock. i am always on my stomach ass up and he comes in, strips and plays with my ass then pushes his little cock in. thing that keeps me inviting him back is his loads. when he cums he leaves a huge creamy load in my ass. while i love the process of delivery, for me it is mostly about the cum and feeling a guys lust.

this one's hot http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=1wugf-g433-

In 1998 I was in a mall restroom cruising and a guy came in and sat in the stall next to me and tapped his foot. I tapped back. I passed him a note and asked him if he wanted to fuck me. He came to my stall door and showed me his badge and arrested me. I was charged with a "felony" because I asked a guy to fuck me (the location had nothing to do with it, just an old law). It took a year to come to trial and I was young, inexperienced and scared. Paid a high priced lawyer. When it came to court, the prosecutor wanted blood, the judge just laughed and said "you guys need to find a better place to meet." He asked my lawyer what we should do and it was reduced to a misdemeanor (indecent exposure, though there was no "exposure" involved). My point is, if you are gay, live in the wrong place and cruise a vice cop, depending on where you are, you can get charged with a felony because in some states it's still a felony for 2 guys to fuck... though I hope such types of arrest are rare now.

I was in Baltimore on business. I went to the harbor, wandering around and a guy started cruising me. We walked to his place up on a hill overlooking the harbor. Turns out the place belonged to his bf, and older guy, kind of a sugar daddy. I had only ever fucked and was pretty new to sex with guys, and just kinda assumed I'd be fucking him, which I did. After I'd fucked him raw and unloaded, we lay there a few and he looked at me and said "my turn." I hesitated, he was maybe 7" but seemed enormous to me since I'd never taken a cock before. He was cool and expert and teased my hole open with his fingers and then slipped his cock in. He did a grinding fuck until he came in my ass. I didn't really feel him come in me, but knew he had by the way he acted. After, his Bf, who was downstairs, took us to dinner. We walked and as we neared the harbor and restaurants, i suddenly felt like i was losing something and excused myself and went into a restroom. Yeah, I was losing the bigest load I have ever had in my life, even since then. It was so huge it was like three loads and I was a hooked cum slut.

i find most guys want to bb given the opportunity, even when their profile says "safer only." guys wanna breed, and i sure don't want to waste their cum on a condom. heck, it makes me crazy when i am watching bb porn and a guy pulls out when he comes and shoots on a guys ass instead of deep inside, what a waste.

hard decision between 3 or 4 cocks, but in the end, the number of loads wins out. I have one FB who I have never seen. he's got a big body and a small cock. always anonymous with door open and me waiting ass up on my bed. his cock is short, maybe only a couple of inches, but pretty fat. but he always cums a lot. huge loads and leaves me really wet and seeded. so i'd go with the big loads comes in small packages.

Hi bi bareback slut. :-) cool. something else that's really hot about a piss enema is how it gives your piss the same odor as the guy who pissed into you.

love a piss enema. for me, i want it all up my ass, without a drop spilled, along with his cum, before or after he pisses either way. i get kinda disappointed if a guy cums in my mouth... i want it in my ass. the best is the surprise piss fuck, where a guy keeps his cock deep inside after unloading and then just lets his piss follow without warning or asking.

you're welcome

Healthcare worker here, this is the latest information i could find based on an actual study. Published April 3, 2012 "Undetectable viral loads in blood is not a guarantee that HIV is also undetectable in semen, according to a new study involving 101 HIV-positive men who have sex with men (MSM) conducted in Boston and published online ahead of print by the journal AIDS. Of the 83 men with undetectable virus in blood samples, roughly a quarter of them—21 MSM in total—had semen with detectable HIV." “Until more information on transmission risk in MSM is available,” they write, “it would be prudent to advise sexually active HIV-infected MSM to use condoms and other risk-reduction strategies throughout all stages of HIV disease regardless of HIV treatment status.” you can read the whole article on the study here: http://www.aidsmeds.com/articles/hiv_semen_transmission_1667_22190.shtml

would love to find more porn of guys fucking under stall walls. real stuff that isn't staged.

first time i was ever fucked was under a stall wall and it was hot. guy sat in the stall next to me for awhile and when he figured we were both there for sex, he slid his finger along the bottom edge of the stall wall. I did the same and he reached under to feel me so I slid to the side of the seat so he could have access to my cock and ass. as soon as he realized my ass was exposed, he withdrew his hand, but only for a few seconds. when his hand came back his fingers were covered in lube and he went straight for my hole and shoved the lube in with his fingers. he again withdrew his hand and then slid both legs and his hard, raw cock under, reached under and guided my ass onto his cock and slowly pushed it in balls deep. he only went in and out 3 times before i heard the telltale sigh and he shot deep inside me. was fucking hot.

yeah, GH can be hot. love it when a guy puts his cock through and I suck it, then he pulls back and whispers "let me see your ass". I spread my cheeks and put my hole against the GH and in the cock slides, can look up and see both hands grasping the top of the wall as he slams his cock into the anonymous hole on the other side of the wall. can be fucking hot.