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  1. I’ve both mentored and been mentored, though not as formally as your friend is describing. In my case I taught a guy to take my dildo, which was much bigger than anything he’d taken before. And in the same week a more experienced bottom was teaching me how to take fists. If you’re comfortable with the idea of it it can be quite fun. Just make sure he knows what you’re comfortable with and not, and be prepared to take it very slowly. If he’s never done anything at all then what you consider tiny he’ll almost certainly consider huge. I’d imagine there’ll be a lot of explaining about lube and relaxing the sphincter and probably not a lot else the first time.
  2. I’ve travelled to London from Dublin by plane for sex, and subsequently on to Brighton for Cumunion, although none of it was exactly spontaneous. While in London I’ve travelled around on the tube for maybe an hour to meets. I actually find it hard to find guys further afield over there, the population density is so huge that Grindr only shows me a couple of km, and BBRT makes you specify your location within London. What apps/sites do you guys use?
  3. Definitely more of a cockslut. If I say I had a good night, people will ask me “How many loads did you get?” The answer might be zero, but I took tons of cock, and I’d be delighted with that. I also like long sessions where I get fucked for ages but may not get much or any loads. Having said that, I love cum and being dumped in, and doing an all day dump and go session where I collect 30 or 50 loads or whatever is high up my bucket list. So both, I guess. Nice that we don’t really have to choose!
  4. How is this going so? In terms of tips, do you have a BBRT profile? If not make one and start posting ads. You’ve a fantastic ass so you shouldn’t have much trouble, but it helps if you can host. Grindr is good too, more people on it but you have more time wasters too. My only concern would be your stamina. You look quite young and if you’ve only had 3 cocks at a time you might need to build up. Boiler House on Fri/Sat night is great for that when it’s back open. You can take breaks during the night and then go back to getting fucked when you’re ready again. Get a cubicle, door open, get on all fours with your ass pointing out. Or get in the sling. Or bend over in the dark room or steam room, hell even the corridor. Let us know how it goes!
  5. BBRT and Grindr. Get to a decent sex party and you’re guaranteed to get lots of raw cock. Saunas are hit and miss for me. I’ve always got cock there, but the ratio of walking around to actually getting fucked can vary a lot. My record was at SBN in London though. I’ve only been once and need to go again when it’s back. I took 40 cocks in one afternoon there. No idea how many loads, it got too sweaty and messy to have any notion.
  6. Oh here, where do I start? Haemorrhoids are definitely a problem. I’m not sure if I’m just prone to them anyway or if sex exacerbates them. There’s plenty can be done about them medically but I tend to just keep them controlled with a medical ointment called Scheriproct (it’s a local anaesthetic mixed with a steroid) every once in a while. Honestly they’re only noticeable if I’m pushing my ass muscles out, which is the opposite to relaxing it to take a cock, so apart from one time I was getting fisted and one burst, no top has ever seemed to notice. Haemorrhoids are just veins that are actually meant to be there, the problem is when they swell up and become painful and noticeable or bleed. I got a fissure twice. They are horribly painful. Both times I had gonorrhoea and a shot cleared it up. Regular STI checks for those. Rectal chlamydia a number of times, but that never caused symptoms. Syphilis which I can only assumed I acquired rectally since I know the guy who gave it to me and that was where his cock went. Again no symptoms. Again regular check ups needed. And I had a bit of a saga with anal warts and needed a cream called imiquimod for a while, but they settled down and went away. Most people get the HPV virus that causes them at some point, it’s just that a lot of people don’t get symptoms. Again the key is regular check ups. It sounds like I’m a walking petri dish of disease, this is all over a long period of time. I tested clear of everything a couple of weeks ago and was getting complimented on my nice ass as recently as the weekend. I think getting these things occasionally is just part of being a bareback bottom. The main thing is you treat them.
  7. I was an absolute condom nazi until my late 20s. Now I’m not!
  8. I feel like the same questions seem to pop up here on multiple threads on the one day. Anyway, for what it’s worth, I’m a committed bareback bottom and can’t see myself going back. But I’ve no interest in having HIV. On PrEP, well versed in the science of it, and happy with that as protection.
  9. I’m putting my faith in PrEP. It’s hugely effective, although I realise it’s not 100%. I take it religiously, and when you combine that with most guys I fuck seemingly being on it/undetectable (I don’t ask statuses but they sometime bring it up), I’m happy enough with that probability. Certainly happier than when I was relying on condoms but making exceptions for really hot guys, or if I was drunk. If I do test positive, it’s not the end of the world. I’d go on meds straight away and wait till I was undetectable to fuck again. I’m not in the bug chaser/gift giver mindset in any way: no judgment, but it’s just not for me.
  10. Interesting. That wasn’t my experience at all. Then again I was younger and less experienced when I was using condoms, which might have had something to do with it. A moot point on this website anyway, but interesting!
  11. That sounds like a wonderful thing to do for your friend, and it sucks that some people are assholes!
  12. This thread is a fascinating historical record! In 8 years, it goes from “will it ever be normal again?” to “of course it’s normal!” Where I am, this seemed to happen over the course of about a year, and unsurprisingly coincided with PrEP becoming available. First online, then with a private prescription in proper pharmacies, and finally for free to all gay men. And it’s wonderful 😊
  13. An exceptionally horny Brazilian man looked at me two seconds after I’d arrived at a party and undressed, grabbed me by the ass, pushed me face down onto a bed, and began fucking me, squeezing my ass, spanking my ass, and choking me, all at the same time, until he fired his load into me. I’d feel special, only apparently he’d done the same thing to everyone else there before me 😂
  14. Poppers won’t show up in any commonly used drug test. In fact, they’re not even tested for. You’d need a very specialised test and even then they’ve a short half life (i.e. they leave the body very quickly) so you’d need to test for them very soon (hours) after using them. Nobody uses these tests, because they’d be expensive and largely pointless: poppers are legal in most jurisdictions, at least in the Western world. You can actually get DP dildos to practice with. I don’t have one myself but I’ve seen plenty online. Personally I don’t think I’ve ever been in a situation where two tops are happy to fuck me at the same time but they’re not willing to at least try DP if I’ve asked. And I’ve been DP’d where one of the tops was a small Asian guy with an in proportion dick, so they don’t have to be huge. They do have to be hard, and to all intents and purposes you can forget about using condoms. If one/both of the tops is a safe sex person I wouldn’t even bother.
  15. It’s a dominance thing. I totally get off on being spat on/in. Well I did before the pandemic anyway.
  16. There was a similar thread to this recently. Yeah I’ve been filmed loads of times. I actively encourage it. Although I find guys are reluctant to put my face in it, even using my own phone, simply because that’s not something they’d want for themselves. I do tell them it’s ok, and guys do sometimes take me up on it, share the pics and vids etc. I’ve done porn in the past (I’m not going to link it here, mainly because I’ve expressed some less than legal views on parts of this forum that I don’t want linked to my face. It was low budget crap anyway). I never escorted, which is why most people do it. I just enjoy being watched. It would be great to meet some like minded guys, maybe from on here, film a totally uninhibited sex party that we’d then distribute online. If any UK/European guys are interested feel free to message me, once the world is back to normal anyway.
  17. I’d second this. It’s a great position to give a bottom control over the pace. That’s how I learned to manage my then bf with no poppers. That and lots of foreplay, which unfortunately you won’t get in a sex club or whatever.
  18. Oh don’t get me wrong, the absolute best is a big capable top and a capable bottom both really going at it and both enjoying every second of it, physically. But for some of us, me included, there’s a whole other mental side. Where even if it hurts, even if he’s doing things you’re not al that into, if the top is clearly enjoying it, then it’s good sex for the bottom too. I get huge pleasure in knowing he’s getting pleasure out of me. I get that not everybody is like that though.
  19. Agreed. Size comes second to talent. But a big guy who knows what he’s doing is always better than a smaller guy who knows what he’s doing!
  20. I don’t think I’ve ever failed to take a cock, but it helped that my first bf was 9”, thick and wouldn’t let me use poppers. There is a guy at my local sauna who is about 10”+, he has a hard time getting guys to take him. I’ve taken him a few times. One time he was in a room with me and a group of other young guys and the others chickened out, so I bent over and let him at it while they watched, it was great. I’ve had big guys really hurt me when they’ve lobbed it in. I try to just take it when this happens, but more often than not I’ll ask them to pull out, lube up more/warm up my hole more, then go again. It’s always worked. For me, “too big” really applies to bigger fists, dildos and toys, and it’s something I’m working on to improve my capabilities.
  21. Do you know, one time I’d have said this, but I actually don’t agree now. I think raw and condom fucking are different things. Which I think is why I’d be comfortable enough stopping proceedings and trying to get him to take it off like DannyBoyCMH suggested. I respect a guy wearing a condom as a person, I respect his reasons for doing so and his right to do so, but I don’t think I could respect him as a dom.
  22. I may try this next time. Part of me doesn’t like the idea of dictating things to the top once we’ve started fucking, because my role is to do what he tells me. But fucking really should be raw. Generally I avoid this by refusing to start. Very occasionally I’ll make an exception for a smoking hot guy. Like a couple of times a year.
  23. I’ve any number of fetishes but most of them boil down to two things: - a heavy dom/sub or alpha/beta power dynamic - ass play There's a huge number of ways to express the first: physical size domination (I’m relatively little), bondage, spanking, pain, humiliation, forced exhibition, recording/photographing/streaming, master/slave play, being whored out, verbal abuse, etc. Ass play can be combined with the above. I love being tied down, helpless, and having a top or group of tops who are big into ass having their way with mine. Multiple hands grabbing it, being rimmed, spanked, fucked, fisted, dildo fucked, loaded of course, anything involving my ass.
  24. There are no straight men on Grindr.
  25. Nearly makes me want to top 😂
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