Trans men In bathhouses

[Chubbytransguy]

How do you feel about transgender men in places like bathhouses and male-only swinger’s clubs?

[topblkmale]

  On 11/29/2023 at 4:40 AM, Chubbytransguy said:

How do you feel about transgender men in places like bathhouses and male-only swinger’s clubs?

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male-only swinger’s clubs?

I'm fine with trans nights. We have that here at some NYC sex parties. It gives me the option to avoid that night as someone who is not attracted to the trans scene. But otherwise those who enjoy it can go and its usually the busiest night here in NYC from what I have heard. 

[hungry_hole]

  On 11/29/2023 at 4:56 AM, topblkmale said:

It gives me the option to avoid that night as someone who is not attracted to the trans scene.

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I'm into men and I find it a turn-off to find in a sauna someone who resembles a woman.

[NeedPOZseedInCT]

You belong there as much as anyone else

Edited November 29, 2023 by NeedPOZseedInCT
Forgot to quote to respond, did so in another post, changing this one to respond to OP

[Dondick127]

it cool have fun it sex you got rooms

[viking8x6]

I'd be delighted to encounter one.

[phukhole]

Absolutely support it!  I may be disappointed that he's not swinging a huge dick, but I'd get over that quickly enough. Not all of us are.

[NWUSHorny]

They are pretty common at Portland bathhouses, Hawks has gone out of their way to make them feel welcome. I'm okay if they are there to fuck, not just model.

[pozsewerpig]

I'm all for it and would love to meetup with one while I was there.

[Cuteguy69]

Am fully bi 

so open to it 

[hntnhole]

To the O.P.s'. question:

I think we social/cultural "outcasts" need to be sure to be inclusive of everyone in the bathhouses (or any other queer sexual venues).  I wouldn't want to fuck one, but I surely would talk to them, do what I can to embrace their presence.  I know I'm an oddity, but - I've never cared much for women in general, and certainly not sexually.  

If we want/believe in "inclusiveness" (meaning we plain old regular gay guys), then we need to express inclusiveness in our own behavior, and to all our brothers (and sisters) at the very least.  

[tallslenderguy]

i've been to ABS with pretty good sized "theaters."  Dark, with sofa and overstuffed chairs and lots of sex going on. ABS have alway been open to everyone.  i'm not put off by men and women having sex at ABS, they don't seem put off by me getting fucked by other men.  i've seen trans people, cross dressers, pretty much anything goes.  i don't have to go with anyone i don't want to, i don't feel it violates my freedom of expression, i don't want to violate someone else's freedom of expression either. 

  On 11/30/2023 at 12:51 AM, hntnhole said:

To the O.P.s'. question:

I think we social/cultural "outcasts" need to be sure to be inclusive of everyone in the bathhouses (or any other queer sexual venues).  

If we want/believe in "inclusiveness" 

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i agree.

To me, excluding a transman is like saying "i do not see you as you see yourself."  They identify as men who want to be with other men, i support that as a gay guy lol. i lived for a large part of my life conditioned by a culture that told me there is no such thing as me naturally being attracted to men... i knew i was.  Who am i to tell someone they are not who they perceive their self to be?

Edited November 30, 2023 by tallslenderguy

[Movietheaterslut2]

Trans men are men. 

I'm a cocksucker, so that's my general focus when I'm playing. But I have no issue with all folks enjoying the place.

[Theo8]

I'm all in favor.  Just because a guy doesn't have the same exact plumbing as me doesn't make him any less of a man.  

[Theo8]

  On 11/29/2023 at 8:53 PM, NWUSHorny said:

They are pretty common at Portland bathhouses, Hawks has gone out of their way to make them feel welcome. I'm okay if they are there to fuck, not just model.

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Eros in San Francisco advertises itself as a place for queer and trans men; Eros is more of a sex club than bathhouse though