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Verse here...love to top or bottom!Despite getting an early start at 11 years old as an irresistably cute kid for some reason never got around to actually fucking a man and cumming in him until I was 35 years old.Had an active bisexual life and loved fucking women,but never topped another man until I met Sierra...at a local bar catering to alternative oriented customers.Sierra was a CD...part of a drag queen show that was at that bar for a show.Bought him a drink at the bar where we sat and talked for better part of an hour...and we both remarked how quickly a natural rapport developed.Invited to accompany her group to the local holiday inn where they were staying I naturally said yes and we were all soon naked in a room with two beds and much action going on.Sierra was a very beautifuil cross dresser and when the clothes came off the way cute man he was soon had us kissing and my cock getting blown...just regular gay stuff.Others in the room were already fucking and we watched....then he said he wanted me to fuck him.Told him I had never done that.His eyes got saucer big and he said"Really?How does that happen?NEVER?!?"Gave a quick explanation and it was clear he was very taken by it,and excited at the chance to bottom for me.So we did it,he on his back because he said he wanted to watch my face...pulled his legs back exposing his pucker smeared some cream on it and waved me towards heaven...My cock quickly found home plate and the head popped in....the feeling was indescribable hot slick and inviting deeper thrusts.It was a GOOD first fuck...memories of seeing his eyes watching me and that cute lil smile as I fucked him,and soon ejaculation was imminent,then a reality.Deep and intense,it remains as one of my most memorable orgasms.Never saw him again,as I lost the paper he had written his number on.But I very much wanted to as we had a very natural rapport and connection going.But carried forward a love for topping men that continues to this day.Thanks Sierra.:)

GOOD for you!Remember on the other side of that GH is a man equally happy about servicing YOU!:)

Welcome!Come sit on my lap and lets talk.:)

Don't understand total bottoms...Get that some guys just ARE that way but...wonder if some were turned OFF by some early negative experience?truly verse here,love to top or/and btm.See a skinny twink ass and just HAVE to fuck it.An older hot daddy type makes my asshole twitch at the sight of his hard cock,But a young man with a stiff dick does the same thing for me.And an older guy with a pucker winking at me makes my cock throb....man I am SUCH a SLUT.:)

Why thank you.:)It was my very first sexual experience too.Soon discovered there were LOTS of men in my hometown who found the blonde haired blue eyed skinny kid I was irresistable.Grew to love sucking cock after learning how,loved getting fucked and feeling a man cumming in me as they usually bellowed at that moment.First time I ever came was between a man's lips.Learned how to "read" a mans interest by how he looked at me,and found if I stared at a man's crotch he would get the message,and in time an oppourtunity to be private with him would present itself.Got the clap at 13...that was quite the doctor's appointment.Most of the men would give me a few bucks too,and that's how I paid for summer camp!:)

Profiles can only tell ya so much and pics may not even be real,or him.Usually have to meet to tell if there will be anything happenning between us.Some VERY hot guys do not express themselves well with words.

Hi Morgan...the process is more psychological than physical.What the mind desires the body will provide.Thats why so much attention should be paid to the process....It is VERY much like befriending a wild dog.Properly done the bond and loyality between a dom and sub is very strong and something BOTH need and desire.We are building a relationship....not just having sex.:)

I adore big guys!Getting pinned under all that weight as a hard cock spears me and knowing I cannot escape...some very hot experiences with big guys.:)

This subject needs to be explored in a bit more detail maybe.Ideally you want a young white boy about 18 to 20 thin,waifish even,the kind of kid you know gets NO sex and that will play into your plans.Scout out one at your normal places especially places where a minimum of clothing are worn,the gym,pool,beach...so you can accertain weather his body is to your liking.When you have a target in sight get to know his name,and say hello by making his aquaintence by some means.Call him by name every time you see him,and stand close to him.Make sure he knows your name and keep telling him until he responds to you by name.When talking to him,always stand with your crotch pointed at him,even from a distance.These are signals he will pickup subconsciously.Any chance you get at the pool or the gym to be around him naked DO SO...and keep your cock pointed at him so he will see it,and if you catch him staring compliment him about something.You are grooming him for a sexual role don't be shy about touch.Remember you have to get into his MIND...using subconscious signals eventually all the parts will fall into place as your friendship develops.Get a locker above his so you can stand over him naked as he sits on the bench,let your cock bounce inches from his face.spend as much time naked around him as you can.After this has worked on him for a while make sure he sees you watching him,and when he does TELL him you just love white boys and that he is cute!And smile when ya say that so no offense is taken.Any chance you have to place a hand on him,spotting at the gym or at the beach...do so.Develop a touch familiarity with him and press it if he withdraws.It seems verymuch like befriending a wild dog doesn't it?When the two of you become comfortable enough around eachother invite him over for a beer or a joint,whatever it takes to get him alone with you in your home.Watch the game or whatever and change into gym shorts only..and encourage him to do the same,maybe even buy him what you want him to wear.At this point you will become overtly sexual,stare at his lips,at his crotch,nipples.stare at him.Let your desires be known subconsciously and he will accept it when you kiss his shoulders and neck.Remember to use weed or alcohol to disinhibit him,and soon you will be lip to lipin a sloppy wet kiss.Free your erection so he can see it...make a display of it.Ask to see his,and just play.Put his hand on your cock,encourage him to stroke it.A hand behind his neck and gentle pressure will encourage him to tasts it,and maybe even suck it.This is an important hurdle to jump because it is an overtly sexual act,and you need to build on this by returning the favor.He needs to cum on your first encounter,that will be another barrier crossed.When he erupts in your mouth take it all,kiss his nipples when he is done,say he tastes sweet and that you enjoy his company.Lay with your weight on him to encourage his interpretation of your dominance and kiss him again,make sure some of his semen goes from your mouth into his.And if he accepts this,slide up his body until your cock is pointed at his lips and look down at him as you press it between those lips.He has allowed you to orally copulate him and he will most likely return the favor with a bit of coaxing.Push your erect cock all the way in to the back of his throat,and when he gags pull out a bit then do it again,he will learn how to take you if you insist.Encourage him with compliments and suggestions,and tell him when you are going to cum and do it deep and make him accept your cum in his mouth.Remember while you sucked him off rather gently you are now orally fucking him,and it is key to defining his position in your future sexual relationship.Take some time now so you can both cool off and enjoy eachothers company.Thank him for being there,and for any sexual favors shared,give plenty of positive feedback and don't be in a hurry to get him to leave.Maybe make dinner,order pizza etc.Your first sexual contact must be important enough to encourage him to return.Make a date before you part ways,assuming he doesn't stay that nite.Make sure you will see him the next day or no more than two days later.You have planted a seed and a relationship is budding and must be tended.In the next installment we will turn up the heat sexually in terms of activities and roles.:)

Hi Billy-great story,and you seem to have dealt with your seduction as a boy rather well...Maybe this story-yours,mine and all the other guys who had a young introduction to gay sex-is much more common than polite society wants to believe.Sad your lover didn't see the value in developing a relationship with you.You may have interpreted that as rejection when it was probably the legal consequences he was responding to.Was fortunate to have several older guys in my young sex life who formed a window into an adult world and life into which I was growing.I saw how work,marriage,money and friendships- all the stuff of which adult life is composed -articulated in a man's daily activities.Saw lots of men who were unhappy with their life situation too-trapped in loveless marriages,had wives who drank were true bitches etc and swore I would NEVER get trapped like THAT.I OWE all those guys a debt of thanks for helping the younger me develop a perspective that remains to this day.None of us is here to be miserable,a martyr on someone else's cross.Sometimes wonder if some older men develop a sexual interest in boys as a way of re-connecting with a time in their own lives when they were happier carefree and innocent.

Well written and well fucked.:)

have thought about this question for a few days.I am vers,love to top or bottom with equal enthusiasm.Love the feel of a man's cock fucking me.Love the cum spurting out deep inside,but truth is lots of men just don't cum when fucking another man and have to jackoff to orgasm then plunge back inside me.Thats okay.Once in a while run into a man who is hard dominant and insistant and bottoming for such men takes me back to the wide eyed 11 year old boy that was me taking a cock for the first time,heart beating wildly scared and excited at the same time,not really understanding what was going on but went thru with it.Rode my bike home with cum leaking out of me,full of questions and nowhere to get answers and an awakening desire and passion to do it again!:)

Dark room is on my bucket list of things I want to try!:)Love the idea of getting pozzed up like that...just some annonymous fucks poz cum shot deep.:)

lol..me too Brad!Found lotsa men would respond to a crotch stare and a lick of my lips and a smile.:)

Don't agree.I was forced and dealt with it over time,but many who were forced into their first oral sex have not handled it well.

love it when a chaser converts by a loving thoughtful and intentional sexual contact with a poz top he knows.:)

Yes I have done this many times!Way back before they knew much about hiv and everyone was scared but still HORNY adult video booth sex sometimes called for condom use or I wouldn't get to suck a cock at all.So developed a technique of putting the unwrapped condom on my mouth and rolling it down his hard shaft with my lips.Rather do oral sex without one but it was fun to see guys react to this method.:)

Believe this sort of enslavement appeals to far more white boys than you might think.The first time he sees a black cock his interest is real,and a part of him wants to experience it.It may become part of his sexual fantasy,thoughts and desires start to revolve around that whole black/white thing.A smart black man will see this and act on it,befriend,cajole,let him walk thru the doorway that has opened for both of you.Remember that black cock is a strong symbol of dominance,and he will submit to it eventually,and crave contact.At the outset he may not even BE gay,just curious,and you can build on that.Remember he needs this as much as you do,and he will crave the taste of your penis and semen,and if you can get him that far you are nearly home to where you should be,him pinned beneath you taking your erect cock deep inside him and submitting to that first insemination that is destiny for BOTH of you.

oh please continue....:)

I adore small cocks!Don't know why really,just find them so much more interesting and fun that a big slab of meat.:)