tallslenderguy

i bought some chia seeds at Trader Joe's about a month ago because I'm kinda a health nut, but hadn't started using them until yesterday after I read these posts. I ate about 6 heaping teaspoons full (2 each time, spaced out over the day). I just put them in the teaspoon and in my mouth and swallowed them with about 8oz of water. I practice Bikram yoga (aka "hot yoga") so always carry a liter and a half bottle of water around and drink about 2 of those a day to stay hydrated. After only one day I am already impressed by the results. Definitely a cleaner hole. I'm a critical care nurse and love that my tribe here is talking about and doing this. My life is about helping people get health and the happiness that flows from that, so this is awesome to me. :-)

Neither? I like creative fucking. I turn into a kinky slut when I'm in heat. I like a top who is good at reading me and fucks accordingly. I've been talking to a dom top online for a few weeks, we're learning each others kinks, and we both have each other really turned on. He says things like wanting to be lying behind me and pulling my hair so he can shove his tongue down my throat as he probes my hole with his cock to penetrate it. He wants to get me "a little drunk so he can control" me. He wants me to fall asleep with his cock in me and then piss in me while I'm asleep. He's told me not to cut my hair because he likes to get it matted with his cum. All of those things may qualify as "rough", but I associate rough with pain, and these things are all pleasurable to me... which he knows and he gets off on giving that kind of getting and giving that kind of pleasure.

Ive not been fucked by a top wearing a PA (yet), but am really turned on by the idea.

For me it depends on what the top is like, how he is, not how he looks. I pretty much never see the guy fucking me (unless he flips me, which is rare, and even then I'm not really focused on his face). So it's not like I'm turned on by his looks. Some guys fuck with their cocks, others it becomes an extension of them. There's a certain type of fuck who is so obviously into fucking that I really enjoy the process. But for me the process is about the moment of breeding, when his cum shoots into my hole. I almost rather not get fucked by a guy if I he doesn't cum. I don't see much difference between that and him wearing a condom. So, if a guy is just fucking to get off, then I like him to cum fast. And that energy is totally hot to me. If a top is really into the process of fucking, I sense that and enjoy a longer fuck. Ultimately though, it's all about hearing and feeling his orgasm and receiving his seed. '

Like so many of the bottoms here, I spend a long time with a shower douche cleaning... to me it's like brushing my teeth if I expect to kiss (it's just the other end of the same system). I don't even start cruising until I'm prepared. But that doesn't account for guys that become FB's. Not unusual at all for guys I've met cruising to become FB's and contact me spur of the moment when they want some. There are tops who seem to have little to no idea what a bottom does to prepare. For instance, I don't eat after cleaning out because I know that eating sets the system in motion. Also, it's not unusual for a top to contact me and want it now. It's rare for a top to ask me if I need some time. I've been direct before and said I need to prepare only to have a top flake on me because it took to long. Hormones are not always patient lol.

Have been talking to a guy for awhile, definitely dom and kinky. He wants to do several things, including "get me a little drunk." Ive never been drunk in my life, but the idea of someone stealthing me with a little alcohol up my ass is really hot. he only wants me a little drunk so he has more control, which i find really hot. anyone have any experience?

apparently "destroying a hole" can mean more than one thing. I'm not really into pain, so I guess I have always naturally leaned towards it meaning gaping or rosebudding. I think it's really hot when a guy does this to me, especially if he's subtle about what he's doing, that makes me really want him again. I had a guy who rosebudded me and I wasn't really aware that that was what he was going for (he took a pic and sent it to me after he left, which i found very hot). He started out eating my ass, but was really sucking on it to start the process. He bred me, then used his fingers and cock, pulling out a lot, which I thought was gaping me, but turned out he was rosebudding me. bottom line is I found it really hot that that's what he wanted to do and how he accomplished it.

to answer your question, at tops hole doesn't really matter to me since I'm a bottom, though I on rare occasion will fuck an irresistible ass. Though I don't typically fuck, I still think a mans ass is incredibly hot!. I did have something hot happen recently. I have a regular FB who likes anonymous walk in breed and go. He always likes to eat my ass then breed it, and he's really a sweet fuck, gotta bite my tongue to keep from declaring my love for him when he's breeding me lol. A few weeks ago he contacted me late at night and wanted to fuck... turns our he'd been drinking and after fucking me for about 15 minutes he asked me to suck him. Of course I did, and this is the closest I have come to actually seeing him, though my face was buried in his crotch. He liked it and he has a sweet ass, so I ventured down to his balls, then his taint and then to his hole, which he offered up and i took with my tongue. while i was rimming him, i heard this sound and looked up to see him sucking himself. Just about blew my load seeing that. Was very hot.

my favorite part is a combination of receiving the tops lust and cum that both culminate in orgasm... and love it when the top stretches the orgasm out and stays deep and pisses

I have the "can opener" from Fort Troff. it's rigid, so it doesnt collapse and holds your hole open.... takes a little work getting it in, but stays completely open once its in.

This is a very cool community. Thank you rawtop for creating a place where we can meet others like us. :-) With exceptions that are too few to innumerate, I am a total bottom (i.e., every once in awhile, I enjoy sticking my cock in a warm ass, butt am not obsessed with it like I am receiving). For me being a bottom refers to my ass, hole, cunt, pussy, not my mouth.... I can use my mouth, and even like to, but not for long. My main desire is a top who's main desire is a guys ass, hole, cunt, pussy ( or whatever he may call it). One of my fantasy desires is to meet someone who is a groomer. To me a "groomer" is someone obsessed in the opposite way that I am (i.e., they are obsessed about man hole), but has taken it to another level when it comes to getting what they want. They have turned it into an art form. We all know that getting a bottom is easy, so "art form" is far from necessary, but it is a way of making sex more exciting for both parties. Here is an example of what I am talking about: Before moving I had a FB who I would describe as a "groomer." I met him on CL. His ad said that he liked to give massage and thats what I responded to. It took me quite awhile before I figured out this guy is a groomer, though looking back I can see how he controlled things right from the beginning even though I thought I was the one getting (a massage). He always wanted me to host and he always had certain ground rules (of control it turned out). He always wanted me to leave my door unlocked and be waiting in a darkened room lying face down naked and blind folded. We got together dozens of times, but I never saw him once. The first time he came over, he gave me a long, sensuous massage (all face down, which should have been a clue for me). He was so good at what he did that when he left I felt both totally relaxed and totally wired. He managed to get me totally sexually aroused and hungry, but didn't sate my arousal, just provoked it. He was already "grooming" me for the future. He only teased my hole. I found out later he did that for 2 reasons: one, to gauge me (i.e., find out if I was a bottom), and two: to make me hungry for more. He left my ass twitching I was so horny for more. After the first time, his "massages" became more and more focused on my ass. He always took the time to massage the rest of my body, but that became a short (but never felt hurried or rushed) procedure. That was a huge part of how hot this was, he never felt like he was in a rush or hurry, which spoke to me of perfect control, because no matter how turned on I was, he was always in control. What I learned, over time, was he was into opening my hole. That was his real desire all along. He got totally turned on by controlling and opening a guys cunt. He never fucked me, which at first both frustrated me and left me wanting more. He would use his mouth, hands and toys. Part of what made this very sensual was being blind folded all the time. I could tell that he brought toys and lubes because he would lay them out on my bed so they were touching my body. I couldn't see the toys, but I could feel them against me. Like a blind person, I could only imagine what was coming. He was so slow and purposeful about how he did things, I often couldn't figure out what he was doing. He wouldn't let me talk, but was very verbal, but not in a loud or forceful way. He would be working a toy into my hole and would encourage with words like "that's it, open your cunt for me...," which totally made me compliant. He liked to rim me after opening me with toys... or I thought he was rimming me. I found out after awhile that his rimming was really sucking on the edges of my cunt, helping it to rosebud (he took a picture of my cunt and sent it to me after one session and he had thoroughly rosebudded it and I didn't even realize it when it was happening). I moved away, but he told me after I moved that he had planned many things for me that we never got to. One was to tie me up spread eagle on my bed and pimp my hole out. While he didn't want to fuck me himself, he liked owning my hole and doing with it as he pleased. What made it so hot was how he did it. He was almost stealthy about getting what he wanted.

I too have had this fantasy for years. I love the idea of being fucked while asleep, but like many of you, I do not want to miss the experience. For me the real turn on is not that I want to be asleep but I want the top wanting me to be and believing that I am asleep. The turn on is the tops attitude of wanting to cum load my cunt without me knowing it. I've tried to set this up a few times on CL, and several guys were turned on by the fantasy, but haven't had any real takers. For me, part of the turn on is the top being really careful and purposeful in how he gets his cock in, totally turned on by the stealthy aspect of it.

i usually edge and pretty quickly that brings out the slut in me with an insatiable lust for cum in my cunt. I don't touch my cock or want the top to while i am being fucked. like many others, once i cum I'm done.. and its usually a huge load because this bottom only cums every 10 days or so. sometimes that means i cum from getting fucked. some guys hit me just right and i cum while getting fucked... usually gets on my face i shoot so hard. best sleep ever after cuming after getting loaded and fucked by many guys

i was 27... late bloomer ;-)

my first time getting fucked was in a restroom. i was young and shy and would go to restrooms to read the messages on the walls and jerk off. guy came in and sat in the stall next to me, and i guess he could hear me stroking my cock, because after a few minutes he reached under the stall and felt me up... and i let him, sliding off the toilet so he could have more access, feeling a rush. he went for my balls first (avoided my cock), then felt my ass up. he pulled his hand back under, but quickly returned, his fingers covered in lube... he went straight for my hole. when he saw i was not going to resist, he lubed my hole with his fingers. before i knew it, he had slid his legs under the stall wall, his hard cock between them...he pulled me over and guided me onto his cock, slid in and bred me. i was hooked after that

love to be on my stomach face down, feels very available and sub to me. on the occasion where the guy is kissable, on my back legs up... butt that's a totally romantic position for me, a very different kind of fuck that almost never happens. been known to cum in that position when the top keeps hitting the spot

of all the posts on this thread, this is the one that made my cock hard and my hole hungry. i don't walk around perpetually hungry for cum in my hole, something has to happen to trigger me and then I pretty rapidly get into heat... and that's the best way I can think to describe it, i get like a bitch in heat and need to get bred as much as i can. the description "quick pump and dumps until [my] pussy can't hold any more sperm..." is perfect, cause that's how i feel when i'm in heat. I don't relate to wanting to be humiliated or pain. I have been turned on by watching some spanking porn, but it's not the kind where there is lots of obvious pain, but rather the top is alternating between stroking/soothing and spanking... it seems like a delicate balance. What really turns me on is the seductive, almost grooming aspect, where the top is seducing the bottom into being his pleasure receptacle. I don't relate to being 'worthless,' just the opposite, i find part of my value in guys wanting to plant their seed in me and use me for their pleasure. to me a huge part of the turn on is being seduced by guys who can pull off and awaken the "...you know you want..." in me, who know how to push the buttons to get what they want.

What do you crave most? Cock or loads deep in you? ​cum… but with the cock and guy connected. i could jack off and fill my own hole with cum if it was all about the cum, so it really seems to be about the guys desire to breed me and then the result of him breeding me that gets me totally turned on and craving more. the cum is like the proof or result of a guys spent desire inside me.

i am focused on the tops lust and fuck energy, on his drive to breed and leave seed deep in my hole… so i guess i am focused on the same thing he is, getting his seed deep in my cunt. there is no better sound or feeling than a guys orgasm deep inside me

just took two loads… guy who likes to watch then fuck always finds another to bring along. was waiting with my door open ass up and face down on my bed, never seen the guy. he came in and started fingering my hole while watching porn and waiting for the other guy. when the other guy came in, he sucked the first guy while he fingered my hole, then slid in and started to fuck, the other guy pushed his cock into my mouth and fingered my hole while the first was fucking. the first one pulled out and wanted me to taste my ass on his cock, i complied while the second one dropped his load in my hole, then the first one added his. 2 nice loads and wanting more now that I'm nice and lubed

i milk when the top starts their orgasm to intensify it and extend it for them… until then (mostly), they're in control.

never had a male lover (divorced), but i love anonymous fuck and go. wish i could get a line of guys to just line up and make a deposit in my hole. face down, darkened room, load it.

got a raw dawg from fort troff. feels really incredible in my hole, haven't been fucked with it in yet… still want cum

hey guys, I know this has been discussed before, but I wanted to add a few angles to the discussion. As a passive cum slut, when I get fucked it is mostly about getting cum in my hole, ass, butt, cunt, pussy. For me i am a little disappointed if cum ends up in my mouth even, i want it all in my hole. That being said, if they started dispensing cum from a machine, I probably wouldn't buy it (well, maybe in a pinch) because it would lack the connection with a guy delivering it. If a guy emptied a container of cum in my hole opened with a speculum, it would be different from me doing it, so it is obviously not just about the cum, but about a guy wanting to breed me. The third thing is desire. I think this is something that both tops and bottoms have in common: i.e., they both want the element of another guy desiring them. Even though it is in a different way, we all want to be wanted whether it is in the capacity of being fucked or fucking. So, if I had to quantify it for me, id say it is about 40% about the cum, 20% about the cock and 40% about the desire. How is it for you?

oh hell yeah. my favorite way to get fucked is walk in anonymous. i rarely even see the guy fucking me. i want to hear and feel a guy when he breeds my ass and fills it full of cum. since my goal is a cum filled ass, I love when a walk in brings someone else along… and have wished everyone would bring as many as they like. I've only had it actually happen a couple of times though. a regular before i moved. he liked me blindfolded and waiting. he brought a friend who loaded me first, then the fb and then he gave me a second load. was very sweet. the other night a regular fb who usually gives me 3 or 4 nice loads in one fuck session suggested bringing a friend, but the friend was a bottom too. I guess i could of gotten into it, but honestly I am too cum greedy to want to share. i guess it would be hot to watch him fuck another guy as long as i got his cum in my ass lol.