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  1. tallslenderguy
    Hey, thanks for qualifying about not wanting to "come off like an asshole," for me that qualifies you as non-asshole. i completely believe your sincerity in believing you are right, i just think it is like an ethnocentric conclusion. I.e., 'because it is what i know to be true about myself, it is true for everyone.' i think while it is true for you, that doesn't make it true for everyone, because i know it isn't so for me. i'll start by saying if your example of the 7 and 4 inch cock were the only criteria, you are right... i'd choose the 7 lol. But size isn't the only criteria for me and other things really do factor in. If i know both of these Tops and the 4 inch has certain personality traits that i am aware of, i might choose the 4 incher. i'm ridiculously introspective and, consequently, self aware, so i'm confident that i am not in denial lol. i also have no reason to try and convince you, or anyone else, that size is just one of many factors to me, i'm simply being open and honest as part of the discussion. For instance, i had a Dom FB who knew how to get so far into my head that i would choose Him over anyone in a side by side cock comparison. The best way i can explain it is the 'size' of His personality was so huge that it totally penetrated me in a way that a cock alone would not. I have about 40 toys in my toy drawer, and i rarely choose the largest one. There's lots of other factors for me and they all matter, not just size.
  2. tallslenderguy
    Great question!! i love this community, we have some really great discussions here. Reading through the contributions, it's interesting to see the different takes on what constitutes "quality." For me, i guess i lean towards "quality," but "quality" has a quantity element to it? For me, sex is more about the chemistry of desire. The more the Top wants 'it' the more that triggers my desire to give it. For me, it's the attraction of opposites, so the greater the polarity, the greater the attraction. i've also quantified my own need/desire. For me, i'm not just 'bred' by a Tops semen, but also by His penetrating me and what He does to make my hole His. For me, semen is a simple form of a Top making a bottoms hole His (so to speak). i don't see it so much as Him "making it His" as i see/feel He has added a part of Himself to who i am. For me, it's not only semen that has the effect altering me and making me His, but also the Tops energy/desire/expression or how He penetrates me. He can 'mark' me with Himself using His finger, or a toy or anything really, depending on how connected He is to it. i've been penetrated and marked by a Tops words to me. i sometimes wonder if i am looking for quality when doing the quantity thing? i had a Dom hook up once, who even after He came, still had desire and even though He wasn't going to breed me, He managed to make gestures, like casually putting His hand in my pants as we walked to dinner and running His finger down my crack. It was so powerful, i didn't want to be anywhere else. i guess for me, "quality" is an expression of chemistry of opposites. i look for that strong pull of desire and i think that is what i am looking for in quantity?
  3. tallslenderguy
    i really love them on a Top. Feeling a Tops balls sliding between my thighs as He slides in and out makes me wild, and i love the feel of His sack contracting while He shoots His load, His sack and balls up against my taint. On the converse side, my balls often shift up inside of me and sort of disappear. i have a Dom Top who loves that they disappear, He likes that on a bottom.
  4. tallslenderguy
    "Yes, it matters" to you. While you may not "believe anyone who says otherwise," your disbelief doesn't make you correct. i totally believe you when you say it matters to you, wish you'd take me at face value when i say it doesn't and explain why.
  5. tallslenderguy
    Size doesn't matter to me. i have stated this in several threads on this site, but for me the attitude and disposition of the guy i am with is what matters. i've had guys with tiny cocks who i loved because of their need and desire to breed, their love of ass. For me, it's about the connection, physical and emotional, and if a Top can get it in and cum, that's huge to me. Tops who understand and love to fuck with their mind have the biggest cocks in the world as far as i am concerned.
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    i was going to say "no" and then saw this picture and felt really hot and bothered by it. There's really only a part of the idea of a Top making me pregnant that gets me hot, it's the idea that something of Himself that He puts inside of me permanently alters or marks me. For me, it goes beyond the physical, i have had Tops who have 'impregnated' me with some aspect of their self, it usually if because they've managed to breed me mentally and emotionally and made me pregnant there. i've had Tops who pissed in me and have held and absorbed their piss to the point that when i piss, it is their piss i am 'giving birth' to. i've had other conversations and fantasies with Tops that go along similar lines (aren't allowed to talk about everything here), but the idea is the same.
  7. tallslenderguy
    i've probably answered this before, this thread has been around awhile. so sorry if this is take two (which is not to be mistaken as an apology for taking two). i've taken several cocks over 10 inches, and honestly, anything over 8 or so ends up hitting my 'second sphincter'. mine (i.e., second sphincter) seems delicate and it always hurts when a Tops cock hits it, especially if they keep pounding it at the entry point. Other Tops seem to like getting to that point and beyond, then fucking beyond that point, which is awesome. i love a Top who wants to breed deep, like they're trying to deep throat you going in the lower entry.
  8. tallslenderguy
    i know some will disagree with this (enter the "size queens" lol), but i heartily agree. For me, it's the size of the intent or desire to inseminate that. i've had fb's with cocks that were so small (seemingly <2 inches?), that i actually wondered at their ability to breed (thinking of one guy in particular). This particular guy also had a very large body. He was an anonymous, walk in fb and i always took Him when i was face down. There were a few times when He'd contact me and would voice fear over being able to perform and i was always able to reassure Him (honestly and sincerely) that i considered HIs performance wonderful (because i did). i ended up bonding with Him, even though it was always 'anonymous' hook up sex ( i never actually saw Him). He still has a piece of my heart, which to me is the ultimate breeding and judge of 'cock size.'
  9. tallslenderguy
    lmao. i too am pretty skeptical of any guy who says he has never measured. On the other hand, that may be ethnocentric, transference? More importantly (lol) i have always wondered is where one starts and ends when measuring? Does one measure starting from the taint or the top of the base? The starting point makes a difference. And i often wonder at how rarely one sees a measurement for girth? Some of the most intense (and memorable) breeding i have received came from a Top who didn't have all that much length (6.5 inches?), but was so big around that He literally fucked the pre- cum out of me whenever He fucked me.
  10. tallslenderguy
    i take care of Tina patients on a regular basis... had one my last rotation who was paralyzed on one side from the stroke it caused. i've spent a lot of time trying to understand self destructive behavior. i think we have a lot of pieces to the puzzle, even maybe enough to form the beginning of a picture. i don't think we have all the pieces to the puzzle though, so i don't think it's possible to completely understand. i think at this point it comes down to how we can thwart the behavior in our self, and help others who want to defeat it in their self. i have gone back and forth with moralizing behavior... guilt seems to work for some, not for others? i don't use it, it seems delusional and hypocritical to me. The problem with moralizing is it's pretty easy to find destructive behavior is just about anyone. Morality seems a cultural construct to me. To me it comes down to the cost of 'pleasure' (not a perfect summary word, i know). People using Tina use it because of the pleasure it brings them, but to me, you don't get a great return on your investment. Sort of like jumping out of a plane without a parachute. There is the thrill of flying, but it doesn't last very long. i can come up with all sorts of analogies, but i don't believe the choice to use Tina (or engage in any self destructive behavior) is rational. i believe the choice is based on wanting to create or recreate a feeling. i think that becomes a drive that is not easily overcome with rationale. In my opinion (and that's all it is or is worth lol), one of the more successful methods to overcome destructive behavior is substitution. i think submissivebottom hits on it when he talks about keeping "busy." We also substitute heroin with methadone, or diet Coke for regular Coke or baked potato chips with fried.
  11. tallslenderguy
    i confess i have used cum filled condoms by pushing them and their contents into my hole.
  12. tallslenderguy
    Honestly, for me there is no such thing as "premature ejaculation" from my Top. i'm not meaning to be glib either. i have never been disappointed by a Top who was so turned on that He came fast or even as soon as He slid in. Part of my make up as a bottom is wanting to take, not just a Tops cum inside of me, but i am also 'bred' by His mental and emotional pleasure as well. i'm dead serious. The speed at which He releases Himself into me doesn't detract at all. Having said that, i understand if You want to prolong the experience because you want to. i wonder how much of the cumming quickly is mental/emotional and how much is physical? i'm a total bottom with guys, but have lots of experience as a top from when i was married to a woman (only woman i have ever been with). Early in my marriage, i learned how to make my wife cum before i did. It took time, but i conditioned myself to not cum until i knew she had been satisfied, didn't matter how long, but it helped me learn how much the mind is employed. Of course, the dynamic between two guys, Top and bottom, is probably usually different than a man and woman? i do wonder, why is it important to you to go longer? Are you concerned what the bottom may think? Is it a form of performance anxiety? Is it always the same or have there been times when you have gone longer without a condom?
  13. tallslenderguy
    To the OP question... idk. i hate the notion of indulging in a stereotype, but would be lying if i said i don't have a special place in my heart for black Tops. my experiences with black men have been pretty consistent and it's had the effect of creating a conditioned response in me. Intellectually i understand that that is a stereotype, but emotionally, i am drawn by the hope of experiencing what i have with the majority of black men i have been with. i'm not sure i can explain... and it's not as if i haven't experienced the same with Tops of other color, just not with the same consistency. i almost always feel more than physically bred by the black Tops i have been with. It's like they have bred my soul as well as my body, and i end up feeling a connection, a possession that makes me have to bite my tongue from saying "i love You!!" lol seriously.
  14. tallslenderguy
    If i am talking to a possible hook up, this is one of the pics i often send of my ass. it's actually a dildo with cum lube, but the idea is to give me that just bred by multiple Tops cream pie look
  15. tallslenderguy
    ditto. i've never been turned on by strong smells. i have had more than a few cocks offered through glory holes that smelled of piss or general funk... i always suck them though. If a guy wants His cock taken care of, i want it no matter what.
  16. tallslenderguy
    i've lived alone since getting divorced in '08. So much of my sex life with guys has been anonymous hook up where i almost always host. Most often, it's walk in and i have the perfect set up for it. i have a house in a historic district setting, smallish town (pop. 60k). Guys can park in my driveway and i leave the side gate open for them to come into my back yard. The backdoor to my house is off of a deck in the back yard and leads directly into a powder room that is right across from my bed room, so guys can see me ass up on my bed as soon as they walk in, and can use the bathroom on the way out if they want to clean up. in the summer when its warm, there's been several times when i've been bred on my back yard deck... you can see over the fence, but night time is pretty easy to get away with it.
  17. tallslenderguy
    i almost never see my Top because i am face down on my bed, anonymous walk in... so i don't care how He looks or if He has a pic at all. my pics are all accurate, my body hasn't changed, but my hair and face has aged, so i keep those particular pics current.
  18. tallslenderguy
    Great question. Looks like obviously not just one answer, eh? We all like different stuff. Personally, a Top is always going to get moaning out of me, that's a spontaneous response on my part when taking a cock. When a Top fucks me hard, i will moan louder, with some "ohs" and "ahs" . again, can't help it, and sometimes i bite my mattress. i often grab my mattress in my fists as well. Physically, i try to read my Top and move or squeeze or lie there depending on His response when i try. i'm typically face down on my bed, but if a Top is lying on me, i sometimes reach behind and grab or stroke His ass, but almost always that is to His movement, not me trying to make Him do anything. If it's standing or horsie fuck, i'll reach under and stroke His balls if He is doing a slow deep grind. i always try to get a sense of my Top while we are writing back and forth online. Guys who will not say anything or cannot articulate what they like make me a little crazy sometime, but i'll still take any Top who needs to unload.
  19. tallslenderguy
    this is so fucking Hot to me.
  20. tallslenderguy
    i appreciate the point. The thing i hate about having to prep is how it effects spontaneity. i can't count the number of times a Top has contacted me wanting to breed and i have to tell Him i am not prepped... and most Tops, in my experience, want cleaned out. So often though, the need to breed it NOW, so waiting can sort of take the edge off. i love the idea of a Top just taking me when ever He wants, without having to worry about prepping.
  21. tallslenderguy
    i love the discussions we have on this site!! Reading this got me to consider what it is i feel. While i may not physically want to take a cock after i have cum, boredom never enters in to the picture. For me the feeling is one of disappointment. i enjoy cumming, but it's always tinged with the disappointment of loosing my bitch heat, drive. It would be a whole lot more fulfilling to not cum to make a Top happy than it is to not cum by my own desire to stay in heat... that's kind of like trying to be my own Top.
  22. tallslenderguy
    This With me, a Top has totally 'won' if He has me cum before He even starts fucking me... physically. Psychologically, He is already fucking me if He has me touch myself and make myself cum before He penetrates me. He knows He is going to have me, even though physically i am done before He gets started. The whole time He is fucking me, He knows it's because i want Him even more than His cock. Once He is done breeding me, He has demonstrated and proven that He has control and that i am not going to seek another cock, but go home and curl up and sleep, His load inside of me.
  23. tallslenderguy
    This topic can really illustrate how diverse we all can be sexually. Even though we try and narrow things down into specific terms, like "Top, bottom, Dom, sub, etc.," there seems to be endless variations on all the themes. i had a Dom once who punished/trained me by making me cum several times in a row by making me touch my penis. He inserted a large butt plug in me first and locked it in place with a chastity belt. Being penetrated by a Top in any way always pushes a button in me and makes me desire Him. He had been withholding orgasm from me for awhile, so i was very horny and a part of me wanted to cum, so when He first told me to jack off, that part of me was excited. But He was also training me as a bottom, so part of me was not happy about it at all. When He first told me to jack off, i didn't know what He had in mind. i came pretty quickly (i always cum more quickly when penetrated) and was not very happy about it after. i also wanted to remove the plug, but of course, could not. As soon as i came, He told me to jack myself off again until i came. It was much harder the second time. He did this three times and i was miserable after the last time. i can take a cock after i have cum, but like many bottoms, i lose my heat and physically do not want it. So, coming makes me conflicted because mentally and emotionally i always want to take a Man if He needs/wants to penetrate me
  24. tallslenderguy
    i have about 7" when i get hard, but the psychological/mental/emotional dynamic between a Top and bottom means more to me that physical size. If my Top has 3" and is penetrating me, He is 'cock' is bigger. The fact that we both consider myself a hole for His pleasure makes His cock the only one.
  25. tallslenderguy
    omg, i adore You.

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