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I'd push your doctor to give it to you, or find another doctor who is more open minded. I've run into this before where the doctor wants to follow the CDC's "recommendations" instead of doing what I think needs to be done for my health. There's a strong push in the medical community to have doctors take the CDC "recommendations" as gospel instead of allowing the patients to decide for themselves what's good for their health. Luckily my doctor didn't give me a lot of push back and just told me that the official "recommendation" was different from what I was requesting and I told him I didn't care what the CDC wants, I care about what I want.

The drugs can be affecting your liver or kidneys. You may be sensitive to the drugs or something in them and you're having an allergic reaction. Both of these issues can cause skin and palm rashes soon after exposure.

I don't use my hands for a blowjob unless it is absolutely necessary. I believe a blowjob should be all mouth action, not part blowjob and part "jack off". The only times I uses my hands is if I need to hold his cock steady or if he has a mean curve and I need to pull it up or down for better sucking action. Even then, I only push or pull at the base of his cock making sure that my hands are not part of the stimulation and keep all the stimulation coming from my mouth until the guy gets off.

About three weeks ago I got a message from an ex-coworker of mine who told me he was coming to Vegas for his bachelor party. He was finally getting married after dating the same woman for almost five years. He was coming in on a Thursday night and we agreed to meet for dinner. While we were eating he asked me if I ever thought I'd get married, and I told him that I'd never brought it up before, but if he hadn't figured it out, I was gay and marraige probably wasn't in the cards for me. He said he hadn't given it much thought but it makes sense as I had never talked about dating anyone the whole time we worked together. We finished dinner and I took him back to his hotel so he could meet up with his buddies and get his bachelor party started and I hadn't planned on hearing back from him for the remainder of his trip. About 12:45am Saturday morning I was woken up by a series of text messages coming in from my co-worker. He wa wondering if I was still up and telling me that his buddies had called it an early night because they had been drinking too much that night as well as the day before and were pretty tired and wore out, but for him it was still early and he wanted to hang out for a few more hours before calling it a night. I told him I'd be glad to hang out with him for a while and I got dressed and went down to The Strip and met him in the hotel lobby. He had already been drinking but we had a couple of drinks in the hotel bar anyway and then he asked me if it would be ok for us to go to a strip club and I said yes. We got an Uber and went to a strip club and spent about an hour drinking and watching the women strip and gyrate while he fed them dollar bills in their g-strings and commented on the things he'd like to do to them sexually. I could tell he was aroused because he kept adjusting himself and I could see a bulge in his pants when he walked back to the table from the stage. After being there a while he said we should probably leave because he was so boned up he might end up taking a hooker back to the hotel with him and I said ok. It was about 2:20am by now and we finished our drinks and headed back to his hotel and played blackjack in the casino for about a half hour before a drunken gambler next to us knocked his drink over and spilled it all over my friend's clothes. We went up to his room so he could change and i was surprised that he just pulled all his clothes off once we get into the room he didn't bother to go into the bathroom or anything and then went to grab some clothes out of his suitcase. I could tell his boxer briefs were wet with precum from being at the strip club and he was sporting a semi-chubby and his dick was much like he was, on the short and fat side and really hairy...while he was putting is new boxer briefs on he asked me if i wanted to go back down or if we should just kick it in his room for a while before we called it a night and i told him i was good either way and he said he was done gambling so we decided to kick it in the room and he was just in his boxer shorts the whole rest of the time. We chatted a little bit more, going over things that had happened thru the night and talking about his upcoming wedding. After a little while he told me he was getting tired and was probably gonna jack off and call it a night and i said cool and got up to make my way toward the door and he surprised me by asking if i wanted to jack him off instead and i told him I'd be glad to and to consider it my gift to him for his wedding. We went back toward the bed and dropped his boxer briefs and laid back on the bed and i sat on the edge of the bed stroking and jacking his dick, feeling it get big and hard in my hands. Once it was i could see that it was about 6.5" long but definitely on the fat side maybe about 5.5" around so was a good handful. I started to stroke him and he would coach me while i laid back and tell me how and where to apply pressure and what kind of tempo to keep while i stroked him and the more i jacked him off the warmer his dick kept getting in my hands and in my half drunken state i just lost it and leaned over and just started to suck on his dick.. right away as soon as i started sucking his dick he says 'i don't think you really want to do that' and i lifted up my head and said 'i don't mind' and he responded 'no, really.. you probably don't want to do that' and i just ignored him and kept sucking on his dick...a few seconds later he says 'oh fuck, now you've REALLY done it..." and right away he grabs my head with both his hands and starts to force my head down hard on his dick while he powerfucks my throat at the same time and starts talking dirty telling me he going to choke me out with his dick and calling me a cocksucking bitch. It was like he instantly woke up and became an aggressive beast and kept slamming my head down on his dick as far as he could to make sure his dick got as far down my throat as possible. He did that for a few minutes and then he let go of my head and got up and told me to hang my head off the side of the bed and i did and he proceeded to fuck my throat again really aggressive, holding his dick down my throat until he felt me choke and then he would pull out so i could breathe, and the whole time he kept telling me to choke on his dick bitch and he probably kept that up for about another 10 minutes before he had me get off the bed and get down on my hands and knees where he held my head again and fucked my throat aggressively. When he was getting ready to cum he told me he was close and told me to keep it in my mouth after i shot and to show him his cum in my mouth and then swallow it down while he watched.. i did as he said and he started to grunt really loud and shot a huge wad in my mouth. His dick was jerking and throbbing like crazy and once he had finished and caught his breath he puled his dick out and i opened my mouth so he could see his load in my mouth and he grinned and said 'that's how i like it' n then told me to swallow which i did. Right after i swallowed he stuck his dick back in my mouth and had me suck on it some more to get the last of the few drops out and then he pulled out. He sat back on the bed and he said he tried to warn me not to suck his dick because he loves getting head but he's too rough for most of the women he meets including his soon to be wife, and because of that he hardly ever gets head and he knew he would lose control if I kept sucking him. I told him that I like it rough like that and he told me that this could be the start of a beautiful friendship and then he asked that we keep it to ourselves and i agreed. I left the hotel and on the way home got a text message from him that said "you're the best" and he told me we'd be in touch soon. He's coming out again for Easter with his wife and kid and we're trying to plan a getaway for us to do what we do best. 🙂

I'm much less focused on looks and much more focused on hot sex, so open to just about all ages, races, sizes, etc.

If you were going to lie anyway, you could have told him you had no idea because you've never been tested. That probably would have put and end to it but you both could have walked away with some dignity. If he's not comfortable with your HIV status, then move on and find someone who is.

Maybe he's using reverse psychology and just wants to see you beg for him because you think he's out of your league and it gives him a cheap thrill to see you try. If he was really focused on hot sex he wouldn't get all tied up on looks.

Depends on the guy and how he fingers. Some guys know how to finger your ass right to get you going, but others just seem clueless and it's either uncomfortable or just a plain waste of time.

Getting laid in Vegas on the strip is easy to do if you can host. If you can't host, then you may have to get creative. A lot of guys come in with friends and/or family and that's why hosting is a problem. There's usually an assortment of out of town visitors on grindr and adam4adam looking for a quick hookup. Again, hosting is the key. There are also a few sex clubs in Vegas as well. Don't expect too much on January 1st though, most guys overdo it with the partying on New Year's Eve and most are hung over or some other way out of it.

I love ass to mouth in all forms!

If it was gono, he shoud have seen it clear up in a couple of days after getting he shot. Since it didn't the doctor knew it wasn't gono, and prescribed doxy, which is a broad spectrum antiobotic that is effective at killing bacteria in the urinary tract and other mucus membrane areas as well. The second dose was probably overkill. If he had it when he started the first dose of doxy, he wouldn't need the second dose. That's really the only part that doesn't make sense to me. I think our US system tries to be more preventative when the cost of treatment is inexpensive. The "Obamacare" program actually mandates that insurance companies provide annual physicals at no charge, as well as other preventative treatment measures, again, at no charge.

It's not unusual in the United States to get treated for a suspected STD pending verification of the disease thru tests, or they may not test at all. Usually when a doctor sees enough symptoms to believe that you have a specific disease, they will treat you for that disease, with the exception of a few diseases they won't treat until you have a positive test. Usually this only happens when the treatment medication is expensive, or if the treatment medication carries its own set of risks. In some instances, they don't run tests at all, in others they run tests and provide medication pending the results, and in others they only run tests if the treatment doesn't cure the infection. For example, here in the US most doctors will immediately treat you if you suspect you have Syphilis or have been exposed to it and run tests as well, but the treatment is a single shot so you're treated even if the results come back negative. Is medication harder to get in the Netherlands? Is it a cost issue, or an availability issue, or is that just how universal healthcare works?

So are you're OK with the illegal drug use, self destructive behavior, and bug chasing? You didn't seem to mention any of those illegal activities.

These are usually meth addicts who haven't come to terms with the fact that they've lost their ability to get hard.

All of the following: - Not having a dick pic - Only wanting to hook up "NOW" and not being able to plan something - Using meth - Cock rings in their pictures - Talking about how big their dick is when it really isn't big at all - Wanting to be "edged"

When they have a completely blank profile and their first message is "looking?". Looking for what????

I've had doctors tell me the normal course is about 4 to 6 weeks to achieve undetectable status, so that sounds about right. I also believe that the research has shown the risk of transmission from a bottom to a top is very low unless the top is uncircumcised.

It's all "wash". The homeless in California is out of control and growing every day. Crime is not going down, it is going up, but due to recent law changes by the ruling party that now makes it "legal" to steal up to $900 worth of stuff, the crime is not being reported or recorded. Stores like Target are closing early to try to minimize the widespread theft. California used to be a great place to live, now it has turned into a great place to flee.

I'm new to Vegas, have only been here a year and covid killed a lot of the early activity, but I'm loving it now. Each week we get at least two fresh rotations of horny men - str8, bi, and gay - all coming into town looking for some "what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas" kind of nasty action. A lot of them come in and share a room, so being able to host is plus, or you just have to get creative to find places to have sex. It amazes me how many of them are cheating on their girlfriends or wives, they often make excuses to wander off on their own and then they venture out to hook up. No one is looking to date, they just want rough and raw fucking. It's been great so far!

Do you know what was being used for lube? There are some lubes that irritate my digestive tract and I have to avoid those. High doses of the PREP could cause it as well, or it is possible you picked up some kind of bug from one of the guys.

I love sleazy motel sex!

Pjur is my lube of choice. It seems a little goes a long way. If I'm going ass to mouth, I'd rather have the oil slickness than the disgusting taste of silicone lube.

But it's OK to tell young kids that they don't know what their true gender is by looking between their legs? That's a much more drastic psychology to instill in a kid than to tell him that unprotected sex is natural.

You do what works for you, and I'll do what works for me. 😃

I used to work for a doctor. He told me Vaseline is exactly what you need to keep moisture locked into the skin surface. You' want to create a barrier between your skin and the external world to allow you tissues to fully moisturize and stay supple. The medical theory involved is called 'occlusion'. Putting coconut oil or any other food based oil is only going to allow bacteria to grow, and is not something I would recommend. [think before following links] https://www.futurederm.com/coconut-oil-really-not-antibacterial/