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I got thrown out of the Atlanta Eagle once for taking a blowjob at the bar. I thought we could do at that Eagle what we could do back home at the Chicago Eagle ..... who knew ..... 🙄
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This pretty much says it all ......
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This ^ is an inventive genius at work !!! Simple, cheap, and easily noticed by those who need to notice it. All we need to do is choose the color Flagging would easily be accomplished, via which wrist it's worn on. Being color-vision "challenged" myself, it's up to other guys to figure out what color (and please, not some pale pastel shade of whatever). Thanks, leaker30 !!!
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A related, but different issue: Bottoms: do you like to feel whiskers on your Hole when the Top sucks/mouth-lubes your Hole? Do you dislike a day or two's growth on your ass cheeks? Or do you enjoy that extra sensation? Being retired, I don't bother to shave every single day ... but I do make sure I shave before Friday night rolls around. I could adjust that, if responses seem to warrant it. I know I like seeing an unshaven guy eating wet Hole come up for air with Sperm from previous Cocks on his upper lip, chin ...
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Agreed. It all depends on the skills of the Top. Merely spitting towards a Hole before Breeding doesn't come close to cutting the mustard. A Top who loves Hole would be more attentive to it, at the very least. Better, would be to get his mouth on the Hole, lick it, eat it, tongue-fuck it, push as much saliva up the Hole as is necessary via tongue-fucking the Hole. I much prefer either saliva or loads off previous Cocks to commercial lubes.
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Interesting .... are you ok with the Top eating/mouthing your Hole, tonguing his spit into your Hole in place of commercial lube? I don't mean allowing it out of your clearly refined sense of duty - I mean, is that not pleasurable for you?
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Well, my position is, call others by whatever they want to be called. That does not mean I'll carry a crib-sheet around in my pocket, though. I don't know if there's any other moniker for bisexual folks, but - if plain old "bisexual" isn't enough, then I agree - it's up to them to explain that fact, and offer the rest of us alternatives.
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LOL ... of course you're right. There's rather little "decency" - as traditionally defined - in our sexual habits. To restate: most "decent-minded" gay men will understand the "intake = outgo" part of physiology, and make the necessary accommodations.
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I take your point, in that the sexual act isn't solely for procreation. Obviously, it's universally pleasurable too (or, should be). The duality-of-purpose part though, didn't occur to me. You're right, of course - we don't fuck with our pancreas ... I must beg your pardon though, for not reading the entire 2nd paragraph: I just ate breakfast .... and, ..... well ...... I'll read it a little later 🤢
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I don't care all that much either. I fuck a lot more than anything else, not that I mind sucking a Cock off ... just don't do it all that much. On those occasions when I do, it's more about the connection for me than how big the Cock is.
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HAHAHAHAHAHA ..... Worse, some of us never could see colors very well in the light of day, let alone in the darkness of the places we love to hunt in ... I'm glad that whole color-coded thing has "faded" (that was a fairly inept pun). Maybe we could come up with some other way to "flag" that we only fuck raw. How about using the R.i.L. contraction somehow .... I know that Slammer is peddling caps, t-shirts too, I think.
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Darkroom Behavior What Is Appropriate/Inappropriate?
hntnhole replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
This sounds exactly like it was before hiv came along. This is what those of us who chose to stay alive had to give up for a few years. This is how we all fucked before hiv. The steamroom at Mans Country was like this on weekends. This is what those of us who are very active now are remembering .... this is what we're re-living today. At the tubs, in the backrooms of bars, at the fuckjoints, it was like this everywhere. Sure, there were "fern bars", discos, small neighborhood gay bars, regular cruise-bars, all kinds of bars, but this - what DarkroomTaker so eloquently describes, is what some of us remember. The worst that could happen would be a case of the applause. Everybody fucked everybody, with nothing more than a quick smile to start it off. It was wonderful beyond imagination. He wraps up with the phrase "YOU never see who these Men are." Because there's no need to. Because there's no reason to. Because visuals aren't the crux of why we were there. Because ...... It's all about Cock/Hole/Sperm, and nothing else -
??? I'd never run across that one before, so I asked Mr. Googler about it. Turns out, I've got a streak of that one running up my spine !!! Obviously, the "eye-candy" quotient wouldn't apply, but - if a guy opens his mouth and I find there's something worth listening to, that only pours gas on the carnal fire. By the same token, dullards who constantly insist on proving and re-proving their status are not likely to interest me, no matter how hot their physical appearance. I suppose this is why gags were invented millennia ago.......
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In the context of human social behavior towards others, 100000 % !!! When in the context of anti-social behavior (stealing, damaging other peoples stuff, beating strangers up, etc), then maybe 999999 %.
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In THIS neighborhood, that would be disastrous. There are guys cruising around all night, every night looking for sex. Occasionally I find the residue in my front yard next morning. Towards afternoon, if I have to go somewhere in the car, I have to drive very slowly at first, since every guy is staring at his phone instead of watching traffic. What the issue of preparedness means to me, is that whether Cocks come over or not is entirely dependent on him, and that issue. I know that sometimes it's just not gonna work, and that's completely ok. I wouldn't consider for one moment overriding the cumdumps physical issues - that would be totally selfish. Of course it is. More, you recognize that and structure your life accordingly. The fact is though, you have a body that isn't "designed" for cumdumpery, and any decent-minded man would understand that. There are other physical issues that must be catered to, which enables you to be so "in tune" with the Breeder that the magnificent "connection" is able to be experienced. Any Breeder with an ounce of sense would protect that ability to the enth degree. We're getting down in the weeds here, but that's a good thing. Nothing is a bed of (thornless) roses, and almost everything is open to discussion. Thanks for your response.
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No. But, I absolutely LOVE pitching them.
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Do You Discuss HIV Status Before Barebacking?
hntnhole replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
No. I've taken every possible precaution to protect my own health, and that's about all I can do (save giving up one of the lasting pleasures of being alive). If asked, I reply honestly of course, but - asking about status in the backrooms/fuckjoints seems a bit on the "waaaay too late" side, in my opinion. Guys are gonna Breed each other regardless in those places. -
Also with respect, that is something I may have not made clear. I can't think of any instance, in any environment, when I have been considered to be submissive. I have made it my business to reign in my nature for years and years, and give others the respect and consideration they deserve, but neglected to make this clear at first. In the case of taking a cumdump, it's my house, and thus I make certain rules around here. No drugs, for instance. Let's go have lunch/supper; your turn pick the place, or we can order in; whichever you'd like. Pick up your clothes off the floor or I'll throw them away (and then I'll go buy some new ones). Silly stuff like that. Thanks for making that clear.
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Thanks for the response. These are negotiable issues, depending on the financial abilities of (almost certainly) the cumdump. If he's living off a 7 digit trust or LLC, then he's able to contribute. If he's working at an entry-level job in some store, then he'd pay rather little. Your point about work obligations is a good one, but assuming the relationship is of a "roommate" type, working is important in a number of ways. It's not the amount contributed, it's that something is contributed. Of course, the arrangements would take into account things like work schedules. It's really about two guys living together who have matured in their sexual behaviors, accept and revel in them, and happen to be "relationship" compatible. At the time I kept one, I was officially retired, but I did occasional "behind-the-scenes" research (in that field) for old business friends. Nothing really time-consuming, but occasionally I had a deadline to meet, or some other obligation. I also belong to a couple of non-sexual clubs. He had a particularly close Breedbuddy, and that was fine with me. Not a big deal, each guy has his own stuff to deal with, and they share a taste for a lot of sex. So, that cumdump I kept could go do whatever he wanted, or stay home and do whatever he wanted. By the same token, if I felt like hitting the fuckjoints, he could come with or not (he always did, of course), but nothing was carved in stone. And the whole point of the post was this: When disagreements do arise, the sex with other guys isn't affected, by mutual agreement. Sex with a lot of other men is baked in, right from the beginning.
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I think you're reflecting more on a LeatherLife set-up than a mutually-beneficial situation based merely on sex. I didn't suggest controlling every aspect of a cumdump's life, like a Leatherman would "control" every aspect of his "claimed" boy. Think of it more as a house-mate-with-benefits, a fb relationship. I didn't mean to imply that a keeping a cumdump conflates with the protocols of the LeatherDaddy/leatherboy structures at all, and I don't think I so much as alluded to it. These are two very different kinds of relationships. The "principal benefit" would be guarantee of a lot of sex with a lot of men, for both the Top and the cumdump. That, and to avoid the error my buddy made, namely refusing sex in a pique of unhappiness over some minor infraction. The testing would be a logical, practical way to begin the relationship, so each guy understands what's what with the other guy. The "household duties" was merely an example of a potential source of disagreement, and the point was, disagreements should never be resolved via withholding sex. I would imagine that virtually every "roommate" relationship develops disagreements at some point, and that type of relationship has nothing to do with a horny Top keeping a cumdump. I regret you misunderstood. I'll end this here, since most of the rest was built upon that initial misunderstanding.
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... and the old men sit around pretending to fondle their junk, telling the old women ribald stories from their youth .... I can almost hear it now .... LOL !!!
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Darkroom Behavior What Is Appropriate/Inappropriate?
hntnhole replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
Yup .... darkrooms: the great equalizer. Nothing matters but raw Cocks needing Holes, and raw Holes needing Sperm. The rest doesn't matter at all. -
I have no idea - sorry. Even sorrier that you've been through the grist mill so thoroughly. Glad you made it out the other side. Every guy is needed.
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Fortunately, this is one sexual perversion that I was not born with. In Chicago, there was Foster Ave beach, which had a large (I mean, 20 x 40 maybe) growth of lilac bushes, with the ground so firmly stomped down between the bushes you would need a hammer and nail to penetrate the ground. Many years ago I would ride my bike over there (much easier to get away than if in a car), and do the dirty, but there were always plenty of other guys there too. Eventually the cops shut it down, and the action moved north one exit (off LSD) to Hollywood Ave, where it remains to this day. One of my best, old partners in Breeding lives close by, and reports on the action frequently. I did visit Hollywood beach once, but - by that time I was a bit too far down the garden path to be interested. Here in Ft.L., there's a "gay beach" called Haulover - somewhere south of the city. Apparently there's a scrub-line of bushes here and there at the high-water mark where guys fuck, but I've never been there. To my mind, beach sand and fucking just are not compatible.
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It has to be. To me, an "arcade" is where you go to play pinball, (later, once they were invented) video games. A "bookstore" (what a ridiculous title to bestow on a gh joint) was a place where you had to buy "tokens" (phoney coins) to watch cheesy porn in little booths - often with a gh's cut into the walls. When the purchased time ran out, an employee would bang on the door hollering that you had to drop tokens. You could be thiiiiiiis close to shooting your load into a guy's throat/Hole through the gh, but either you stopped, fed the machine tokens, or you could get tossed out. The guy would have a bag full of tokens with him, so as to waste as little time as possible. Many of the tokens were custom-made, with the name of that particular business*, or an engraving of a hard Cock/balls on one side, and an ass on the other. Later, generic "coins" were used that would work in any "library". Also later, there were versions of the abs where you'd pay upon entering, and not bothered again. Guys could spend 15 minutes or 15 hours for the same dough. *I actually found some stashed away, and threw a handful on the street over by Ramrod, and another into the old abandoned gas station across the street where guys cruised all night long. Which gas station is now being converted to ..... wait for it ..... a restaurant !!! People sitting eating actual food, as opposed to men feeding their sexual depravities all night long.
