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  1. norefusal
    follow up question im curious about: how many of you, like me had been using condoms, experimented w some occasion bb, got an sti and instead of being most strict w condom use, started BBing more frequently?
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    stayin in ptown tday WE n lookin
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    street parking. i've never had an issue at either. megaplex is a bit more isolated, adjacent to ABSs but otherwise non-busy industrial type area so parking close by is easy. eagle is downtown so surround by bars and pizza places etc people walking around. still i've never had to park more that a few blocks away and u don't have to feed the meters after hours.
  4. norefusal
    as people have mentioned, it happens but usually for periods of time only. years ago i sucked off this guy in park and then we kept running into each other there. then he joined my gym and so for several months, everyday we'd finish our workouts w some head in the shower rm 😜then i moved away. so it was only about 6 mo that i got a non-stop daily feeding but oddly enough, we never once spoke and i have no idea what his name even was 😜
  5. norefusal
    what you are describing is a very particular sort of vibe or fantasy that only works sometimes. it's amazing how quickly the spell can be broken often mid stream no matter the situation (male/male, male/ female, bottom vs top etc ) when it works it's great but when it doesn't it can get very uncomfortable very quickly. especially with regard to your specific question. yes, like most men i've fantasized about it. but in order to act on such desires you have to tap into a part of you you are not sure you even want to admit exists. most of us take pleasure from pleasing but the entire fantasy is to take w no regard for the other and that's a harder concept to pull off vs fantasize about.
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    yes. "tide you over" is right. 😜it's like the need to drink is so strong i gotta take matters into your own hands.
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    eagles nest is downtown (above the eagle bar) and i believe it used to be a different name w perhaps different owners before covid. there may have even been a 3rd place nearby that also closed during covid. not sure what you're asking about mega. it's a short 5-10 min uber ride from train but quite a walk. 20-30 min maybe. doable but not for everyone.
  8. norefusal
    most guys cum tastes the same to me which also tastes like my own. it's a unique flavor and i often think salty is just the closest adj most people think of although it isn't exactly right. it really doesn't taste like food, its tastes like jizz. same with piss. bitter isn't exactly the right word but it's the closest food/drink flavor to bescribe piss that tastes like piss.
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    if we go solely by jo im oversexed and always have been lol but i think there a lot more to sex w others than just physical need. one week i've no desire to actually hook up while another week im doing multiple guys in same day. i do think there something to this " sex makes u want more sex" hence my habit of scrolling grindr in my car seconds after sex to see which of my hook up's neighbors are also up for it. or the days i spend hours in a cruising spot until the question " how many is enough" gets answered 😜
  10. norefusal
    i def got the idea from porn but in the beginning it was an easy thing to avoid. it wasn't until much later that i got hooked on it after an unexpected and non-consenting mouth flooding. for me it's an offshoot of the whole dom/sub dynamic. there's just something about a random stranger blasting his load down my throat without warning or permission and then just walking away speechless that turns this used sub on big time.
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    i want to see this slogan in a descovy add 😜
  12. norefusal
    two reflections: brotherhood and belonging: this the the justification I'm most suspicious of. when i first came out i found my tribe with the act-up crowd and formed life- changing bonds w men i no longer speak to. brotherhood is fleeting. also, joining the chaser brotherhood seems a slap in the face to the silence=death brotherhood i was once so committed to. loneliness and apps: this cuts both ways. after 20 years of monogamy the acute loneliness i felt as my marriage crumbled before my eyes was overwhelming. just to be able to text with some random guy in another state going thru a similar fate probably saved me from offing myself. it certainly helped me be seen and feel connected and hopeful. and let's be serious, anyone who's gotten all of their courage up to go out on a sat nite only to be snubbed and ignored by snooty gays.. all alone in a packed queer bar.. knows the destructive loneliness of belonging to a group that refuses to acknowledge your validity.
  13. norefusal
    wishing u the best
  14. norefusal
    lol to me "i get off on cheating" = "i get off on shop lifting from big box stores" you're focusing on the idea that people demand monogamy because it's what they truly want and need. honestly, i believe 60-70% demand monogamy because basic people go w societal norms and don't want to either think for themselves or be judged by the crowd for straying from the conventional path. how "adult" is it to demand fidelity and refuse to even consider an alternative. like finding the right person for a relationship is super easy that none of us ever compromised. it's all too unrealistic thinking to me.
  15. norefusal
    same
  16. norefusal
    cheating can be a fetish with the guilt trip afterward being part of the kink. only u know if this is true for you. ive tried open relationships but without much success but that might just be the particulars of those situations. i may try again in future. but i can say that i love the thrill of cheating and also find cheaters very sexy so i suspect it's just one of my kinks
  17. norefusal
    absofuckinglutely first of all, it won't hurt if you're both doin it right, second of all big dick just hits different. sure, maybe you don't want to finish every meal with the triple brownie fudge sunday but my god, i feel bad for anyone who's never had one 😜
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    same. one thing i have notice a prevalence these days is anti-depressant side-effect ED. not that's its = to people being jerks or misbehaving, but it def lends to the frustrations that cruising isn't workin out. cruising is kinda cool tho as it shows very quickly which guys were raised right and which guys were raised by wolves in a barn 😜
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    in retrospect i was most probably born a bottom. i love it, love everything about. always have. as a virgin i'd jerk off to fantasies of gettin fucked and even started fucking myself w toys. i've been in a couple of relationships where i only bottom but other than w women i've never had a bf i only topped. but not only did i fight being gay but once i was sleeping w men i fought the bottom label. in the 80s/90s there was a lot of prejudice against bottoms even by (perhaps especially by) gay men. add to that the prevelant idea that bottoming led to aids and more conscious denial that i was a bottom. if a name change would have helped me "pass" as vers i'd probably head straight to court lol it's great to see so many out loud and proud cum dumps nowadays but back then it was hard enough downgrading to second class citizen by coming out but coming out a someone even your own minority group saw as inferior and not a real man? no thanks
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    this! just not an issue i'm confronted w often that being said: for me it falls under how accommodating you are to others. for example: the few condom guys i've encountered are usually st8 cheaters on the dl so it makes sense why they'd prefer to be safer. at that point my choices are between complying or rejecting the sex. i wouldn't want to live w the implications of having coerced someone into something.
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    i believe there are currently two: eagles nest and megaplex. megaplex if a typical cruising spot filled with a variety of people, not just different ages, races, types but also open minded sluts vs people who just wanna watch vs picky people etc sat nites are the most crowded for better or worse. some will get into group scenes but many just want a 1on1 behind closed door in my experience there is currently an over abundance of bottoms lookin to get anon bred multiple times, so if that's your bent be prepared for competition considering the amount of bare cock i've taken there combined w the number of holes ive shoved my cock in its almost shocking i've never caught anything once
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    i'll never understand the conservative perspective. it's shocking to me in 2023 to read on BZ of all places sentiments like " porn/ hollywood made me do it" and "all gay men are immoral hedonists perusing sex, drugs and rock n roll, that's why they're all diseased" etc
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    wtf lol this story is either my wildest teen jerkoff fantasy come true for some lucky bastard, or a horrific confession of some poor kid's years of repeat sexual assault by multiple abusers. the op doesnt seem to clue us in on if he enjoyed being the town pass around rape bitch or not. either way, i assume the "how did they all know i was a faggot?" question is less about how limp his wrists were but more about "i gave off strong im a horny teen literally up anything" or "i'm a passive victim type you can bully and feel confident i'll never squeal" vibes.
  24. norefusal
    i've got the opposite problem. predictors suggest i best stay where i am but i yearn so for a change!
  25. norefusal
    well it wouldnt be a day on the internet if someone didn't feel the need to intentionally misrepresent your opinions in order to mansplain to you what you already know, complete w name calling, insults and condescending lectures. yes, the neglect of an actual platform has labeled the gop "crazy" but anyone paying any sliver of attention will notice that the executive branch is seen as the spokesman of the party's platform and the legislative branch members of the same party are pushed by their speaker and whip to promote laws that reflect that platform. united we stand, divided we fall. but please, go ahead and schoolhouse rock us on how the judicial branch is wholey independent and recent changes like the repeal of roe v wade has nothing to do w which party the nominating president belongs to and nothing to do w the majority of the legislative branch approving nominations. chief justice merick garland is all ears about how washington runs on these three entirely independent bodies that never coordinate along political party goals.

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