tallslenderguy

sightly gaped and cumsloppy (preferably mine)

I've never been stoned or drunk, just not something I've ever done. Can you catch a buzz from someone pissing in you? Is it even possible to pass alcohol that way? I've heard of "butt chugging" (where someone pushes booze up your ass), but hear it's kind of dangerous because the alcohol gets absorbed directly into your blood stream that way, so it's really easy to over do (watered down beer can get you drunk). So, am wondering if the same applies to a guys piss, especially if he's had several beers to make him piss a lot?

The idea of being stealth pissed is hot to me. I've actually had it happen a couple of times, once in a restroom the other at an ABS. The one at the restroom was an understall fuck. This guy came in and wanted to fuck, so he slid under and I mounted his cock. after he was done, he wrote me a note before leaving saying "thanks, I've needed to go all morning." The other was through a gh at an ABS. the guy was doing a slow fuck and kept pausing, but i didn't think anything of it. I have a lot of practice holding in loads, so I hold whatever a guy deposits in me without really thinking about it. After driving home though I really had the urge to go and a lot of piss came gushing out. I was kind of surprised that I couldn't feel it when he was pissing, but it was a total turn on for me to realize what he'd done. I even took a load after him before leaving, so I wonder what the other guy encountered? My second sphincter is pretty strong though, so when I clean out I always use a long dildo to make sure there's no water trapped, so it;s feasible to me that a top could stealth piss me if he was deep. The other idea that is just a fantasy is someone stealth pissing when I'm sucking him off. I have my doubts as to whether this is even possible, but I've recently had a top tell me he's done it several times. I have no desire to drink piss, but this guy swears he will convert me into a piss drinker lol. I'm not really that oral, but will do it as foreplay. On the occasions when I can relax enough and get into a rhythm, I can get a cock into my throat. I was doing it with a guy once who was semi flaccid and was able to hold it in several times. I had the weirdest sensation that something was going in, just figured it was pre cum, but it seem like a lot to be pre cum. It didn't occur to me till later that he may have pissed, but it seems almost impossible that he could match his pissing to my rhythm and only do it when his cock was in my throat. I didn't taste anything, so it didn't really occur to me. But thinking about it later was a real turn on. Any top ever do this? is it even possible?

It's a hot idea, making a guy piss, but not sure how possible it is? I've heard of guys making their bottom piss while fisting them, but not sure how you'd get a guy to piss by manipulating his cock?

Fascinating topic. fetish: "a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body" Not sure who gets to qualify what "abnormal degree" is, but my fetish is definitely my ass hole. I discovered it as a pretty young kid, probably around the age of 9 or 10. There was a kid on the street where I lived who I kind of had a crush on. One day when we were at his house he showed me an enema nozzle and told me his mom would put it up his ass. I don't think any abuse was happening to him, but I do think he sexualized it, I think he was sexualizing it with me. The idea was planted though and I started putting things in my ass after that and discovered I liked it. As a kid, I didn't do much ass play that I recall, but once I hit puberty and discovered masturbation, it definitely was a big part of it. My early experimentation was more focused on depositing something inside myself, so I experimented with enema and even used a bicycle pump to pump air into myself lol. As an older teen and young adult, i got more into the actual penetration, so larger things found their way in there because I was fantasizing about getting fucked (I was really repressed and didn't have sex with a guy till i was 27). I was working as a maintenance person and one of the tools in my tool shed had a large, smooth metal handle with a ball on the end, that found it's way in several times. As an adult, i've evolved into being more into other guys interest in my hole. I have toys, but don't get much out of pleasuring myself. I get really turned on by guys who have a fetish of other guys holes (mine lol). And the "fetish" (obsession) that another guy has for asshole is a big part of it for me, almost as much as the actual act of penetration. Nowadays I get really turned on by a guy who is creatively obsessed with how he can play in my hole. And I wonder if that goes full circle to how as a kid I learned about my hole from another kid who may have had a asshole fetish?

poppers (amyl nitrite) is a vasodilator. It stimulates the release of nitric oxide in your body which relaxes smooth muscle (the muscle that surrounds your blood vessels) causing them to open up. It lowers your blood pressure, which causes your heart to speed up to compensate. If you're taking blood pressure meds or Viagra (also a vasodilator), your blood pressure can get dangerously low which is why some people get light headed and feel like they're going to pass out. The blue lips some experience is because the body will try and compensate if the blood pressure gets to low by shunting blood away from less vital organs to the more vital ones (which is kind of funny when you think about some guys not being able to get erect as a side effect). It also relaxes the anal and vaginal sphincter muscles, which is one of the reasons some of us love it. We give nitrites to people who are having heart attacks, a common side effect is headache. About 10% of people get migraines. I'm guessing that using poppers may have similar effects. All in all, it's a pretty potent (though short acting) drug. Prolonged and repeated use can do some pretty serious damage.

not for me. I was married 31 years, from the age of barely 21 (long story, religious background). I had my first experience having sex with a guy at age 27. For me, cheating, and then lying to cover it up, was the most tortuous and painful thing I've ever done. It's not that I think an open relationship is wrong, that's a whole other arrangement that includes the decisions of all parties involved. For me, there is nothing exciting or fun about cheating and lying, it filled me with guilt and shame. Eventually, my wife found out and was devastated by it. good times. I don't recommend it.

Hi kikk2015, The simple answer is you are more at risk if there is a sore in your mouth than if there were not. 'Safer' practice for oral sex even advises not to brush your teeth or floss before oral sex. The mouth is highly vascularized and HIV infects by getting into the blood or lymph system, so the idea is to minimize possible blood exposure. When we get a wound of some sort, the body rushes to repair it causing an inflammatory response. That's the "red" that you are seeing in your mouth. Unfortunately, the way HIV infects us is through the very system our body uses to fend off infection (i.e., the immune system). There is something you can do If you are stressing. You can take a course of HIV med's prophylactically (i.e., preventatively). Post exposure prophylaxis (PEP) is something you need to do quickly, within 72 hours of exposure, to be effective.

Hi bootmandc, HIV is a rapidly mutating virus that, consequently, exists in different forms. The way science has gotten ahead of HIV is by attacking different aspects of the virus' reproduction. "TRUVADA is a type of medicine called a nucleoside analog reverse transcriptase inhibitor (NRTI)," it attacks the virus at two different levels/places and is generally effective at prevention because it hits HIV before it has a chance to integrate into a persons system and become established (i.e., infect them). All virus' need a host to reproduce, they cannot replicate on their own. But Truvada does not contain an integrase inhibitor, for instance, a med that attacks a different aspect of HIV infection. I don't know what specific HIV strain this guy has, but apparently it was resistant to the two particular meds as they are formulated in Truvada. The meds they gave him to get the virus under control may have had a different strength, combination or an added component like an integrase inhibitor.

I voted "both" but it's kinda tricky. I think it's more accurate to say a lot of guys 1:1, one after another. I am such a fuck slut that I look at oral as foreplay. I like it well enough, but I'm not one of those guys who likes to suck for hours. I like to use sucking to get a guy hot and bothered so he wants to fuck me, so I can be a pretty focused and purposeful sucker. That has backfired on me lots of times when a guy gets so turned on he ends up shooting down my throat. That's okay, I still enjoy his pleasure, I just want all cum deep in my ass. Kind of a primal thing. When in a group, guys end up having to take turns on fucking, so some will jack or others want you to suck them, for me that takes focus (mine and all those tops) off of my ass, which as noted, as a bottom fuck slut that's what I really get ramped up on. My favorite top is one who is obsessed with fucking more than anything else. So, I don't like anything that might water that down for them, and thus me (because I am getting off on his drive to fuck). I guess ideally that would mean a line of tops waiting to take their turn fucking and getting really turned on by watching and anticipating their turn to breed.

I only experience a top announcing, in one form or another, that he is coming about half the time. Which is kinda disappointing to me because I love a top who lets me know when he is cumming, somehow. I can feel the results afterwards, so I always know after the fact, but I love it when I know a top has climaxed in me and his announcing or telling me he's breeding me is incredibly hot. I've experienced fairly often where a top will cum fast, but keeps fucking. I think some guys are embarrassed if they cum quickly, so they don't tell you and just keep fucking. But I have never minded that. I think it can be really hot if a top shoots as soon as he slides in, just indicates how turned on he is, which is half the pleasure for me (i.e., knowing his pleasure). All in all, as long as he gets it in and leaves some of himself in me, I'm happy.

have only had this a couple of times, really brings out the slut in me and I wish for it more. the hottest time was at an ABS. I was watching porn in one of the theaters and a guy came in and sat next to me. after a few, he put his hand in my pants and went straight for my hole. after making me for a bottom, he pulled my pants off and told me to raise my legs and expose my hole. when guys would come in to the theater he'd finger my hole and invite them to breed it. it was so fucking hot, it's one of my hottest fantasies, wishes. would love to have a top who likes to have me bred on a regular basis as he controls it.

cool question. I'm 6'5", but slender ~185 pounds... and I like to stay that way (i.e., on slender side). Because of my height I can weigh much more and still be within defined range for BMI. I've weighed as much as 215, but did not like the way I looked or felt. Being tall can make it a challenge when a top wants to fuck doggie style. I think that may be partly why my favorite posture is lying on my stomach, but then i tend to be a pretty passive fuck, i love to be taken by guys who love to be in control. Another reason for liking to be on my stomach is for the anonymity it provides. I really do not care how big or small, age, or any other factor, when I am in that position. It's kind of like being blindfolded for me, the visual sense is cut out of the scenario. If visual is involved, I tend to like slender guys. My favorite FB's have all been on the shorter and skinnier side, controlling me as a bottom is never an issue because I'm pretty pliable.

Hey guys, just an update for those of you who may be following this thread (and for future generations of readers lol). I had my first appointment with an infectious disease (ID) doctor on Feb 25, a little more than a month after getting diagnosed with HIV. My own feelings after being diagnosed were that I wanted to get on meds as quickly as possible to get my VL down to undetectable. Everything I have read points to that as the best approach in terms of reducing the affects of the virus on me and reducing the likelihood of spreading it (not of a chasing or gifting mindset here). I feel I really lucked out with my ID doctor, he's been working with HIV patients since the 80's and really seems up on the latest. I asked him point blank if he had any issues treating a gay guy. He thanked me for asking and told me while he is not gay, he explained how he'd been treating gays for years and some of his experiences. The guy has a heart, and I was grateful to get a glimpse. He gave me a thorough exam and ordered a boat load of blood work done. He didn't limit his questions or focus to HIV, but was obviously familiar and savvy enough to discuss all STD's. He also made sure I was vaccinated for pneumonia and Hep A before leaving his office and I'll be getting a second pneumonia vaccine in a few weeks (both cover different strains). Thorough. He did not start me on meds yet because he wanted to do genetic testing first to make sure the meds he prescribes are a fit for me. Thorough again. He also helped come up with a solution for when I do get prescriptions, being able to get them at a place where I can maintain my privacy (I work at a hospital and my insurance requires I get my meds through the hospital, thankfully we have several hospitals in the chain and I can get my meds from the pharmacy of another of the hospitals in the chain in another town where the whole staff doesn't know me). I still haven't experienced any real panic or sense of desperation with having this diagnosis. Cognitively, I didn't expect any of that, but emotions can have a mind of their own... so far, mine are behaving.

I think you are all hitting on the same note, and I so appreciate the tone. I believe racism is a subset of ethnocentrism, that it is taught and is not natural. The problem with ethnocentrism is the attitude that we are right just because it is what we've always known or done, because it was passed on to us by our families, churches, schools, friends-i.e., culture. I think that it's not so much the blatant, obvious habits or traits that harms us, but the subtle presumed habits that we have and live because we have never questioned or had them questioned. Having those things examined or questioned can make us squirm because few people want to be 'bad' or thought of as ignorant. It seems to me that ignorance derives from an attitude of knowing though. I.e., when one already "knows," one generally stops inquiring or looking because one no longer feels the need to inquire about something they already 'know.' I've been tricked by my own nature enough times to where it seems prudent to always take the approach: "this is how it seems to me now, but I could be wrong..." Having these kinds of discussions for me is a way of "looking in the mirror" (as Misterpiggy suggests), because relationship is a way of seeing your reflection. Other people reflect us and can show us things about ourselves we may not see through our own glasses.

Interesting stats and correlative reasoning. I've also wondered about the prevalence of HIV in Africa. Gay sex is less culturally acceptable (or at least was in the past), but I infer a strong male with male subculture. My own attraction to black guys has nothing to do with physical appearance or size, it has to do with demeanor. Again, I preface this with my chagrin about possible stereotyping. Most of the black guys I've been with have been almost artful in their approach to sex. There's been a feel that I've experienced with other races, but not as consistently, so it makes it easier for me to associate it with race. I cannot quite put my finger on what exactly "it" is, but I have usually felt like the black guys who fucked me are more engaged with what they are doing with me so I end up feeling more of a connection. I have had this with guys of other races, it just has been more common/consistent with black guys. Whatever "it" is, I usually end up feeling more romantic with a black guy, more loved or appreciated. It almost always feels less hook up more personal. I think it may be that I feel less objectified. I have ended up feeling more like I could have something regular, relationship of sorts, with more black guys than I've experienced with other races.

I appreciate the question and topic. I think anything that gets us to look and listen is good, there's so much we presume. I've wondered about it in me. The majority of experiences I've had with black guys have been really good, so it could be easy for me to make generalizations about blacks and relate it to race. For me it's been a question of skill. My experiences with most black guys have been with really skilled and atentave fuckers. But that hasn't been universally true, so it would be false to assume all black guys are incredible fuckers lol. I'm curious about the name: ridemyblkdick...imagine this one: ridemywhtdick. Is racism implied?

I've pondered this question, more on a personal level (i.e., wondering why I am so drawn to being a bottom). From a numbers standpoint, it would make more sense to be a top because it seems there's a lot more ass available than cock. But it seems our sex drive has little to do with reason. I spent most of my life married (to a woman), so I topped a lot. When I first started having sex with guys, I was pretty versatile in my thought process, but I seemed to evolve into a bottom. When I was younger, it seemed most of the guys who wanted me were tops. Before I had much experience, sex with guys just kind of happened, without the preliminary discussion about preference that seems standard these days. I'd start to have sex with a guy and he'd seem to migrate to the top position. I remember one of my earlier experiences, not really knowing what the guy was going to do, he just kind of took control. I thought he was just going to blow me. We were in bed and he was going down on me, but then worked his way to my ass and started eating it out and making it very wet. Before I knew it, he was pushing my legs back and sliding in and I realized that fucking me had been his intent all along, the rest was just prep. That stuck with me, the process of being taken was really a big part of sex for me, it was something I consciously missed being married to a woman. Most of my sex I've had later in life has not had much intimacy connected to it, i.e., it's only sex. Really, my call on that. I've just sort of developed method when I'm horny and pretty much fall into a routine that focuses on getting a cock and semen in my ass with little to no consideration of anything else. It's like sex has become a refined process. In that process, it seems easier to be a bottom because I am not concerned with how the guy looks, only about cock and cum, so that opens the field. I think the guys I end up attracting this way are a greater variety (i.e., tops, versatile and versatile bottoms) because I'm just an easy ass to fuck vs. an intimate entangle. I do miss the kind of sex I mentioned earlier, where I am face up and there's some auxiliary passion involved, but I'm a whole lot more picky about who I have sex with that way. I've been fucked by prolly thousands of guys, but I can count on one hand the number of guys I've kissed. I find myself wondering that if I found romance, I'd migrate and become more versatile?

I'm pretty much a total bottom, but I've been attracted to more than one FTM trans person... and usually find out they are transgender after the attraction. I find it kind of curious.

Well, yeah, it does "sound bad" to me that you think it's funny to purposefully violate another persons trust. It sounds like an invitation for rejection.

It's a valid question, given the physiology of male with male sex. Going with your "male vagina" comparison, I think it's kind of a funny thing the gods did making all of our sex organs with the double purpose of waste disposal. With a woman, her vagina is a waste disposal canal once a month when her uterus sloughs and she gets her period. So, I guess the comparison you use might involve fucking during her period and her never douching. I stop at being a 'pig' when it comes to hygiene. I know some guys really like things like felching, smelly pits and crotch, etc.. I don't. If I eat a guys hole, I want it clean. I want mine that way too, especially if the guy wants to keep switching between fucking me and having me suck him. I like clean smells, crotch or skin or pits. I might let a guy fuck me if I wasn't cleaned out (never have) if I knew that that was something he really liked, only because I get turned on by my top being turned on, but it's not something I would ever want as a top, or seek out as a bottom.

Hi guys, I learned a few weeks ago that I am HIV+. I want to give a shout out to tallbtm here. One of the reasons I was getting tested was because he took the time and care to give me some very valuable information on PrEP (how to get it at low or virtually no cost, or at least find ways to make it doable). If I hadn't been poz, I'd be on prep now. As a quick background, I've been a BB bottom for over 30 years, have probably taken thousands of loads and usually tested annually (didn't always make that mark, I always struggled with getting tested for fear of finding out I was poz). At no point have I ever thought anyone else but me is responsible for my STD status, my choice, my risk. Having said that, I have never knowingly engaged in sex when I had an STD, I'd have a problem doing that even if the guy wanted the STD. I've known that I'm HIV+ for about 3 or 4 weeks now, and have not had sex since finding out (a new record for me lol). It's not that my desire for sex has left, I've masturbated to get some sort of release. My intent is to not have sex until I am on meds and showing an undetectable VL because I don't want to knowingly spread disease. I know, that's just me, not saying this is "the standard," it's just mine. I want to understand why guys chase and stealth. I do not get it, and I have yet to read an explanation from a chaser or stealther that explains it (which is not to say they don't have one, I just have not read one yet). I've read some who say "it's complicated," but do not say how or why they want to be sick or make someone else sick? For me it was a question of fear and ignorance. Chances are I could have avoided being poz had I not been afraid of testing and discussing/learning about PrEP with a provider (a long legacy of being stigmatized for being gay). When I finally did get the courage and knowledge, it was to late. To me, the current treatments and preventative measure (i.e. PrEP) represent a way to hugely reduce HIV, if not get rid of it altogether over time. With undetectable VL on the one hand, and prophylactic treatment on the other, over time HIV could become like polio (in frequency of infection). So, if you have HIV, why not treat it? If you don't but love to BB, why not PrEP? (these are not rhetorical questions)

This is a good question, and I'm not sure I know the answer. I come from a religious culture that did not make allowances for being gay. Being gay meant you were "broken" and having sex with a guy is "sin." So I married a woman at an early age (barely 21) and tried to live as straight. It took me almost 30 years to get past my ideas of "God" and be able to accept myself. I stayed trapped in a marriage to a woman thinking I could change and just wasn't trying hard enough, or hadn't found the right key. dumb. Meanwhile, I failed to suppress my attraction to guys, had my first sex with a guy at 27. Ironically it was with a missionary lol. Because I did not accept who I was, sex became my only means of affirmation. Sex became a kind of illicit drug for me. Like the junkie shooting up to relieve withdrawal symptoms. I'd hate myself ever time I had sex, but could not stop. One of the ways I became an exclusive bottom was because it seemed every time I let a guy suck me, I'd end up with chlamydia (try explaining that to the wife). So, I stopped getting sucked early on. Twisted logic, I exchanged the less risky sex for the most risky, my ass was for guys, my cock for my wife. As to the decision to bareback? It was never really a conscious decision, though I hated myself for taking the risk (not so much for myself as my wife). It was a twisted and tortured life, I felt trapped in marriage by my beliefs, and a failure because I couldn't get over my desire to be with a guy. For me though, it just didn't qualify as being with a guy unless I got his seed. For me, half the act of fucking is the cum. Sex without cum is like sitting down to a wonderful meal and only tasting it without swallowing it. I spent years trying to make it otherwise, but I think the fact that I paid such a high price (emotionally) every time I had sex, I didn't have much room left for the compromise of a condom.

Ditto to most of the responses to this thread. The guy responded to a CL ad to get bred, that all by itself should be enough said. You didn't rape the guy or have sex with him against his will. We are all responsible for our own bodies. I went for years not getting sucked because it seemed every time I got sucked, I got chlamydia. My choice, either way. This guy has some big problems he's going to have to work through. He is taking anonymous loads on CL and wants to marry a woman who likely doesn't know he's bi. I wouldn't wish that cheating and lying scenario on anyone. At some point he needs to grow up and come to terms with who he is.

When i was younger I used to cruise an area where there were a lot of Navy, I was still new to getting fucked and still pretty conservative. One guy, kinda drunk, picked my up and took me to his sleazy hotel room and started fucking me missionary (which almost never happens) so he was pretty much in my face. I had one load in me and as he started fucking me he looked me in the eye with a kind of distain and ask: "how many cocks have you had today?" but it wasn't really a question as much as it was an accusation. I'm pretty sure I blushed. these days I don't embarrass.