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Sleep with your cock in a bottom. i volunteer to help You out, hate the thought of Your cum being wasted.
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Did you allowed "repugnant" tops to cum deep inside you?
tallslenderguy replied to markedmucosa's topic in General Discussion
The only Top i have a hard time taking is one with a condom on, and then it’s not the Top i find “repugnant, “ it’s the condom. i don’t view sex as “taking any cock/load.” For me it’s a matter of taking any guy. I can’t really disconnect the guy from His cock, and im kinda guy crazy, so repugnant just doesn’t fit as a descriptor. When i was in Palm Springs a few weeks ago, i hooked with a guy who had no legs and practically no ass, his cock seemed like it had been reconstructed. i’m a nurse and felt totally comfortable with Him and was kissing and caressing His stumps. He was practically in tears and said no one ever touches Him there. Hell, i loved it, He was so obviously enjoying my pleasuring Him, and that’s what feeds my bottom soul more than anything, the connection of giving a guy pleasure. -
Funny that, in Oregon as long as you are in a booth, it’s considered a private room and consensual sex between adults. The local ABS where i live shares a parking lot with the State Police Department, which is right next door.
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LMAO, sigh. ditto dear Eros. Competitive bottoms baffle me too. i've left cruising locales before when i noted too many bottoms. i'd rather let a fellow bottom have the Tops looking than compete with them. my overarching emotion for guys is i really just love guys, bottoms or Tops, Dom's or subs, even if i am not sexually compatible with everyone. i love when a fellow bottom or sub gets what they need/want as much as i love it when a Top or Dom does. i like happy, lusty, fulfilled guys. i feel badly for guys who cannot get erect yet obviously want to fuck. i try to be encouraging in case it isn't physiological, but honestly, i often end up feeling distressed for them. i've had guys who want to be FB's who seem to be convinced that they have been fucking me the last few times, but actually have had performance issues... i wonder how they maintain the fantasy, i'd think they'd be really frustrated and stop. i know some guys really get off on "rough" sex, including dry penetration and sandpaper fingers. It's a buzz kill for me. And fingernails... eek! Poppers. Their original use was as an anti anginal (heart pain related to ischemia, or lack of blood flow/oxygen to the heart). It's a vasodilator and has side effect of dropping blood pressure. i suspect that the only reason there are not more popper accidents is because of it's short half life and efficacy duration.
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i've definitely evolved in this area. i still am attracted to guys visually. i work in a hospital and have to be careful that i am not obvious when i stare at a passing guys ass. A guys ass is my biggest turn on visually, even though i'm pretty much a total bottom with a lot of sub in me. Having said that, it turns out a guys looks don't really matter to me if their personality is pushing my buttons. i drove 3 hours (one way) to pick a guy up and bring him to my house two weeks ago. We'd talked a lot online and online, we were very hot for each other. As seems to almost be the rule with me, when it comes to more than hook up, it seems that every guy i've ever met online and did more than hook with was very different from what they seemed online. In this guys case, he looked a lot older than his online pics. His body was not in good shape. He's been poz since the early 90's and some of the early meds He took affected his fat distribution. He smelled, very strong body odor. He also had a goatee, and i'm not really into facial hair. And, absolutely none of the would have mattered if His personality from online had been the same in person. He was a nice guy, but versatile and wanted my penis, that pretty much shut me down. We had discussed the fact that i'm a total bottom extensively. i had asked him (online) point blank if it bothered him that i don't want my penis touched and He said it "turned him on" and it didn't matter at all. It did in reality, and it was that, not his looks or smell that mattered. i let him have his way with my penis too, i have a lot of sub in me and that part of me kicked in, so we got along, but the chemistry was what mattered, not looks.
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Not having a true "dark room." The closest city where i have access to a bath house is Portland Oregon, and there are two there. One doesn't even have a dark room and the other'd dark room is the size of a walk in closet. Its so small that the light from the door (dark plastic slats) makes it only semi dark. i have yet to experience a dark room that is at least the size of a bedroom and is pitch black so all you can you have is hearing and feeling to go by.
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i think this is a great question! i've had 3 D/s "relationships" but i only fell in love with one, and i fell very hard and far, that was unreciprocated. The other two i like and care about, but wouldn't say i was "in love" with either. The one i was in love with definitely brought out deeper feelings of submission. i also experienced feeling adoration for Him.
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As others have noted, D/s is not a simple topic (or endeavor). i've been told by a Dom i was in a D/s relationship with that i was the most submissive guy He'd ever met, even though we ended the D/s part of our relationship (we're still great friends) because He is physically Sadist and i am not a masochist. i don't consider S/m to be synonymous with D/s, but some guys link the two together. There's no D/s regulating committee that sets the rules and standards of D/s relationship, it ends up coming down to individual chemistry. i've met enough Dom guys who eschew physical sadism to know that sadism and Dom do not necessarily go hand in hand, yet they are still "extremely" Dom. i agree with the sentiment of Skinster's post, that it's very difficult to find anyone who is willing to work at relationship, on either side of the equation. Hook up has become the rule, it is so much easier to attain "instant gratification" than long term relationship. Most aps promote hooking, not finding a ltr. Yet , i think it takes time to discover and/or develop the connections that can lead to bonds between people. i think a big part of the problem is the expectation (on either side) of instant "extreme."
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i'm so totally into anything coming out of a Tops body going into mine, i have all sorts of fantasies about it. To me, there's a psychological mind fuck to it where a Top 'marks' or impregnates His bottom. One of my fantasies involves condom catheters worn by the Top, with a tube attached to the end that He inserts into me before we go to sleep. Any time He pees during the night, His piss automatically goes into me via the condom cath He is wearing and the tube He has inserted into me to convey His piss into me. i've thought of different scenarios, like an inflatable enema nozzle to ensure the tube and piss stays in.
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i have naturally hairy ass and go back and forth between shaving or not. Like others, Tops seem to be 50/50 on which they prefer, and that's my first concern. But it never fails, as soon as i shave it i run into a Top who wants hairy. sigh As for me, i absolutely love the look and feel of it smooth, on me and other guys. Hairy legs are good, neutral on that, but hairless chest, cock, balls, ass make me salivate. There have been exceptions. There was a guy at yoga class i could barely take my eyes off his very furry ass in the dressing room, it was fucking gorgeous. But i suspect it also had to do with his slight body and gentle personality too. He didn't have a 'hairy' personality. Which is totally silly, i know, but i am not into hyper masculinity. Quiet confidence grabs me more than overt expressions of masculinity. For whatever reason, i seem to associate hairy with a certain kind of masculinity, which doesn't fit who i am at all, so i feel like i am dressed wrong when let my pubic hair grow. THe best for me is a guy who likes to shave and de=hair me. That takes the lid off for me and gets to the contents of making me hairless as a form of subjugation.
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"Refreshed passion" is something i experienced too. For me, i genuinely believed that being gay was wrong and something to be overcome. i hated myself every time i cheated, and hated the lies to cover it even more. i became scrupulously honest in other ways as a way of distorted compensation. Cheating and lying made me feel invisible. Conversely, i believed being straight was what i was supposed to be. Cheating sex with guys was a relief of affirmation of who i am, it wasn't just wanting to get off, it was my only acknowledgement of being gay. Once i had been with a guy, it sort of relieved the need to be, freeing me up to do something i wasn't really suited for (topping a woman). After i divorced, i dated a few women, thinking i might be Bi since i'd been able to perform with a woman for so many years while married. i've had several chances to be with women since divorcing , but never have. my former wife is the only woman i have ever been with... turns out, i'm gay lol. A feeling i did have while dating women after i divorced was that sex with them would have been cheating on my former wife.
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when i was married, i cheated... a lot. i tried not to, even tried "reparative therapy" (was religious) and couldn't stop. i couldn't help it, i never felt so powerless in my life as when i was married to a woman and needing to be the one being bred. i was good at doing her because i knew what i wanted. i'd usually feel more like fucking after getting bred... i wonder if it was some sort of transferance?
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What the act of bottoming represents
tallslenderguy replied to Anonversecuck's topic in General Discussion
Not sure how I missed this thread when it first started, great responses! i’m like those who get as much or more from the mental fuck as i do the physical. For me the focus is maybe similar to DannyBoy in terms of getting pregnant...and different too from other posts ive read of his? I have no desire to be pregnant with an actual baby, but aspects of pregnancy, like having my body ‘marked’ or impregnated by a part of my Top, especially when that’s His intent, is essentially my sex drive. It’s His intent as well as His seed inside of me that makes the act complete for me. Knowing that He feels a completion by placing part of Himself in me, fucking awesome -
I love the idea, but locking myself feels to much like trying to be my own Dom... a little weird, I know, I’m the same way with toys.
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i typically cum every 7-10 days. I don’t really wanna cum as a bottom, I like to stayhorny forTops. I will edge a lot while looking to be bred, so I stay super horny. Consequently, whenever I do cum, I shoot over my head (I’m 6’5” lol), and a lot. Semi creamy, not watery.
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Lol, not my favorite way to put it, more the idea that a Top/Dom puts something of Himself in the bottom/sub with the intent of altering him, ‘marking’ him, but I don’t see it as a solo thing, but a yin/yang combining of opposite energies... again, I can get pretty cerebral about it
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😉 im very into mind fuck and my thoughts and imagination are linked to different forms of impregnation. For me, the Top/bottom D/s dynamic is about the former putting something of their self, physical and emotional, in the bottom... the bottom is a resepticle and the two together make a ‘baby’ of sorts... really the result of the two combining
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on the other hand, started thinking of this. "Rough" and "Dominant" are not necessarily synonymous. i shut down when someone is rough with me, or i deliver a back kick if there's a certain bully attitude. Nothing brings out the sub in me more than gentle Dominance (for lack of a different descriptor). When i see the pleading lust in a guys eyes, He can get away with just about anything. There's also a matter of fact attitude that some Dom guys possess that just completely collars me then and there. They don't have to rely on rough because their confidence is so complete, they just assume i want to submit... hard to explain. sorry, this may be a bit off topic
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i've written this elsewhere, but i've had many a small cock. i had a regular fb who had a very large body and a very small cock, i was always surprised and impressed that he could get it in, but he always did and always shot a nice, creamy load. He fucked me on a regular basis, was always anonymous, me waiting face down on my bed, but i grew to have affection for him. my first love is not for cock, it's for men. i love guys. If a guy wants to breed me or wants his cock sucked, my buttons are pushed and i'm on it. If a guy has a cock in his own mind, He has a cock as far as i am concerned, size doesn't matter to me.
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One of my first childhood crushes was on my cousin, nothing ever happened, but i still have dreams about Him to this day.
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or this lol
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sounds like he was conflicted... he did want you, just wanted you to be less rough. my guess is he was afraid of offending or turning you off in the process, so waited till after the fact to express his feelings. i don't think that's the right way to go about it, but i've experienced more guys who are poor communicators than guys who know how to articulate what they are feeling.
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Thank you for your (as usual) thoughtful reply Eros. This makes complete sense to me. i've thought and thought about this topic and reached a similar place. i too am not sure i completely understand,but believe i reached a better place of understanding when i too connected that "i'm not actually humiliated by it" but "affirmed." i've come to believe that the contradiction is between socially/culturally imposed standards and reality. Many consider what and who we are as less than, if not down right 'perverted,' and many of us have been fed this message all our lives. Some of us have hidden in shame or still keep many of our own desires or needs deeply buried, secret. Then along comes a Top with the complimentary need or desire and, like and proton and electron, we're pulled together by a force we don't understand. For me, it feels like reducting something more profound to explain this in terms of physics, because of the emotional component, i guess? i feel like the Top also takes a sort of risk when exposing His need and desire and that it is just as affirming to Him to be able to be who He is with another guy.
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i love foley, especially the idea of a Top inserting a cath in me to empty me, then connecting a cath that He has inserted into His full bladder, or maybe one of these condom caths, and Him pissing my bladder full of His piss, then clamping the tube so i hold His piss in my bladder. i also think it would be hot to have a Top with a catheter in and He inserts the other end of the of the tube into my hole instead of connecting it to a bag.... like i become His foley bag. i think a hollow butt plug could be fashioned to hold it all in, or an inflatable enema plug.
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Man, you are way to hot to withhold your ass. i've been known to buy a bottled water and douche myself in a public restroom. Pretty interesting going in and out of the stall refilling the water bottle, but it works. 😉
