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  1. I love the question! In my experience of adult relationships, they are seldom just one "kind". Each one has its own unique combination of sex, friendly love, passionate love, and all the other ways two people can interact (including the negative and dysfunctional ones). Putting a label on them is convenient mostly for explaining to people outside the relationship, and even then it doesn't always work. I long ago lost count of the times I tried to explain to people in my gay chorus, "This is my partner, 'Q'. And this is her husband 'P'. We all live together." The relationship in question has since then been simplified, which is both good and bad. But people would inevitably assume something about who slept with whom or what our preferences were... and most often get it completely wrong. You know what happens when you ass-u-me. So I try (sometimes without success) to bear that experience in mind when other people tell me about their relationships. I will add that the best relationships in my experience are those where the people in them don't get hung up about sex or about passion, both of which are more temporary than many things in life. So, in that sense, I would agree that "friendship" is the best relationship.
  2. Or even worse, they are ideologically motivated to intentionally omit medical accuracy and useful information from the sex-ed programs they create.
  3. There are a lot of postings in its listing on Squirt. Cops patrolling from marked vehicles are mentioned several times, but it does sound like the place is quite active and people aren't overly worried. Just realized you probably know that already. Wishing we had better cruising options up in my area.
  4. Here's a second shot where the faces are clearer... hoping it helps.
  5. Here's another one I'd like to know about. I'm sure I've seen the top before - I thought in a TIM video, but I couldn't find him there. He's aggressive and sensual, which is a nice combo, though he's not my usual type. Sorry for the light flare - it's a problem with the original media.
  6. So, I ran across this vid of two bearded and tatted guys fucking at a urinal today, and from the length and the content I'd guess it's commercial work of some kind. Anyone know? Or at least who the guys are? It really turned my crank (I confess I didn't even make it halfway through before I blew a huge load)...
  7. Posting in this thread to bump it, but also because I've noticed a lot of newer people who don't seem to have seen it. I've been here way too long to remember whether one gets a link to it when one joins the site. @rawTOP Perhaps it would be good to install a permanent link to this thread in the main forum tree view, as you did at the top of the Backroom section for the recent thread about AIDS/STI fetish? I think it would save some grief for both newbies and moderators. Thanks, as always, for all you do!
  8. [think before following links] https://barebackbastards.com/41951/big-cock-seeding-my-hole/
  9. Used them from '85 to '95. After that, sometimes until about '10. Not since then unless the other guy really insisted and I thought he was worth it. The combination happens pretty seldom.
  10. @Viking8x6 - just created it, kind of partly for this, partly to keep following some of my favorite xTubers who moved things over there after the purge. I probably won't post a lot, but feel free...
  11. Love anonymous, but I also have a strong preference for being able to see the guy, especially his face. This has nothing to do with identifying him; it's all about what makes a guy sexy to me - faces really matter for whatever reason. So outdoor cruising, sex clubs, saunas, showers and the like really do it for me, while glory holes much less so.
  12. Whoa, you're SEXY AF!!!

  13. I partly agree, but I think more of the problem is the conditionality of the signal. If I'm "logged in" to a cruise app (I use Growlr, Scruff, and Grindr mostly) I might be checking to see if I have received messages in the last day, actively cruising for "right now", actively cruising for "later this week", looking to see if a FB is online, or just looking at eye candy. The same, of course, is true for most of the people on there. So even if there's a fair bit of signal (in the admittedly enormous amount of noise), it may not be relevant signal for a given cruiser. A few of the services have some kind of nod to trying to address this (usually a setting for "what I'm looking for"), but I haven't seen any that work particularly well. It's far worse in rural areas like mine, where the amount of relevant signal that involves less than a one-hour drive each way is so small it's mostly not worth the effort.
  14. Thanks for the follow! Great pic there!

  15. Given that you've had at least four skin conditions that have worried you in less than a year (and a year when Covid slowed down sexual exposure in general, at that!), you'd really be best off getting connected with a dermatologist on the regular.
  16. Wooooof! Gorgeous pics, man! Tried to oink you on bbrt but couldn't find you there.

  17. The stories do live on - even when people leave the site, the threads stay up. You can tell because the author gets the word "Guest" in front of their name on those posts. That said, it can sometimes be very hard to find them. The search engine is kind of quirky and doesn't always give optimal results, and if you have a detail wrong it's like trying to find a needle in a haystack. I think maybe you mean this one: The guy in it is described as 32, but otherwise it matches your description pretty well, especially the setup part.
  18. It can happen all by itself, but there are definitely medications and foods that can cause it or make it worse. The medications usually say in the side effects warnings or are labeled "avoid exposure to sunlight". You can find lists of the foods on the web. The most common offenders in that category are limes and celery, but there are quite a few others.
  19. Certainly! I'm maybe 40/60 top/bottom by preference, look masculine in a wiry-athletic kind of way, am hung quite well, and I'd say 80 to 90 percent of people hitting me up online are looking for me to top. Furthermore, dom/sub interactions are really foreign to my psyche, so in that sense I'm neither top nor bottom at all. You do you, and if you defy other people's small-minded categorizations, their loss. There are plenty of guys out there who would love to have what you're offering. I mean that specifically, not just in the general sense - a good friend of mine is a dominant in social terms but much prefers getting fucked to fucking. He's even single...
  20. Here's one with wonderfully filthy verbal all the way through 🙂 Sadly, it ends before the orgasm... I would have loved to hear that [think before following links] https://barebackbastards.com/28947/bbrts-hookup/
  21. A few weeks ago I posted in this thread... Just found the story (hooray!). I was completely wrong about the set-up, or maybe it was a different version, but the naughty bits, so to speak, are just as I remembered them:
  22. [think before following links] [think before following links] https://barebackbastards.com/22996/anon-hot-hairy-daddy-breeds/ [think before following links] https://barebackbastards.com/22986/hairy-daddy-fucks-anon-bottom/
  23. Yes, that's the one @BBCumPigGA was describing. I recognized it immediately from his description but hadn't tagged it myself because it's not my thing. It used to get reposted from site to site quite a bit.
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