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I read all of this with great interest - thanks for starting a super helpful thread, and thanks to all the people who posted great suggestions! I've certainly had similar problems, especially with guys who like to fuck deep. I do the best I can. I will add that, because I have a rather difficult time finding tops at all in my area, it is hard to plan ahead, and pointless to take a long time doing this (because the tops, when you can find them, tend not to be patient). But it's vastly important to take care of yourself, and the whole point of the exercise is to enjoy, right? Added stress reduces enjoyment, and is not good for us! Therefore, my suggestion (which I try to live by) is: Do your best, but don't wig out with stress over the fact that sometimes it won't be perfect. Shit happens. Literally. It's just messy, not the end of the world. So use a towel in case it does, and apologize if it does - but casually, and not as though anything is wrong. Because nothing is wrong. Your body is working just the way it is supposed to. If the top doesn't like that... too bad! He chose to play, with full knowledge of the possible consequences. I find when I can live by this plan, it makes me much happier... and actually I don't think I've ever had a top get really bent about it. Keep Calm and Keep Fucking
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In terms of size, what kind of dick do you have?
viking8x6 replied to Britnonchaser's topic in General Discussion
Yeah... and grows hair on their palms, too! 😉 -
I've seen many ads touting the advantages of gum jobs. And I know someone personally who has said something about his prowess in giving them to me. I believe he was around 50 at the time, possibly younger. Can't recall whether I ever took him up on it - that was 20 years ago now. He and his hubby are a delightful and piggy couple, still going strong last I checked - really nice and also quite sexy guys.
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The way you phrase the question is not meaningful in my world view. First, I don't "choose to be" gay, it's simply part of the way I am made, like having blue eyes or freckles. Second, I don't consider it undignified to get on my knees and suck a man's dick, any more than any other kind of sex is undignified. The whole "degradation" aspect that can show up in sexual relations (and indeed which some people seem to crave and enjoy, in one role or the other) just doesn't click inside my brain for whatever reason. I'm not judging here - it doesn't seem to me that either way of seeing it is wrong. They're just different. Almost eight billion people and counting, and still everyone has to be either "straight" or "gay" (well, ok, there are a few more boxes in the QUILTBAG world, but still only a couple of dozen). How absurd!
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Failed as a community
viking8x6 replied to Cutedelicategay's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
However, to follow up on that excellent post, I'd add that it only applies to gays who are not in denial / on the DL. I've had my share of STIs, and I find that much more often than not I get them in a situation (usually a bookstore or similar venue) where encounters are anonymous and some of the participants fall into that category. It's almost enough to make me swear off bookstores and public cruising grounds, but I really do enjoy the vibe when I'm in the mood. -
All that, definitely. And also the page load time is much longer than it ought to be, which is likely because the implementation is inefficient. I estimated it at something on the order of 5 seconds the other day when there were only 10,000 users or so connected. Of course, all the other apps suffer from similar problems in greater or lesser amounts. Of the ones I've used, Scruff seems to be the best, as far as implementation goes. The whole thing is occasionally irritating enough that I think about giving them some competition, but then I come to my senses and remember that it's a crowded market and going head to head with services that have an established foothold would be a recipe for frustration.
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XTube link collection - breeding videos
viking8x6 replied to bbfan74's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
A hot and thoroughly piggy romp from David-SF (during Folsom St Fair) [think before following links] https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/breeding-todd-29149831 -
XTube link collection - breeding videos
viking8x6 replied to bbfan74's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
A promo scene from "Bound Down in Pound Town" (Muscle Bear Porn) [think before following links] https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/two-very-hot-bears-44594821 It's a teaser, but super hot (especially if you like muscle and fur), and the audio is great, too! -
Amen! I think I've always understood this intuitively, and that last "if" is the one that really stops me. I am a rather risk-tolerant (sometimes even risk-seeking) person, but I definitely do have my boundaries, and I am fundamentally unwilling to relinquish my sovereignty to anyone. No matter how much I trust them - the boundaries are mine, not those of the Top who would be whoring me out, and I have to take my own responsibility for them. That said, the "safe word" approach used by the BDSM community seems like a very serviceable way of handling the issue. Hand your Top the key to the city and let him whore you out as he sees fit, but give yourself an out if things really do get out of hand. My feeling is I'd need that *and* a Top I trusted to honor it, and then I'd be willing to test my boundaries a lot harder. Of course, that's all pretty theoretical for me these days... the pickings are pretty slim. Hell, I'm happy just to get laid. As a top, even. *sigh*
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Well, he has his own desires, which may or may not align with yours. Most likely they partly do and partly don't - that's the way life usually goes. But you're focusing on what you want him to do, and how to convince him to do it... and from your viewpoint he seems reluctant. What about his point of view? You might make better progress, and in a better direction, if you ask in an open-ended way what he would like, instead of suggesting and having him respond that he wouldn't like your proposed option. Get him on board. Let him control the options here. That alone will probably make him feel a lot more comfortable about exploring. I could go on, but that's a good stopping point, and you can always ask if you want to hear more of my thoughts on it.
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Anon Bttm Takes Verbal Top's Load [think before following links] https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5e1d2f686e42d
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I get where you're coming from. It took me quite a while to get over my alarm about my own fascination with it. Now I've known about chasing for at least 15 years, and I'm a bit more comfortable with my own thoughts. My take-home is, to quote a favorite movie, "consistency is not really a human trait." It's perfectly possible, and even OK, for one to have that fascination with pozzing and to have a rational thought process that says it wouldn't be the right choice for them. They are both just thoughts, and equally valid. What actions one takes in consequence are equally valid, too. Our responsibility as humans is just to choose our actions, every day - which is a fuckton harder than it sounds. But in the end, we're all going to die, and the only antidote is to live our most authentic life, every day. Consistent or not.
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Bottoms: How Long Does It Take You to Fully Clean Out?
viking8x6 replied to 11bi11guy's topic in General Discussion
So far I haven't mastered the art of cleaning out effectively - it seems no matter how much I do it, more material is always coming down. Possibly I'm using too much water (from a comment earlier in this thread). Unfortunately, I don't have occasion to practice nearly as often as I'd like 😕 Maybe I should work on getting it good on my own with some deep dildo work to test my technique? Re fiber smoothies - always a good thing. I just make my regular smoothie and throw in a tablespoon or so of psyllium husks - I prefer the non-powdered ones from Trader Joe's - they seem to make a better formed stool than Metamucil. Also they're not flavored, so you can add them to anything. I often add a spoon to oatmeal if I'm having that for breakfast. That breakfast will cure any tendency to constipation, also. -
Pennsylvania (the US state that's about the same population as Ontario) is currently clocking 1,000 cases a day. And the southern US is much worse at the moment. Between a government that puts business before citizens (progressively more so as one goes from local to federal levels) and a culture that is generally mistrustful of authority - there are a lot of people here, myself included, who react badly to government decrees and will flout them simply to make a point - we pretty much screwed the pooch. Fun times!
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I went to a very well-known ABS last weekend (I was actually on a play date with a FB and we decided to run over there and get poppers and check out the scene). Almost everyone was wearing a mask. Wandering around among the video booths. It was quite surreal. Didn't do a lot for me - too much of my sexual response is keyed by facial features.
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Well, DAMN! I'm sorry I missed you! You're so damn sexy. And I lived... ON The Fenway (literally across the street from the Fens) until June of '88.
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Good start - now I'm curious to see where it goes. Minor thing that might be a glitch - should "Ian" in the first line be "David"? Or is he really someone else?
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This sounds interesting, but the link didn't insert correctly. Could you post it again, please?
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XTube link collection - breeding videos
viking8x6 replied to bbfan74's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
[think before following links] https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/raw-fuck-and-cum-16764182 -
I'll join the "see a doctor" crowd. Could be anything from earwax to a brain tumor. And it's pretty much impossible to look in your own ear... be well!
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TAKING ANTIBIOTICS BEFORE ATTENDING CUMUNION
viking8x6 replied to a topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
There is a whole thread on prophylactic doxycycline here: -
This happened to me a few years back. All kinds of blood. It was kind of awkward, but fortunately the top was actually a good FB and not just some stranger, so I assured him that it was not painful (it wasn't) and probably would be OK. If I remember right I looked it up and there was no particular treatment to be done, so I left it alone and it healed up fine. It grew back in time, about a month or two if I remember right. And yes, before it did, my tongue mobility was amazing - quite noticeable during voice lessons, which I was taking at the time.
