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I spent a lot of time this weekend at GI-Joe, a sauna in Montreal, Canada. It has been renovated and you can find public slings in many parts of the establishment. Maybe not as good a Lab-Oratory in Berlin (never been there but I hear is hot), but GI-Joe is a great sex place. Watching bottoms getting pounded in their rooms and in the public slings made me envious not of the bottoms but of the tops. How can a dude be such a great top, fucking forcefully non-stop for 5-10 minutes, then moving on to another willing bottom. Same thing in the dark room, one top fucking every bottom in the room until he breeds a hole and leaves. But he's back an hour later, again fucking every hole. If I could do long-time fucking and really enjoy it, like the tops I saw at the sauna, I would be a top. But I can't really enjoy topping. I really admire those tops who can fuck for a long time and fully enjoy it. Any top can tell us how many holes can you breed in one night at the bathhouse?
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The site safestsex.org explain that the problem is not that people lie about their STD situation, but that the information is vague and many times ambiguous, like "clean", "all clear", "tested couple of months ago", etc. They claim that by answering a detailed STD testing questionnaire during registration is a game-changer because now there's clear and unambiguous information such as precise tests and dates. Although the test results are not entered directly by a clinic and are not verified, it's a step up from "are you clean".
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I know it's a story but I bet it happens more often than we think. The long-time "grooming" is different because most stealthing like this would happen at a bathhouse, with a shorter grooming.
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Some tops may not like a loud bottom while fucking outdoors so as a bottom I would just whisper dirty talk to the top and moan quietly.
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For me being a top, a bottom, gay, bisexual, or straight is determined mainly by the guy himself, and not by what he does. That's why I'm not surprised by a top who occasionally bottoms, or a bottom who occasionally tops, or a straight guy who occasionally has sex with men. A top who under certain circumstances bottoms is still a top, not versatile. A guy may be 100% top with dates and boyfriends and on-going fuck-buddies. But if he's out of town on business he may stop at a bathhouse and be a total bottom slut for a night. But he's still a top, if that's because that's how he sees himself. The same goes for 100% bottoms who are afraid of topping because they may loose their bottom "card". I've known of many 100% bottoms who after a long night taking loads at the baths go on the hunt for a hole to quickly fuck and breed before they home home. Usually when bottoms top they don't last very long and cum quickly because they only want to get off and fucking is not that enjoyable for them. Between jerking-off or breeding a hole many bottoms choose the later. Versatile guys enjoy both and are open about it because that's how they see themselves. It's not that some straight men also like men for sex. What they like is the WAY men have sex, anonymous. The idea of being sucked in a gloryhole is only a dream for most straight men. They have no interest in relationships but the fascination with anon sex is universal in men, straight, gay, etc. I see nothing wrong with a straight guy wanting to get sucked and even fucked.
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How To Keep Your Erection At A Sex Party?
hungry_hole replied to bearasseater's topic in General Discussion
My comment to anybody thinking that they may have erectile dysfunction is "You are not watching the right porn!" When I'm watching "the right bareback porn" I can get hard and cum 3-4 times a day. If at the sauna I don't get hard I never think of ED. Some married guys think they have ED because they can't get hard with the wife. -
Has Anyone Heard About Safestsex.org?
hungry_hole replied to hungry_hole's topic in HIV Risk & Risk Reduction
I've used the system (safestsex.org) and exchanged STD data twice by now. One guy who was already a member and another guy who I asked to become a member before we met for sex. After all it only takes 5 minutes to join. The immediate advantage is that I got to read which tests and when those tests were conducted. Yes, it is self-reported so guys could be lying about it. But to me the main point is the clarity of the information one gets from the other member. For instance, I noticed that the guy who had just become a member had not posted anything about Gono and Clam, although he has insisted he was "clean" before the exchange. He said he was going to get tested now for those. This is what I get to see from the other member (I removed the ID). I find it a great idea. STD Profile Exchanged:2016-08-06 17:40 HIV: Negative, last screened May 2016 [3 months ago] Syphilis: Last screened June 2016 [2 months ago] Gonorrhoea: Nothing reported Chlamydia: Nothing reported Hepatitis-B: Immune Genital Herpes: At registration member reported never being diagnosed Hepatitis-C: At registration member reported never being diagnosed -
Readying Your Hole For Multiple Fucks
hungry_hole replied to BlindRawFucker's topic in General Discussion
(1) I've taken multiple loads many times in one evening but I prefer to have a bathroom available if I take more than 3 or 4. All depends on the size of the loads and my digestive system at the moment. (2) I don't think there is one answer to this question because a lot depends on the person, including age. Some technique may work for years and then it can stop working. An example is fiber which for me is no good. Deciding on what to use when douching is also something personal. (3) Prevent discomfort? Not sure what you mean. I may smell the "aroma" of the loads left overnight. (4) The best bet is a bathhouse unless you are in your 20's and 30's when it's easier to hook-up only, exchange sexy pictures, etc. I find that for older guys cruising places are better because no need to ask "Stats? Age?". You meet somewhere in the bathhouse, you like each other and just have sex. -
Why Most Guys Are Not Open To Fucking At Bookstores?
hungry_hole replied to hungryhole82's topic in General Discussion
I'm sure this is the big reason. Any dirty hole getting fucked would leave a mess and no good place to wash or shower. -
For me the risk of STDs has NOTHING to do with why I enjoy barebacking. On the contrary, the risk keeps me away from trying even more sexual experiences. Now that I joined safestsex.org I'll see what it does about the fear. I managed to meet up so far with 2 guys who were also members so I could read all the details of their "screening results". I had syphilis decades ago so in my case the test results for Syphilis are always positive. My record says "Screened for syphilis" which means the clinic determined I was not contagious but my sexual partners don't need know about my past sexual history.
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Asking Ddf? Or Clean? Increases Hiv Infection Risk
hungry_hole replied to seaguy's topic in HIV Risk & Risk Reduction
I'm sure many guys used to refer to being HIV-negative as "being clean", but realized that it somewhat offensive only after they pozed. -
Has Anyone Heard About Safestsex.org?
hungry_hole replied to hungry_hole's topic in HIV Risk & Risk Reduction
That's strange because it worked for me with no problems. Even the sample for works well and it accepts dates. http://safestsex.org/firstrepinfo-en.php. You have to "click" on HIV- or HIV- on PrEP fro the date to appear. From what I understand and after going through the registration process, the first time the dates required for the tests are Year-Month. It assumes, and it turned-out to be right in my case, I didn't have the exact dates of the tests. Then for the following tests results one must have the exact date. It makes sense. -
Has Anyone Heard About Safestsex.org?
hungry_hole replied to hungry_hole's topic in HIV Risk & Risk Reduction
There are never any guarantees, just better protection. Even if guys were tested and data was certified an entered by a clinic there wouldn't be any guarantee either. An identical twin who's poz could get tested instead, or the test results could be wrong. Wearing condoms is no guarantee either. So far I like what I see in safestsex.org. First, nothing else but an email address is required. I don't know how comfortable I would feel about having to provide all my personal data. But an email address is no big deal. Guys are more likely to lie when horny and ready to fuck. But if one has to purposely store the data in a profile that cannot be easily changed, I doubt one would lie in the same way. There is some trace left no matter how anonymous the profile is. -
I've been bottoming bareback and taking loads since the 90's and I've been extremely lucky and I'm still HIV-neg with no other infections either. I no longer have the amount of sex I had in my 30's till my 50's, when I was taking multiple anon loads in one night at the baths. Now I still like having sex but I'm becoming more concerned with HIV because I figure, after so many years, why get infected now and complicate my life with doctor's visits, treatments, having to disclose status, etc. One ongoing fuck buddy texted me telling me he was horny and would like to meet me at a park. He's now living with his girlfriend and concerned about STDs. He mention that he would prefer if I joined safestsex.org and that way I was his STD situation and he saw mine. It took me 10 minutes to join and build what they call an STD Profile. We met at the park today at lunch, he bred my hole. Nothing is 100% safe but every little thing may help. I liked the idea almost immediately especially because I have no desire to poz or get any other STD. I also hesitate getting into PrEP because it only protects you against HIV and don't want any side effects. Has anyone else heard of safestsex.org?
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How Did So Many Tops Become Poz?
hungry_hole replied to cumfillme's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
A guy who's 100% top does not necessarily mean that he never gets fucked because he may present himself as a top in sexual situations because that's how he feels better. An 100% top may allow himself to bottom for his boyfriend or close lovers, but never by a stranger. Some men feel comfortable having sex with guys but only as a top. Some men don't feel comfortable not taking the "male role". Some 100% tops are not really tops and they secretly bottom and that's how they poz. Some 100% bottoms think that if they ever top they are no longer 100% bottoms when in fact all they wanted was to get off inside a sloppy hole. Very similar of what goes on with tops. I was recently chatting with a guy who was forced to being a top because he had developed a fistula. He said "I went from a total cum-whore to a power top". -
This was my last stranger's breeding in a gloryhole: http://barebackbastards.com/24723/craigslist-ad-mature-married-man/ The very verbal breeding starts at minute 3:40 and the pumping goes on for a whole minute. I was left with a very sloppy hole.
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Maybe parts of the cum gets absorbed but not all. What about the odor of old cum in your hole? At least for me it's always there the next day after the breeding. Years ago when condoms were still popular I was at a sauna in Montreal that had a nice play area. Hardly anyone took loads back then. I was already barebacking but I asked them to pull out. He was fucking me in a dark area and all of a sudden he pulls out and starts walking away implying he hadn't cum and wanted a break. I later went to bed and the next morning there was that odor. The guy had bred my hole.
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What's Worse? Aging As A Top Or Aging As A Bottom?
hungry_hole replied to hungry_hole's topic in General Discussion
I agree that there are many good things about aging but it's difficult to see how aging can help a guy in the anon cruising environment of parks, saunas, Grindr, chat, etc. It's clear to me that aging is a disadvantage when it comes to cruising online or in anon places. I don't mean to say that after a certain age a man can no longer find sexual partners. From my own experience I know that hooking up is easier for men in their 20's and 30's. A 25 yr-old in good shape may not be everyone's choice for a sexual partner, but no one would use the word "disgusting" to describe him. They may say "I'm not into young guys". But older guys very often are viewed as disgusting to young guys, which I know because that's the way I felt when I was young. The idea of having sex with a guy over 40 seemed disgusting. Evidence of this is everywhere. Bathhouses advertisements show muscled young men in their 20's and 30'2 but inside all you find is aging men in their 50's and 60's. -
Definitely as deep as possible. Actually, while I'm getting fucked and know that I'm getting their load, I always say "Go deep when you shoot!" I say it because it's sometimes a turn-on for the top and he starts shooting almost right away. But it also makes it clear that I don't want them to pull out.
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Tight Hole V. Loose Hole - Whats Your Preference?
hungry_hole replied to ulterius's topic in General Discussion
Is it that difficult for a bottom to offer all, a loose hole that can tighten at will? I know that is sometimes difficult for guys with tight holes to relax and loosen up. But I can't see how a loose hole wouldn't be able to tighten it up. As a bottom my "default" is a loose hole which I tighten up depending on the needs of the top. Doesn't every bottom do this? -
I think that women are the biggest losers because of the popularity of porn among men. Men start watching porn as teenagers continue as young adults, and then comes the pressure of a committed monogamous relationship with a woman. In the pre-Internet days men had no choice but to adapt to the constraints of monogamy and no porn allowed. Society/Family used to put pressure, but now with less societal pressure men in their late 20's and 30's are not that interested in marriage or committed relationships with women.
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Like everyone else, too many to choose. One that comes to mind was at a room with a sling in a bathhouse in Montreal. As in most cases guys come around but most don't want to shoot their loads yet. There was one guy who kept coming into my room, fucking me for a few minutes and leaving. But as he was fucking me I would try to get him to shoot his load with phrases to encourage him to breed my hole. I kept saying "Go deep when you shoot your load, I want your load deep in my hole". After a while the same guys shows up and starts fucking me and says "You want my load deep inside you, don't you?" And as he was shooting his load he was screaming "Take my fucking load deep in your hole" as he pushed his hard-on as deep as he could.
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Anyone who at a bathhouse asks a poz top "Are you clean?" deserves to get stealth-bred. If I were poz who enjoyed toping and was asked at some anon hook-up place "Are you clean?" I would say "Yes", meaning that I have a clean hole ready to get fucked and bred. I would then ask "Are you clean?" meaning if his hole is clean. I would then fuck him and breed him. If my dick comes out with shit, I would say "I thought you said you were clean". If after the breeding the hole was "clean", I would say, "Yeah, really clean hole!". That would be a lesson.
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I would also like to know what's the experience for a top fucking with a PA. Is there more sensation? How about when a top with a PA breeds the hole? Because if it's really hot for a top with a PA to fuck and breed a hole, I may want to bottom for one.
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That is a huge turn-on, to feel the cum lubricating your hole while the guy on the other side of the partition moans and groans with each thrust. That's when I make sure to open my hole wide to avoid the guy pulling out too quickly.
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