LetsPOZBreed
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My profile name aside, you should never feel ashamed of using it for a compliment! 🙂
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Definite pic collector there. I would have just left him alone and moved on. Seems like you got yours in the end, though (literally and figuratively)!
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If done properly, it feels amazing. Sure, tops come in different lengths, girths, etc. Some things, though, are universal. Going in initially is a bit of a collaborative effort. Definitely should start with some level of lube (even if that lube is spit). From there, a top should push in, and let my ass just relax with it. Jamming it in without any additional consideration will only make me uncomfortable from the get-go, and won't be an enjoyable experience for either of us. Once there is that initial sliding in, a few slow strokes is a good way to get me primed and ready to go; my top's cock starts to feel much more comortable then, and I get the desire to go for more. I'm a big believer in audio/visual cues. Lay me on my face where we're facing each other and pay attention to my moans and facial expressions. You'll know if you're doing it right or not.
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In my younger days, yes. I came of gay age back in the mid-90s. The sexual education I had gotten back then (even those geared toward gay men) implied that even one time without a condom would result in my catching HIV. A programme of education that I take issue with, in hindsight. I was trained to believe that any form of "unsafe sex" was very bad, and should be avoided at all costs. Even the pamphlets to read in those days suggested that oral sex should be performed with a condom, because there's a very slim chance of transmission. The first time I did get barebacked, I was very conflicted. One of those situations where the guy slipped in without one (we had never explicitly spoke about it beforehand). It felt great, but after that it took a few more years before I resolved myself to do it again.
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I think we need to redefine "feeling good about it" here. Dealing with being poz, for me, was a bit of a process. Do I feel good these days? Yes. I define feeling good as being comfortable with managing my health; in a counterintuitive way, I deal with it far better after becoming poz than I was before. If anything, I'm in overall better health after 9 poz years than I did in the preceeding 30+. I was down a dark road emotionally prior to the diagnosis, and quite honestly it was the one thing that helped me get back on track. It's not ideal, but I've often wondered where I'd be today had that diagnosis never happened. Knowing where I was mentally back then, I'd still be addicted to drugs or worse - dead from them. I wonder if the O.P. is recently diagnosed and going through the same conflicting thoughts some of us had at the early stages. After all, we've all dealt with our news differently, so I'm not going to jump to conclusions. I certainly went through my share of depression in the initial stages of diagnosis. I have very close friends who have been poz for decades, so I knew it wasn't the end of the world; however, I don't think (some of us) fully anticipate our own reactions when we're one-on-one in the doctor's office about how our lives are now different.
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This just depends, really. Primarily, I prefer "hole" as the default. If it's a guy I'm comfortable playing a little rougher with, then I don't mind "cunt" (something about that "K" sound just gives it that extra oomph, ya know?). Generally, I hate the term "pussy", but there has been a rare occasion where it's worked. I'd have to really know the guy sexually, so we have that comfort level of what each other is feeling. In the right moment, with the right guy, it can really add to the situation. Any other time, though, it's a complete turn-off.
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I've been at the online dating and app thing for far too long now, but guys who ask for "more pics" fall into two categories: 1. Guys who have been burned by meeting a different guy than expected 2. True pic collectors I've been one of those guys who has met up with a guy who was lying about his photos (by either using someone elses, or using ones that were clearly very old). I do sympathise with those who want some level of assurance that they are messaging someone who's genuine. There comes a point though where you're either reasonably sure, or you feel something's off. If I have doubts, I just end the conversation, rather than asking for more alleged "proof" and wasting both our time. Then there's the pic collectors who's motives one can never really ascertain. Either they want to use someone's "good" pics as their own to catfish someone, or are just looking for spank-bank material to get off. Nothing wrong with having more than one pic on your profile, or sending a couple of additional ones in a chat. I think the underlying issue, though, is at what point do additional pics become overkill. It's the law of diminishing returns. If the fifth picture of yourself shows you look the same as the first four, it's not really adding to the allure. This is especially annoying on sites/apps where you have an allotted amount of photo slots (between four and eight usually) with all slots full. I like to have a good variety on mine, both face and nudes. Asking for any more than that will only get you a view to what you already see. Thing is, there's no guarantee that a guy is telling the truth about themselves in photos on apps/websites - the only real way to know for sure is to meet them in person. A guy can be completely honest with just five pics, while another guy can send you 20 and still be catfishing you. You can even go the route of video calling if you've got enough doubts.
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I'd be interested in something like this. I threw the idea out there a long time ago, but got only bottoms responding. My ideal set-up would be a healthy mix of top/bottom/vers so we can all play with each other. Once we're able to safely do this type of stuff, I'd be absolutely into finding a small group of regulars to meet up with.
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Horse market in Berlin (fickstutenmarkt)
LetsPOZBreed replied to wiltslad's topic in General Discussion
It's on my bucket list of things to do. Once as a mare, another as a stallion. Think I might do one each and then call it a day. -
XTube link collection - breeding videos
LetsPOZBreed replied to bbfan74's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
Yep. My xtube vids have all been deleted, and my favourites are down to 40 vids (from 1000+). Pornhub is dwindling as well, and will prob go to hardly any soon enough. I'm sure there's other sites that we can migrate to, assuming they aren't doing the same (thinking maybe xhamster, thisvid, and barebackbastards?) -
I'm ready for this lockdown nonsense to be over so I can get back to getting fucked regularly. I'm very tight at the moment due to not having any action. I've been thinking of investing in an f-machine to help build my tolerance again for when we can get back to slutting it up a bit more. 🙂
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Younger guys asks for condom more than older ones
LetsPOZBreed replied to 1000GUYS's topic in General Discussion
Yeah, my experience is similar in that older guys rarely use condoms at sex parties...though I've had it happen. I think it depends on the availability of PrEP where you are; if widely available (in a cost-effective manner), you'll get more younger guys willing to play BB. -
Depends on the situation at hand. If i'm topping (on the rare occasion) I like to finish off my bottom by having him cum in my mouth. One of the most intimate finishes to an encounter is holding it there and then going back up and kissing his load back to him (snowballing). If it's a group thing, and I'm on my knees, though - yeah, I'm going to go the bukkake route. Even just the look of jets of cum on my face is enough to get other guys ready to blow.
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Ah, the number of group sex parties I've had at a Motel 6...some fun times. But, alas, times do change. Could be any number of factors, which I think are all listed in various posts above. The drug/prostitution thing has always been a bit of a factor, but the corporate rebranding has lots to do with it as well. Look any slutty gay man in the eyes and say "Motel 6", and we know what's on the cards. Motel 6 knows this, and is apparently trying to get around this. Over the years, I've heard from guys who post for sex parties on BBRT. Earlier in the day, a message would go out to the attendees to confirm location and what-not, but every so often, the hotel would get word about it (prob from some bitchy queen). Many a party has been cancelled under threat from just the thing the OP is talking about. There's a trade off. Obviously, the down-market, seedier places would be less inclined to make a fuss, but with that comes the fact that these places are in far sketchier neighbourhoods that some may not feel safe in. Even I would be a bit skittish if I were there on my own just waiting for guys. Hopefully, you can find something that suits; those can be some of the best parties and experiences if done well.
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I wasn't chasing it - my becoming poz happened due to general irresponsibility than anything else. It's taken a very long time to come to terms with the long and winding road that eventually led to me hitting rock bottom and doing the kinds of things that eventually got me infected. Once that happened, it's been a long and winding road to get my emotional well-being back on the up and up (though it's always a bit tenuous, as I have a constant fear of falling off the wagon). I'm "proud to be poz" in the sense that I've come to accept my status as the learning experience it's become. That DOES NOT mean that I'm happy to have contracted it in the first place. Nor am I going to advocate for anyone to be irresponsible with their own health and wellbeing either. I have friends of mine who were diagnosed as poz long before I received my own diagnosis. On the one hand, knowing them as long as I have, there's a certain level of knowing what I would have been in for; on the other hand, nothing can really prepare you for the emotional roller coaster of that first doctor visit where you get asked all the questions and provide so many samples of blood. The "big deal" is that once it's done, it's done. No undoing it. I don't think that many of those who are actively "chasing" fully grasp what they are potentially getting themselves into. Most importantly, I grew up in the 80's and 90's when gay men had to suffer through those who would claim that this disease was "killing all the right people". Gay men didn't ask for this affliction then, nor are we asking for this now. It's not a "gay disease" that requires that we all actively seek it out to validate our existence.
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I guess the other real question is if you make any second (or subsequent) guy aware that you're already pre-loaded so that they know the risks. I guess it works similar to a top disclosing any risks to me before fucking me - just in reverse. Some guys aren't into sloppy seconds either, but any guy who is will likely understand the risks that they may be taking on.
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how to prevent catching stds?
LetsPOZBreed replied to blackdesert's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
Total prevention would require abstinence, which I don't recommend. This COVID lockdown has taught me just how much I miss being with another man. If your goal is to REDUCE your risk, instead, then I'd take the advice of some of the commenters above. I've accomplished this by narrowing my sexual activity to a small subset of regular or semi-regular partners. While this isn't foolproof (none of us are monogamous), I haven't caught anything in about 8 years. It's a part of life of being a BB bottom that you're accepting some level of risk of STI's. As long as you test regularly, though, you can get treated for anything that may arise and put fewer folks at risk as possible. -
Adam4Adam isn't really popular in Europe, so I haven't actively used it since leaving the US 7 years ago. The underlying issue being addressed by the OP isn't just limited to that one stie, however, as I have personally experienced the same thing on multiple dating/hookup apps as well. I'm of the opinion of being initially polite and respectful...simply stating that I'm not interedted in whatever proposition that is going against my stated interests. (hosting, topping, or especially any kind of drug use). Where I do get a bit miffed, though, are with the guys who are unreasnably persistent or repeat offenders. I find it's easier to just block them and move on, rather than dwell and have a pointless argument with someone I really have no interest in getting to know.
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Vers Bttm, Vers, Vers Top - Differences?
LetsPOZBreed replied to Xfarmboy9's topic in General Discussion
Assuming they're telling the truth about their preferences, yes, there is a difference. One of my ex's called himself a vers top - which was accurate. In the year we were together, I only topped him a few times; I got fucked quite often, on the other hand. I'd say a (true) vers bottom or vers top is a guy who's only interested in changing positions once in a blue moon; do it only when the mood strikes. -
I'm up for joining either group as well. DM me for my number if there's still space 🙂
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I'm in. LDNVersBttm79 on KIK
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What hygiene ‘etiquette’ do you follow at orgies?
LetsPOZBreed replied to BB4fking's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
Douching is imperative. I even go a bit further and not eat for some time ahead of a party, just to make sure that there are no lingering surprises. If I'm at a sauna/sex club, I do like to feel a cock and suck it before letting the guy fuck me. If something looks or feels off at this stage, I walk away. Not foolproof, but has meant that I've not been hit by the STI bug nearly as often as others on here. -
Not necessarily. I find if guys know they are being filmed that they "play to the camera" a bit too much, and it loses it's "realness". Has nothing to do with cost for me - if a scene is truly good enough to pay for, I'll happily do it.
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Do You Like Taking Loads In Dark Rooms?
LetsPOZBreed replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Fickstutenmarkt is on my bucket list since turning 40, but haven't had the opportunity yet (thanks, Covid). Certainly for any other bottoms out there who have gone before, I'd love some tips and advice! Especially when it comes to which city(ies) are the better ones to go to.- 781 replies
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Yeah, sex clubs and saunas are great, but not everyone has easy access to those. What bothers me about xtube/pornhub these days is the sheer amount of "professional" porn available. When I first joined xtube over 10 years ago (yes, I know...) it was overwhelmingly amateur and easy to find hot vids of guys having real sex. Nowdays, most regular amateur posters will charge, and the proper studios have got hot to the fact that they can advertise and sell individual scenes via these outlets. It's rare to find a good free vid of real amateur sex these days.
