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norefusal

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  1. schwing! damn, now i can't leave my desk till this hard on goes down 😜
  2. for us boomers and GenXers who lived thru the trauma of the aids crisis: prep was a game changer. even tho i've taken countless loads over the past few years, emotionally it's never enough to compensate for decades of not taking any. we are also not young studs and boners on demand is a thing of the past. milenials take too many antidepressants 😜prozac gave me ED and as a 30 something i flushed that shit. i'd rather be depressed than celebate. and frankly, given all the yearning for a strong daddy, i think younger guys are too scarred by modern life to be tops. if this was 1960s trump and biden would have had bullets in the back of their heads by now. we older guys may be dicks but we do seem to have thicker skin
  3. how are the housing prices in your area? because i am moving there immediately! 😜 i currently live in southern new england aka bottom capital of the world. the last guy who bred me did so after a long day of swallowing anon loads at a glory hole. even the tops are bottoms here 😜 meth is one part of it but it also much more. considering that the last two guys i topped were a bi flip-flopper and a str8 anal-curious novice, i think tucker carlson has a point about male masculinity crisis: even becky with the good hair's husband craves anon raw dick up the ass 😜
  4. hook up apps expose you to all sorts of people you'd not meet in your everyday life. it also has a way of shining a light on people at their messiest. but it has provided me with many a humorous "and this one time band camp" slutty sex story😜
  5. it all depends. what's both great and awful about sniffies is its full of dl, cheaters, sr8 guys etc and they can be high maintenance and annoying at times. or they can be fun. saturday one hyper guy hit me up lookin for quick head asap and liking my offer of blindfolded door open anon. he wasn't kidding either, got right to it, growing rather quickly as my mouth work on him, then just grabbed my head to hold still for some rough throat pounding. his ragged breathing clued me that he was ready to blow but i wasn't prepared for the absolute flooding my mouth received. i kept swallowing but more jizz kept coming. poor guy must have had a serious 4 day load clogging up his pipes 😜then he zipped up n quickly left. i was almost breathless myself from the driveby skullfucking and the tasty load still coating my mouth, having swallowed what felt like 3 normal loads, all from some bitch's husband i never even saw 🐷 the phone thing also depends wildly on the guy, the vibe, who's doin what etc. i've had dom masters scroll their phones while i blow them. usually they're tryin to whore me out, lookin for other tops to come use me, so i'm cool w the phone in those cases. 🐷
  6. i prefer verbal but variety is the spice of life 😜 anon GH hookup the other day was silent type, but he was one of those guys that finally slams balls deep and then goes still all is quiet including breathing but you feel your hole register each throb from the base of his dick as he pumps 1, 2, 3, 4 squirts before pulling out
  7. you do it cause it feels great. these neg thoughts and/or fear of other people's judgement is what kept me from exploring more at a younger age. ironically, it take a huge amount of self confidence to be a total sub servicing faggot. personally, i'm just glad im not going to end up on my deathbed going "you know, i really wish i'd let two guys piss all over me outside at least just once" when it comes to sex: "life is a banquette and most poor suckers are starving to death!" 🐷
  8. i went over to an anon GH "goatthroat's" house sat nite for the very reason @ShootDownMyThroat described above: after a busy day of servicing he needed to bust a nut in a fellow slut. his profile pic is a close up of his luscious mouth, his surrounding beard covered in thick jizz. now that's truth in advertising! 😜
  9. that being said, he still has a point. i came here not understanding the bug chasing fetish and simply by reading and listening silently, i learned. there's plenty of fetishes i don't get but i dont initiate topics about them just to say "ew". even the post he's responding to is more a statement of dislike rather than a genuine request for information.
  10. the closest tangible real life example i can think of, is when comedians complain that people come up to them after the show to say certain topics shouldn't be joked about. kinda like PC Karens i guess. this is such a non issue for me i can't even be bothered to roll my eyes. people are worried we're all gonna be thrown in jail for using the wrong pronoun, meanwhile people are actually going to jail in real life for abortion, assisted suicide, etc im not saying it's impossible but trust me, ill be long dead before this country ever becomes "too liberal" 😜
  11. i've enjoyed many a fb "relationship" over the years including one that really got me thru covid lockdown w/out going insane 😜 as for regrets: i've only two: 1. lockdown fb was the only one i had during my long marriage and if i had it all to do over id cheat on my husband every chance id get 2. like all other relationships they don't last. i'm sad some of them ended and regret if i was the cause.
  12. i'm a tight bottom so i've tried all of the advice given above. here's my rating in order of best to worst: 1. rimming etc. asses are like cunts. the more foreplay to get us in the mood the more we just open right up. it's almost shocking how wet down there the right guy can make me. 2. pull out, pause, add more lube, try again, don't force. this is my go to when guys rush to the main event. 3. walk away and find a "better" hole. this only happened to me once and i hope the guy is currently having his balls mauled by a wild dog in the most painful and prolonged way. what a dick move!
  13. tbh the gayest thing about this description is that he didn't mention having to pick up pizza for his kids' dinner while walking out zipping his pants up. in my experience str8 guys always need to mention their wives/girls/kids after they nut. i figure it's part guilt, part str8 guy arrogance (they all seem to think everyone is in love w them lol), and part reminder to both of us that what just happened was 100% about nutting and nothing more. i've hooked up w a bunch of straight identifying guys who profess to love breeding ass. and tbh they all do go right for it acting like i got a Ken doll crotch they've no interest in. one of the things i love about these guys is they're also the first to start tellin you to take it like a bitch, smacking your ass etc all the good shit they feel weird doing w the mother of their kids.
  14. i've had similar experiences w site like recon or buddy etc. anyone you chat w is way far away and the 3 guys even remote close are of course the polar opposite of what your looking for. any effort to make s&m happen always seems to come up short, not sure why. even joining the local leather group produced nada, although i've had some fun w sadists i've met thru the local nudist group. go figure. anyone else i've met on sniffies or scruff or even live cruising areas and just been lucky to find a fellow kinkster. although they've all similarly petered out too.. mostly because so much of s&m also seems to be chemsex and i'm not ready to make long term commitment w a drug addiction.
  15. last time i spit, bill clinton was in the white house! who's spitting in 2024 and why?
  16. i can't believe i'm going to say something posiTive about T but it's really what got me to love rimming and being rimmed. if you're both on T, jesus you could do nothing but stay up all night rimming the shit out of each other and consider it "great sex" lol
  17. which? chasing is just that chasing. like sex itself, often the hunt is the real thrill, sometimes more than the catch. for a lot of guys, risky sex is the kink, not being poz. for other guys it is being poz. you can't swing a virtual cat around here without hitting 20 posts about how much better sex was once they converted. and of course, for some guys it's having the gift to give that becomes the fetish. guys who focus on the disease part of it really seem to get off on the idea of spreading it. and then there's all the posts of guys looking for a "recharge" of all the things i've learned by reading this site, i can't think of ever coming across posts about how once it happened it was over and now they're deflated.
  18. some do. i was shocked when my newest doctor questioned just that during a recent check up. i stared at her for a few seconds, first deciding against saying "i dare you to name me one pill on the market today that is free of all possible side effects" then secondly deciding against saying "oh yeah, cause im sure once i get pozzed all those hiv drugs you'll prescribe me are all side effect free" complete w eye roll. instead i changed the subject. of course, she was in fact pushing the old "never leave the house without at least two condoms on" dog n pony show so... i decided to avoid sparring with someone who may be voting for kennedy in november 😜
  19. basically if you're not one of the village people i'm not interested 😜 i've gotten off w off duty bi-curious cops in public cruising areas back in the day when arrests were still common. im most often exposed to construction workers thru work so the risk of being fired for inappropriate behavior is an added heart-pumping kink. oh, and anyone who's a gangbanger/punk/thug mmmmm... that horrid/wonderful moment where you don't know if they're going to kiss you or kill you. to quote Ken "sublime!" 😜
  20. sorry. i'm an older gay guy from the boston area. it's safe to assume almost every word out of my mouth is sarcasm said with the tone of a true smartass. 😜
  21. not sure what you mean by "profile" i get your overall point: it reminds me of circa 1990 when a fag could take a sip of miller lite and a drag off his marlboro and then go "stop bangin on about jesse helms. i'm not into politics" lol but i also get that i don't mention it on grindr because i like my men like i like my coffee: the less i know about it the better! im sure ive unknowingly sucked MAGA dick and i'd swallow every drop again. when it comes to dick, i support "don't ask, don't tell" 😜
  22. well, now it's out that he's nothing more than a gop operative tryin to help get our american hitler elected again. his family must be proud lol
  23. not dirty unwashed gross but masc man scent. last week i went out to a leather bar. this hot daddy probably showered well before getting dressed to go out, but after freeballin in a pair of tight leather pants for a few hours, when i went down on him in the back room the ball sweat was intoxicating. i could have lived in that man's crotch for days, i was gettin high off the musk 😜
  24. it's the smell that bothers me most. i've had tops make this request and sometimes it goes well but other times it starts to smell and i'm put off. but i get this more w bottoms who didn't prepare. i don't even mind fingering or fucking it but the smell especially once i'm out... i have to go running for the sink and just scrub scrub scrub lol idk some dirty is too dirty
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