tallslenderguy

hey phukhole, got here this afternoon (_!_)

This is where I will be staying... have a room for 5 nights

made reservations for Palm Springs, looks like it will be fun.

I haven't adjusted to my age. I turned 60 in October and do not see myself as 'typical.' I'm not as horny as I used to be, so I think that helps. When I am horny, the feeling is just as intense (maybe more?) than it ever was. I don''t think the less frequency of the need/desire makes it easier for one to get what one wants. As a bottom cum slut, it's easier to get what I want because my only 'limit' is do you have a cock that you can fuck with and cum? If I am face down, visual doesn't apply. Tops have to look at who they fuck, so it is much more of a factor. Meaning, how we look as bottoms matters more. I.e., we're going to have more appeal the more appealing we make our selves. For me, I've always managed my weight and for most of the last 10 years sex has been very anonymous, meaning the top doesn't even see my face, just my back side. I'm honest about my age, so fewer people hit on my ads, but I get a lot of repeats from those who know me, so I'd cultivate fb's as a way to get what you want?

haha, yeah, this reminded me of a time I was driving down a street and a guy pulled up next to me and looked over at me, that's all he did, kind of a magical communication. I followed him, he pulled into a Burger King, went into the restroom. I followed and he locked the door behind me, pulled my pants down and fucked me, came and left.

The net and smart phones have definitely changed the cruising dynamic. Getting sex was different during the 80's, no doubt about it. I was living in Hampton Roads VA at the time (Virginia Beach, Norfolk...), home to the worlds largest navel base. There were lots of easy cruise places, but I remember one beach in particular where you could go pretty much any time and find anywhere from 5 to 30 guys cruising. And restroom sex was so common, there were several places you could go and get almost instant sex. There wasn't the buffer of space and electronics. And yes, the net does serve those looking for fantasy much better than cruising places do. I run into that a lot, guys will chat me up to the point of actually asking for my address and then disappear from the face of the earth. On the other hand, I like the component of being able to exchange fantasy and info with someone ahead of time, for me it's like foreplay and gets me even hornier, but I do want to follow through and actually do it vs just jack off to fantasy... which I find very frustrating.

As a cum hungry slut, I like the idea, butt have never experienced a true darkroom. I live in OR and go to Hawks BH in Portland, but I don't think their darkroom is much of a darkroom, more like a dimly lit closet (maybe 6"x5') it's small and only has a smallish padded platform. To me, it doesn't qualify as a "room" or "dark." I guess it can't be pitch black, but not light enough to see the outline of a persons body or features. Would like to find a real one, but the only other BH in Portland is Steam, and they don't have one at all.

It depends. I'm a cum slut and you don't get any cum from a toy. Butt I'm also a slut, so if the top is really into it, then it can be really hot. I have a fb who Ive played with for 2 years and he only plays safe. He's really careful, even wears gloves (which has a kink factor). He is really into opened and cum sloppy hole though. He loves it if my hole is cum filled. He often uses a toy with me to open and gape my hole. Recently he's been using a speculum and I've finally been getting his cum in me (he jacks it in after fucking me with a condom on). Bottom line for me is the energy of the top using the toy. Some tops manage to convey their lust through the toy and it becomes an extension of them, and that's HOT. Others cannot connect to the toy and it feels mechanical and I don't get into it. I use them on myself sometimes, but it doesn't cum close to being as pleasurable.

Not as a rule. For me rimming a Tops ass doesn't connect with my psyche of being a sub bottom. Not that I won't or haven't rimmed a fine ass (if it's clean), but not someone who identifies as "Top.". For me a mans ass is the hottest part of his anatomy, top or bottom, so ass is a real turn on for me. Butt it's a turn on for me to see as it thrusting up and down and around while fucking, there's a power there that is totally hot to me. I'm not exclusively sub, but can go there very easily it seems and part of my sub persona is being a hole to breed, i.e., I associate ass holes with breeding, so it just doesn't fit to treat a tops hole as a pleasure center to me. I'd actually be afraid of encouraging towards more... i.e., bottoming, which I don't wanna do.

lol

Ive had a few experiences with couples. I played with one couple in particular on several occasions and it was good. They were a mixed race couple (black and white) and had a nice place with a pool, hot tub and tv thet covered an entire wall. The white guy had the larger cock and only liked to get sucked, the black guy loved to fuck and also had a nice cock. The black guy was also fond of kissing. I'm a really picky kisser, not into having my face inhaled or lots of spit or frenzied tongue probing. I haven't found many guys who I enjoyed kissing, but this guy was an awesome kisser, we had great chemistry. Typically we'd start out in the hot tub and end up on a sofa in their theater with the white guy sitting legs spread while I went down on him and his partner would watch some and end up behind me and slide in doggie style. It was always nice and rhythmic sex... kinda miss them since I moved.

Not sure. SF isn't bad, I drove down to SF in June to meet up with a friend for a few days, but didn't do any sex while there. I drove down the coast, beautiful drive in the convertible, but too cold for that in the winter. About a 9 hour drive taking the inland interstate, so doable. Flying is pretty cheap, but staying in SF is pretty pricey. I'm guessing the sex clubs there are second to none? Seattle is a thought. I'm walking distance from the train station where I live, could be fun to do that. Why do you think Seattle would be busier than Pdx?

thanks for the input on input guys. First day off from my marathon work week... healthcare. 13 hour shifts for a week, but then I get a week off, so am wanting to use my weeks off more effectively.

Is it spring? My body seems to feel that way, because I am craving being bred, even more than usual. Even at work I find myself on my phone on break wanting it badly, wanting cock is never far away from my consciousness. I work in healthcare, 13 hour shifts, 3 on, 1 off, 3 on, then a week off. I don't have any time for sex when I am working, butt get every other week off, so lots of flexibility. I wanting to do something on my week off starting Friday, go someplace where I can get bred a lot and pissed into and used for pleasure. I go to Portland (closest city) to a bath house for a day, but it's not a huge city and the bath house can be hit or miss. The "dark room" is the size of a closet and not very dark. I don't care who breeds me, I just want cum and cock in my hole, so would love suggestions on good destinations for sex? Not rich, so and thinking some place closer vs farther from OR, places where airfare is cheap. Three thoughts are Las Vegas, Palm Springs and San Fransisco? Would appreciate ideas and input. Thanks

I saw this in another thread and like it. I'd have to say "bitch" as well, with some of the others thrown in? My qualifier is that I'm a total slut and do not care about size. I have taken some tiny cocks and I end up having the same feelings of adoration as for the guys with large cocks. I love a tops desire to breed and that is what spreads my legs almost unconsciously. "Bitch" works for me because I feel like a bitch in heat.

This is kinda fascinating. I'm a very sub bottom of a sort. I'm sub but not masochistic. My guess is it may be conditioning. As a kid I had a lot of bullies in my life. Kids seem to be intuitive and cruel at the same time, I seemed to have it written on me. As an adult, I got a 2nd degree black belt and pity the guy that tries to mug or abuse me in a way that triggers that childhood angst lol, they wouldn't know what hit them. I have a high threshold for pain, again conditioning, but I don't get off on it at all. On the other hand, I crave being used for pleasure and don't mind being 'degraded' if I see a top is turned on by it. The lines we draw are varied, it's interesting stuff.

I love the Bd part but not the Sm, no thrill from pain here, but love to be subjugated.

Good point, it should be qualified we're talking sti's here that are treated with antibiotics.

When I was younger and married I used to hook up on the DL, usually in restrooms. One guy became a regular and would wait for me at a particular restroom. He'd spit on his cock and slide under the stall wall and I'd sit on it and he'd breed me. One time he followed me from the mall where we hooked and found the office building where i worked. He made an appointment to see me, ostensibly to sell me something. I had no idea who it was until he showed up. He saw how my office was set up. He left a note on my car to meet him in the downstairs restroom when he drove by (he knew I could see all the cars that drove by from my corner office since he'd been there, it had floor to ceiling windows). Once I was with my wife and he walked past us in the mall, so he knew I was married. I was scared to death he was going to expose me, and he knew it and pretty much had a hole to fuck anytime he wanted, and he'd subtly hint he'd expose me if I ever said no. Looking back on it as I am now, it's really hot to me because I'm a slut now, but then I was conflicted and scared and he used it to his advantage.

LMAO. I never thought of this. I love PA's and wouldn't mind if one automatically came installed on all tops.

One of the things many bottom cumsluts have in common is we'll do just about anything to find guys who want to breed when we're feeling it. Among those efforts, for me, is the craigslist (CL) ad. I've had enough success using CL that, despite the crazy and frustrating flakes, I keep employing the list sometimes when I'm in heat. For the life of me though, I cannot figure some of the craziness out. I think I kinda get the responses of guys who are prolly married or closeted and just getting off on talking, but have no intention of hooking or chicken out last minute. I can wrap my head around those guys (so to speak). But I'm becoming convinced there is something more sinister afoot at CL. Case in point: I ran an ad today and got, really straight forward and to the point. Even the title was "cumdump." I got 4 responses. and they all seemed legit, but I'm beginning to wonder if there's not some religious conspiracy or something to try and frustrate cumsluts lol? I've gotten to the place where I don't give out my actual house address till the very end, and I like to have some exchange first to try and vet the person and determine if they're for real. These guys all answered questions and sent pics, and got as far as my street and cross street info, but they all disappeared after saying they wanted to come over. This one in particular cracked me up: One of the guys sent a hot pic and a coherent note responding to my ad as if he'd actually read it. Then wrote saying he just got off work asked if I was ready. I replied "yes" and he disappeared. Then 5 hours later I get an email from him "where?" blink. this was my response, but I swear I'm replying to some sort of sophisticate bot... I just can't figure the purpose? lol you: "are you ready now? I just got off work." me: "yes" you (5 hours later): "where?" rolls eyes

"Pig Breeding With Ugly/unattractive Men" One of the things I love about my sexuality is how it has taught me to question the status quo. If it weren't for my sexuality I never would have questioned my absurd religious upbringing, which is just a form of cultural ethnocentricity. For me, that questioning has extended to tons of notions for instance ideas/definitions of beauty and "ugly." I understand that our response of attraction to another person is not necessarily cerebral, prolly largely emotional, but I do think a lot of it is learned behavior... and what makes it "right" or "true?" Being a cumslut bottom has gone a long way towards getting me past my ideas of beauty, mainly because my drive to be bred and have a mans orgasm in me has kind of overcome my learned emotional dispositions about "ugly/unattractive." What's the result? Guys who might normally experience rejection, loneliness and go without have the opportunity to experience pleasure and touch with another human being. So how is being a slut who loves making others orgasm a bad thing vs a discriminating, superior snob who makes others feel rotten to elevate their own self worth a 'good' thing to be emulated and prized?

lol, no. For me it's kinda weird, almost primal, like life depends on it (i.e., pregnancy). Of course, no chance of that, but I wonder if I got some female DNA coding that makes me want a guys seed deep inside me? It's a little mind bending. I'm like a bitch when I get in heat, so maybe I have some canine DNA as well lol. When a guy orgasms inside of me I have an emotional response that borders on adoration, no small wonder that Dom and sub relationships happen.

That's great Hotboi01, I think you are showing a lot of strength and character, which is pretty much opposite of what the general culture would say. I would wager more people get sick using public restrooms than do having sex, but we don't shame people for using them to fulfill a basic need. Instead, we hire cleaning services and try to overcome the issues with sharing toilets. The question is, who gets to make the judgement that the kind of sex we have is wrong, and why? So much of it is tied into being "gay" or "bi" and residual from when society largely thought that was 'bad'. If everyone would get checked once a month for a year, we could virtually eradicate a lot of STI's, but the stigma attached to it keeps a lot of people from doing it.

Interesting subbytch, based on this list and how you self describe I would say you're a cross between some of these, but not mostly "bitch". I really like these definitions though, it helps put a perspective on my own sub nature. I see myself a 'bitch' because I am not into being abused, and object or slave...